DATING TIPS

The Effective Way To Get A Girl To Go To Your Place

2011-11-11T04:37:00.001-08:00

The Effective Way To Get A Girl To Go To Your Place is to INVITE HER OVER in the first place... right?

    How hard is it to convince a woman to come to your place?

    Not hard at all.

    In fact, I'd say it's EASY.

    The key is to TEMPT her with a reason. Over the years, it was discovered that the best temptation is not your art collection, your CD's, your Star Wars figures ( hide them all!), or your goldfish tank...but...

    FOOD.

    Let a woman know that you're a GREAT chef, and she's going to rush over to your place for food and dessert.

    Here's what you do:

    Next time you talk to a woman, bring up the subject of good food. Talk about classy dishes that you have tried cooking at home. Drop a few names in French, Italian, or Spanish. Then talk about the special desserts in those cultures. Describe the sensations of all the glorious food in detail.

    Then just when the woman is salivating, tell her you're going to experiment with a new dish the next weekend and invite her to come over and try it.

    Then divert her attention by telling her that there is one condition: she is going to have to dress up if she's going to come over for a proper dinner. See the subtle psychological trick? Now instead of thinking about whether she should accept your offer or not, she's thinking about how she can impress you by wearing a nice dress. (A dress that you're going to rip off after dinner anyway).

    Have fun!

How To Get A Girl's Phone Number - 3 Significant Methods

2011-09-11T01:40:00.000-07:00

By Chris Miller

Your dating life will take off when you master the talent of collecting contact information from the women you meet. When you learn this, you can still communicate with women after the very first time you meet them.

Some guys go for the number as soon as they start talking with the girl. Being able to get a phone number is a challenge in itself. Like it or not, the choice to be in touch again is reliant on the woman. You cannot force a woman to hand over her number. Even before you ask, she should be thinking "I hope he asks my number".

Here are some tips to making sure a girl will give you her digits.

Step 1: Stunning First Impression

While it's true that you should never judge a book by its cover, the books that have interesting things on the cover will be picked up first. A good first impression is priceless. Beautiful girls are generally quick to judge in the dating scene. Girls who are hit on by men often will tend to do this. The girls we would rate a ten are constantly bombarded with pick up lines and other gimmicks by guys like you.

Step 2: Grab Her Attention

If you understand what makes a girl turn her head and give you her full attention, this step should be straightforward. You'll be boring her to death if you only talk about common things like the weather. In the very first few minutes of conversation, she would probably know if she still wants to continue the talk. Have a list of openers ready if you've no idea how to grab a woman's full concentration.

If you ramble on and on without any direction, a girl's attention becomes fragmented. She may begin looking around for somebody else to talk to. The point is, if you are boring, she will not willingly provide you with her number when you ask. The truth is, you may not even have the chance to ask her number because she slipped away.

Step 3: Hook Her Into the Discussion

A fine way to make a woman go on to talk to you is to let her do the talking. This means the old twenty-questions type of conversation is out. You know about leading questions right? These are the kinds of questions you need to ask. A leading question is a very good way to let her answer in her own words, while you think of a follow up according to her answer.

You can ask her why she chose that nightspot to go to. You can also tell her something like "You ordered manhattan? You have to be Aries" to get her interested. Questions that can be cleared with yes or no are not good.

These tips will enhance your probability of getting her number at the end of the night.

About the Author:

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How to Get Over Your First Love

2011-07-03T23:50:00.000-07:00

By Kevin Kurgansky

Getting over a break up is hard; however, getting over the first breakup is definitely the hardest. The reason it's so much harder than all the other breakups is because it's your first love. So it's not just any old regular break up for us, it's a break up with the person who first showed us what it means to love.

You probably spent most of your time together and now you have a difficult time picturing what your life's going to be like without them. In fact, just the thought of losing them is terrifying. You might have a hard time believing that you'll ever be happy again. But if you follow the 3 tips below, I guarantee that you'll be able to get over your first love and move on with your life.

1. Do not talk to your ex for the next month

You can't truly get over them if you guys are still friends. You have to cut all contact with each other while you attempt to get over it and move on. I know that it's hard, it feels you're suddenly losing your best friend. However, this is the first step that you absolutely MUST take if you want to get over your ex.

2. Make an effort to grow and become a better person.

A relationship is not a mistake if you're able to learn something from the experience. Think about what happened and see what you can learn from it. This is an opportunity for you to see things from a new perspective and change for the better. Remember that the more you learn and grow, the more satisfying your future relationships will be.

3. Don't be afraid of loving again

Just because your first relationship didn't work doesn't mean that all your future relationships are going to fail too. Keep in mind that every person you're going to meet is going to be different. Therefore, every relationship will play out differently too. Don't project your past into the future and assume that things are going to go bad. I know it may feel like you're doing it to protect yourself from getting hurt; but in reality, you're only hurting yourself. Let go of any negative reactions you had from your relationship and put them in the past. Make a choice to be optimistic about the future. Open yourself up to love.

About the Author:

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How To Not Lose Your Girlfriend

2011-06-10T02:19:00.000-07:00

Here is how to not lose your girlfriend:

1) Don't Think Your Work Is Finished

Just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean you will keep her. Here is a pattern that I see all the time as a dating and relationships coach:

Guy chases girl.

Guy gets girl.

Guy stops doing the things that helped him get the girl.

Guy loses girl.

Are you going to be one of these guys? I hope not!

2) Don't Ignore The Details

If you want to keep a woman, then pay attention to details. Notice the things she does and give her special attention. When she is unhappy, read between the
lines instead of just taking her word for it. Because if you ask her what's wrong, she will just say "Nothing."

It is up to you to read into the details and see why she is upset. But don't worry, it doesn't take a genius to understand women. With a little bit of
practice, you will be able to do it too.

3) Don't Stop Being A Challenge

As I say all the time, if you stop being a challenge in a relationship, romantic respect will drop and attraction will lower over time.

4) Don't Freak Out Over Her Ex's

A lot of my readers freak out when their partners talk to their ex's. This is a normal reaction, but next time it happens, ask yourself this question:

"Is there anything I can do to lower my partner's possible attraction towards an ex?" The answer is "no" and you should leave it at that. You can't change how a woman feels about another man, so just focus on keeping her attraction towards you high.

If she likes you enough, she won't think about other guys - unless she has bad character. (In this case, you don't want to date her anyway!)

5) Don't Criticize Her In Front Of People

Remember my golden rule: always compliment your girlfriend or wife in public. Don't put her down in front of other people!

6) Don't Clash With Her Friends And Family

Do your best to avoid clashing with her friends and family. Put on a smile and be polite no matter how much you dislike them. After all, you don't want her to
have to choose between you and them, do you?

7) Don't "Just" Be Her Best Friend

Don't just be a woman's best friend. Be her lover. Keep the stakes and attraction high, and she won't leave you.

8) Don't Let Her Stop Over Your Boundaries

Don't be a doormat and let women walk all over you like so many guys do. Define your boundaries clearly and don't let your partner step over them.

Appeasement cannot keep a woman close to you in the long run!

9) Don't Try To Solve Her Problems

When a woman is sad, she wants to be comforted, not lectured to. Keep your solutions for her problems to yourself for now. Give her a hug and listen to her talk. Use my happy walk technique to cheer her up if necessary.

10) Don't Stop Being Romantic

When was the last time you lit the candles?

When was the last time you were proactive in doing something romantic?

One of the keys to a healthy relationship is to keep things exciting. If she can feel the excitement, then she will want to be close to you.

good luck!

time to break out of your shell

2011-04-24T03:07:00.000-07:00

Today I am going to show you one little secret that can get you lots of girls:

Be enthusiastic with your life.

If you look around you, you'll notice that the people who are the most attractive and charming are often the people who are the most enthusiastic with their lives.

As humans, we're naturally drawn to people with "high-energy" - people who're full of life and not afraid to be passionate.

Passion is sexy - in both men and women.

Think about it. Would you rather date a woman who talks in a monotone and never wants to go out, or would you she enjoys in life?

Now...pretend you're a woman. Would you rather date a sexy, adventurous man...or would you rather date a boring geek?

Enthusiasm is sexy, period. So if you're a couch potato who stays at home all the time, I strongly encourage you to go out with live life.

It doesn't mean you have to have a lot of money or drive a fast car. It doesn't mean you have to have a top job and party every night after work. It just means you have to have something to live for...something to be passionate about.

Don't sit in front of a computer screen all day. go out and enjoy the sunshine. Find a hobby or two. Have dreams and ambitions. Heck, work on saving the world if you're up for a challenge.

Just find something you REALLY enjoy doing. Something you can be PROUD of.

Here's a good start: Flip through the community programs guide and find a few classes that you have never done before. Just try ANYTHING...even if it's just a 1-day hike or a cooking class.

It's time to break out of your shell!

How To Use Your Flirty Voice To Flirt With Women

2011-03-31T05:48:00.000-07:00

How To Use Your Flirty Voice To Flirt With Women:

1) Practice saying "hello".

The first thing I would like you to do is to practice saying "hello" in a "teasing" manner.

Imagine you're teasing a girl you like, but the only word you're allowed to say is "hello."

How would you say it then? How would you sound?

You can also imagine yourself cuddling with a girl. As you cuddle with her, you want to tell her how cute she is and how much you want her, but once again, the only word you're allowed to let out is "hello."

How would you say it then? How would you sound?

2) Once you have your sexy "hello" down, apply the same voice tone to the rest
of your speech when you are flirting with women. Speak a bit slower than usual, pause
at the right spots, and just let your flirty voice take you to wherever it takes you
naturally.

3) When you're out with a woman, practice using your flirty voice with a set minimum amount of time. For example, start with using two minutes of flirty speech and then build it up to five minutes. Eventually, you should have no trouble
calling up your flirty voice or "staying" in your flirty voice when necessary.

4) Finally, combine your flirty voice with some physical touching and some serious rapport building.

You're going to be unstoppable! good Luck!

How To Have Charisima In Dating

2011-01-02T00:45:00.000-08:00

It shouldn't take a genius to know that men with charisma will get more women when it comes to dating.

So here are a few tips on how to increase your charisma.

1) Learn Effective Communication Skills.

This is the number #1 key to kicking up your charisma. Learn how to put other people completely at east in any social situation. Men who are good with women and often good with people, period. The "shy" guy who never speaks (due to a lack of effective communication skills) won't be getting much attention from anyone - men or women.

Tip: Join Toastmasters.

2) Be Natural And Honest

In order for charisma to work, it must seem natural. So learn to RELAX and put your HEART in whatever you say.

Tip: Be passionate about the things you talk about.

3) Make Them Smile

Don't be afraid to poke fun of yourself casually. Just don't go overboard to "entertain" other people.

Tip: All guys are funny when they are RELAXED.

4) Read More

Your education is very important. Charismatic people often have a very strong core knowledge. They are the kind of people who can talk to anybody about anything.

Tip: Have a lifelong commitment to learning.

5) Check In The Mirror

The mirror never lies. What you see in the mirror is what other people see. Make sure you GROOM YOURSELF and have a clean appearance. Work on your body language and learn to walk tall and act confident.

Tip: Groom yourself and work on your body language.

6) Inspire Others

Charismatic people can often stir up certain emotions in people around them.

Tip: Be passionate and talk with your "heart" when you talk to women. Use the skills you've learned from this newsletter and from my "Smart Dating Course" to release all her inner fantasies and hidden emotions.

7) Have Substance

Make sure you also carry the depth or the substance you need for the long run. If you're "just" charismatic with little to offer in a long run, you're going to have trouble holding long-term relationships once women see what a loser you really are. Be likable, but have substance as well.

Tip: Keep improving yourself.

How To Invite A Woman Home

2010-11-20T00:51:00.000-08:00

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One of the pressing questions that most of the guys asked is how a man can invite a woman home.

It's actually really easy. Here are four ways to do it.

1) Cook Her Dinner

One easy way is to offer to cook her dinner or for HER to come over and cook YOU dinner. It puts the focus on food (and women can't resist great food...) instead of what may happen at your apartment...

If you need a little bit of extra courage, try to talk about a nice dish that you love to make or a nice bottle of wine that you'd like to open when you have guests over. REALLY try to sell it. If the woman gets excited or curious about it, invite her over for dinner so she can try it.

2) Have Something Cool At Your Place

You can also tempt women to come back to your place by having a cool place. Artwork and music collection often work if you share similar tastes. Cute pets sometimes work wonders. (Depends on the woman.) Having a nice pad with a hot tub would obviously be king. (If you can afford it.)

3) Meet Near Your Place

Look for special restaurants or dessert places near your place. This way, you can easily invite her over when you're done dinner or dessert.

It's very easy to ask for a woman to come check out your place if it is within walking distance.

4) Meet AT Your Place Before A Date

Of course. You can also offer to meet AT your place before the date. (If you're going to go somewhere nearby) Why? Because once a woman has gone to place for a first time, getting her to go back again will be a lot easier...

so that is it... good luck!

10 Ways To Make A Girl Feel Comfortable At Your Place

2010-10-04T19:52:00.000-07:00

Image via WikipediaIt is in a woman's nature to enter a man's household and domesticate his life. This is why having a nice pad is such an important part of courtship. If a woman can see herself as part of your world, her attraction for you will go up. If she is disgusted or uncomfortable, her interest will probably drop. So here are 10 ways to make a woman feel comfortable at your place.

1) Have a Nice Place
Obviously, the first thing to do is to get a nice place. By nice, I don't mean expensive. Just be serious about apartment hunting and find a "cool" place even if it takes you a few months to find one. If you know any friends who are great at finding bargains, ask for their help.

2) Keep It Clean
Girls don't like messy apartments. If you want to take things further, you better make sure your place is spotless (by guy standards, which isn't that high) before you bring her back.

3) Personalize It
Clean and tidy doesn't mean "showroom empty." If your place is too bare, she may find that creepy because you may seem like the kind of shady guy who moves from town to town.

4) Have a Picture Or Two
To show that you are a real human being and to generate conversation, have a few pictures from your past. Guys without any pictures are, once again, creepy.

If you want to build social proof, then have cool, adventurous pictures. It always works.

5) Have Good Reading Material
Have some intellectual books or magazines on your bookshelf. Women love to check out what kind of books and magazines you read in order to assess your education level and personality.

6) Be Classy
Be classy. If you can afford it, have a nice stereo system or home theater. If you can't afford it, then buy cheap poster prints of famous paintings and put them up on your wall.

7) Act Casual As If She's Been There Before
When she shows up, act like as if she's been there before. This will create a relaxed atmosphere for her. Don't do the tour stuff. Just sit down on a couch and relax.

8) Let Her Cook
Set up a cooking date so that she can cook for you. As soon as a woman steps into a kitchen and cooks for a man, she sees herself as part of the domain.

9) Display Trophies
If you have any cool trophies, display them as a way of building social proof.

10) Display Some Sort of Musical Instrument
If you play any musical instruments, display it as a way of building social proof and generating conversation topics.

go!, Date yourself out...

10 Things To Remember When You Approach A Woman

2010-08-28T02:49:00.000-07:00

Image via WikipediaHere are 10 things to remember when you approach a woman:

1) Have a smile on your face. Not a nervous smile, but a confident, charming smile. Have the smile even if the woman is not looking at you. Having a genuine smile will help give you more confidence as well as create a good first impression.

2) Make eye contact if possible. It's not always possible, but when possible, do it.

3) Open up your body language. Think high and wide. Imagine a string holding your head up at the top of your head.

4) Walk over casually. A mistake I see all the time is that guys often walk too fast when they approach women. They wait 10 minutes to get the courage to approach, and when they finally do, they walk there quickly. This actually raises the internal alarm in a woman's mind. A casual walk there is much better as it will make her feel more at ease with you.

5) Be away of personal space. Make sure you don't get too close and invade her personal space at the beginning.

6) Don't try to "act smooth." In my experience, a lot of guys actually put on an "act" as a way to protect their inner ego. This way when they get rejected, they can feel like the woman has rejected their "act" instead of their actual selves. I know it takes a lot more courage to be genuine, but really, while putting on an act may help protect your ego in the short run, it will damage your success in the long run.

7) Try to match her energy level. Make sure your energy level is not too low or too high relative to hers. If a woman has high energy, approach with low energy and you will seem boring. If a woman has low energy and you have too much energy when you approach, you will make her feel alarmed.

8) If you're approaching a woman who is with friends, approach the whole group rather than her. If you approach her alone, her friends will give you resistance.

9) If you have no idea what to say, think about what you would say if you were just chatting up a random stranger and to get his or her attention. The point of an opener is to start a conversation, and that's it. Don't worry about creating attraction, etc. That comes later.

10) Remember that you're just trying to make friends. Let go of your expectations and have fun. That's the most important thing to remember!

Good Luck!

Signs that She Is Blowing You Off

2010-07-01T07:49:00.000-07:00

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Here are more signs that a woman is blowing you off.

1) She mentions a boyfriend AND she does not flirt back.
If a woman mentions her boyfriend when you attempt to flirt with her, it's a sign she probably wants to be left alone. If she keeps flirting back, however, then she *could* be attracted to you.

2) She ignores your emails completely.
If she never replies to your email, you can bet she is blowing you off.

3) She sends you one-word answers to your emails.
A woman with a high interest level will not give you one-word answers when she responds to your email. It is a major indicator that she is not interested. Keep bugging her with more emails, and eventually she will stop answering them completely.

4) She still won't come over for dinner after a few dates.
A woman with a high interest level will love to come over for dinner - even if she does not expect to have sex. In fact, if a woman is interested enough, she probably won't mind cooking dinner with you or for you!

5) She tells you "maybe" when you suggest doing something 2 weeks in the future.
A woman with a high interest level will not say "maybe" when she has not even scheduled so far away yet. Instead, she will say "yes" and then fit her schedule AROUND you.

So...what do you do if a woman blows you off?

Well, honestly, by the time a woman blows you off, it's usually over. The resistance point isn't at when she blows you off. It's at BEFORE you make a move and she blows you off.

If a woman blows you off, there are two possibilities. One is that you're not her type or she is loyal to her boyfriend. The other is that she is not attracted enough.

If a woman is not attracted "enough", it means you haven't done a good enough job of building the chemistry and rapport with her.

To build chemistry with a woman, remember to focus on the attraction by flirting, teasing, and acting like a challenge.

Good Luck!

What does it mean if a woman keeps looking at you?

2010-05-06T08:12:00.000-07:00

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Well, there are two possibilities. One is that she is checking you out. Remember that in most cases, if a woman is not interested in you at all, she will not even "see" you. So the fact that she is looking at you could be a sign that she is curious about you and checking you out.

Of course, there's also the possibility that she's looking at you because she thinks you look or act funny in a bad way. This is quite rare because women often IGNORE the guy they find disgusting to avoid any contact. However, when a group of girls gather together, they may look around for guys to make fun of because it is "safe" to do so.

To find out which category you belong in, check out the body language of the woman and the "context" of the situation. If a woman is alone and she keeps looking at you and smiling, then chances are, she's interested. If a woman is in a group and the women keep looking at you and giggling in your direction, then try smiling back at one of them and see how they react. If she woman gets excited, it's a good sign. But if she turns away in disgust while other woman keeps laughing, then they're probably making fun of you. (Once again, this is quite rare. Most of the time, a woman who keeps checking you out is at least a bit interested in you!)

4 Important Keys To Having A Great Relationship

2010-04-04T08:02:00.000-07:00

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1) Character

It doesn't matter how much you love the person. A relationship with someone with bad character is going to be extra tough. Expect tons of drama and be prepared to be drained emotionally.

If you want a relationship free of relationship drama, then don't go out with the wrong person in the first place!

2) Personal Space

No matter how addicted you are with your partner at the moment, make sure you give them sufficient breathing room. Otherwise, the more you try to keep them within an arm's reach, the more you will push them away.

3) Quality Romance Time

No matter how long you've been together, you still have to spend some quality romance time together. If you never do anything fun and romantic, the chemistry will eventually die and it won't be long before the relationship falters too.

Don't use lack of time as an excuse. Life is about priorities. If you aren't willing to put the time and energy to make your relationship work, then don't cry when you lose it one day.

4) Romantic Respect

Lastly, a relationship without proper romantic respect will die over time. This is why you should never totally stop acting like a bit of a challenge - even if you have been together for twenty years. If your partner loses romantic respect with you, it'll only be a matter of time before the relationship goes down the tube as well!

Some tips to carry when Online Dating

2010-01-14T05:36:00.000-08:00

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Man will never be an island.

Yes, as long as we breathe, we live as social creatures. We have this innate longing for companion- for someone to talk to, to listen, to comfort. Even the person who people think to be cold has another individual by his or her side. When one feels alone, it is like all the ghosts of life haunt him or her. All the emptiness tend to grow when one has nobody to call his or hers.

Many resort to Online Dating. The web offers numerous websites where you could meet, make friends, and, have relationship with persons who are registered in these websites. You just do not know what story of friendship or love awaits you. When you are single, with that it means you may be someone really single, divorced, widow, widower- online dating is there. Just like any kind of dating, one needs to equip his or her self with the different tips needed to make the most out of it.

There are these traditional dating strategies that work out and will always work out:

For women, it is not commendable to so assertive and goes after the men they want or like. Waiting for that man and being discreet is a better way. As to men, playing as if the “timid” one who is just too shy when it comes to meeting and interacting with the opposite sex is not good at all. Let go of the confidence and look for that girl you want.

Talking about sexual topics when you do not know your date yet that well is not good at all. Verbal foreplay will just let the two of you focus on this aspect, get carried away and forget about the more important sides of the newly-found bond. This must be avoided another thing is not to have a sexual relationship before being committed. This would also be the one that will destroy the one which was established.

Stay true and be yourself as you are on the process of online dating. This will enable both of you to know each other really well and know if you are compatible with each other. The more you pretend, the more the relationship will grow weak in the future.

If you are afraid of getting hurt again, never test your partner if he or she has the capacity to do it to you too. This is very unhealthy for the relationship. Moreover, do not expect a lot and be disappointed easily. Every person is unique so do not let the other person be who you want her or him to be.

The best tip is this: to enjoy every moment and to get to know and eventually grow in love without the pressure of making everything the way you only want it to be.

Know the Facts of Online Dating

2009-12-20T04:27:00.000-08:00

Online dating is getting very popular and if you would like to join this world, there are a few things that you should keep in mind.  As with the other aspects of life, you will have more success if you follow the rules of the game and treat other people with respect. Some people may not realize these rules but in the end it will mean the difference between you getting the date and continuing to be single.  

If you find an attractive picture online, it is ok to tell the person that you think they are nice looking.  However looks are not everything.  If that is all that you have to say online, then it is going to be better not to say anything at all. Read the person’s profile so that you can say something more than just a comment about their looks. 

Always look at a person’s “My perfect date” section to see what he or she is going to be interested in. most people are looking for others within a certain age range and distance from home.  They might also have preferences about children, smoking, religion, looks, race, and sexual preferences. If you are 33 and someone online is looking for a date between 20 and 28, he or she is not looking for you so you need to pass them by.

Do not send an initial email if you did not read the profile. Ask general questions like “How are you?” and “ What can you tell me about yourself?” can be annoying. Be more specific and ask the other person questions that can be answered in an email back to you and your questions will show her your personal interests. 

The most important thing is if another person is not interested, move past them. Sometimes people will not answer your messages on purpose.  Online is the acceptable way of showing that you have no interest.  Do not repeatedly send messages that ask a person if they got your previous message.  They got them and they are simply not interested.  If someone writes you back and indicated that there is no chemistry for him or her, let the issue go.  There are millions of other profiles for you to pursue and someone is going to reply.  Writing back to that person and telling them that they are close-minded, mean, or something unpleasant is not going to help and it is against the websites rules.  Use your common sense and do not do or say anything that you would never do or say in real life.  Online dating can be more fun for everyone if you follow the etiquette rules.

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2009-12-14T23:55:00.000-08:00

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In Preparation for the Big Date . . .

2009-12-12T06:31:00.000-08:00

After the invitation to have a date with you, yes you could rejoice a bit but this must not take you for so long, you need to prepare for the day, the real day that you have been wishing for to arrive. Your preparation matters most. When you do not know what exactly to do, let us lend you our guides. 

These are the tips that would surely let you walk the right path for the date you have pictured out:

* Set an early date for that date. 

When you set such a date weeks after, it could just make your patience brittle and it would just pile up stress unto you. At first, you may feel that excitement inside you but as the days grow longer, you may get more and more impatient.

* Choose a less formal venue

For the first date, it would not be too comfortable if you choose a place where you would feel stuffy. Better have in mind a venue that is less formal but more fun. The too much formality thing may just stop you from getting to know each other well.

* Lunch time for the first time.

To all those who are having a “get to know each other date”, it is advisable to have an early date so that rushing plans to make the time special may not happen. There could still be that romantic touch though the sun is out. Evening dates may come after the first date.

* Think more of the person not the place.

Pressures about the venue, the food to order and the clothes you would wear. These are just secondary and they do not have to post so much pressure on you. If you allow this to happen, you would surely get carried away with the pressures and forget the real purpose of the date.

* Informal but not scruffy

As mentioned above, you have to choose a venue that is less formal but it does not mean that it has to be scruffy and you do not have to look as one scruffy thing as well. Look presentable though not that very formal. 

* Your wealth is not the topic

There are a lot of fun and light things to talk about, do not brag about what you or your parents have. This would not be so nice for a topic that may just spoil the rest of the time. Humility would surely be a ticket to more dates.

These are just some of the many tips you need to have in your heart so that you would also have those good memories to be brought about by the great date you have. Of course, you have your own way of making this day special too.

How To Deal With Rejection and Failure

2009-12-10T06:41:00.000-08:00

8 Tips On How To Deal With Rejection and Failure

When you first go out to practice the dating techniques you read here in this blog, you're bound to hear a few "no's" from the women you meet. (Actually, this is an ongoing process. You will never have a 100% success rate.) So here are a couple of ways to make the rejections easier to take and more valuable to you.

1) Disassociate yourself.

Look at the rejection as an event, not as a rejection of your inner core. Think in "third-person" as if you're watching a movie.

2) Think about "why".

Think about why the woman rejected you. Think back on your actions. Were you being too pushy? Did you not build up enough chemistry before you asked for a date? Try to locate any potential blindspots.

3) Learn from it.

Learn from your mistakes and try to improve each time. If you improve just a tiny bit each time, you'll improve a lot in the long run!

4) Try In A New Environment

If you feel like a certain environment may be holding your back, try the following: Take your practices to a new environment and see if you get different results.

For example, if the nightclub setting does like work for you, try taking a few dance classes, and so on.

5) Hang Out With A More Successful Person

How do you get smarter? By hanging out with smarter people! They'll be able to point out your mistakes when you make them.

One of the best ways to get really good at something is to get active feedback from someone who is already good at it. It's like playing sports. If you constantly play against opponents that are stronger than you, you will learn faster than if you constantly play against opponents who are not as good as you.

6) Make New Connections In Your Mind

Take the time to organize your new thoughts and ideas. Make connections between different topics and ideas that weren't there before. You don't really get something until you can see all the connections! Ask yourself questions such as, "How does flirting fit into building attraction?"

7) Take a Break If Necessary

If you feel like you are hitting the same wall over and over, then take a small break so you have time to recharge. The more you push when you're already frustrated, the more resistance you will build. Sometimes when you take a small break and then come back, you will find the obstacles will have disappeared on its own.

8) Take the Time to Learn'

It is hard to bounce back from failure if you don't even have a direction. That is why it is very important to pick up the knowledge you need to be successful. Instead of learning everything through your own mistakes, try to learn everything through other people's mistakes.

If you're playful, Women will think you're Cool

2009-11-01T21:18:00.000-08:00

If there is one thing that most guys need to do - to have more success in dating, it's to be more playful. More often than not, guys who are not good with women are guys who are "too serious" when they're around women.

If you're playful, women will think you're cool; if you're too serious, women are going to think you are a "tool."

It doesn't matter if it's part of your personality to be "serious." There are times and situations in life when you have to be very serious, and there are also times and situations when you have to be very playful.

I'll give you an example. If you were working as an air traffic controller, I would tell you to be very serious with your job and be very cautious at work.

But let's say you're just out on a first date with a woman after work. Then I would tell you to let go and be very playful with her!

Here's the bottom line:

If you're too serious with flirting, then you're not flirting at all. Even if you follow every step I've told you to do and say every line I've taught you to say, you're not actually flirting. To become a Smart Flirter, you must let go of your worries and become more playful!

If you're one of those guys who have trouble being playful around women, then today I am going show you a few ways to become more playful:

1) Poke her.

2) Tackle her.

3) Lift her up.

4) Challenge her to arm wrestling.

5) Play thumb war with her.

6) Give her a piggy back ride...and run as fast as you can.

7) Throw something tiny at her. Then look away and whistle as she looks at you.

8) Steal something from her and make her wrestle you to get it back.

9) Twirl her around.

10) Pinch her nose and shake it like she's a plush toy.

Use these sample techniques as a blueprint for coming up with your own techniques. Remember that the key is to be playful and focus on having fun instead of "getting results!"

Flirting 101

2009-09-05T21:29:00.000-07:00

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A common mistake a neophytes do all the time is that they try to combine approaching women with flirting and teasing before they are ready to do so.

When you're playing basketball, you learn to dribble and you learn to shoot. Both are important skills to have and do work together eventually, but at the beginning, they need to be practiced separately until you are ready to do them simultaneously.

Dating is no different. If you worry about approaching women when you should be practicing your flirting, it's going to kill your success. And if you worry about how you should be flirting with a woman before you approach her, it's going to lower your confidence and make yourself stumble.

That's why you should practice approaching women and flirting with them separately until they both become second nature to you.

Start by flirt with every woman you come across casually. Just let go of your expectations and be playful. Forget about the results and just do it. Flirt with all the females within your social circle. (If you don't have one, it's time to get one!)

Once you can do that, then start approaching strangers (not just women, but men as well) and small-talk them. Focus on meeting people and developing your natural curiosity towards things and people in general.

GoodLuck! 

Your 20 First Date Dating Tips

2009-08-15T02:03:00.000-07:00

1) Flirt a lot. Be playful.

2) Tease her a lot and act like a challenge.

3) Stay in control and lead the date.

3) Avoid talking about politics, religion, and controversial topics.

4) Give her your full attention. Don't check out other women.

5) Make good eye contact.

6) Have strong body language.

7) Don't talk about your past relationships, and change topics when she talks about her past relationships.

8) Act positive and optimistic.

9) Don't make offensive jokes.

10) Don't act needy or kiss her ass.

11) Compliment her a little, but not too much. Remain a challenge.

12) Be on time.

13) Play it cool.

14) Don't get drunk. Seriously.

15) Dress well and groom yourself before you see her.

16) Give her a big hug as soon as you meet her. Why? A little physical touching right off the bat can be a good start!

17) Keep advancing in a subtle manner. Holding her hand? See if you can get a kiss next, and so on.

18) Build rapport and have a stimulating conversation.

19) Act like a gentleman. Open doors and pull out chairs naturally.

20) Relax and have fun!

Good Luck!

How to Overcome Your Problem Talking with Girls

2009-07-31T02:00:00.000-07:00

Well, maybe your problem is talking to strangers. Let's say you're a very sociable person too, however you just have problem talking to girls.

Here are a few tips to overcome that:

1) Flirt with girls you don't find attractive to practice. This will help you pick up the flirty attitude.

2) Focus on being a challenge, no matter how hot the girl is. This will help you remain in control of yourself.

3) Surround yourself with female friends. It is the best way to become more comfortable around women.

4) At the beginning, flirt with girls but without making it look like you're asking them out.

5) Confidence comes from competence, which comes from practice and knowledge. Practice and do it!

6) Take baby steps. Start by saying "hi". Once you're comfortable with that, make friends. Eventually start flirting. Similarly, if beautiful women intimidate you, then approach more average-looking women until you are more confident.

7) Imagine you are talking to an old friend.

8) Imagine you are talking to a girl to hook her up with a buddy of yours.

9) Relax and stop caring about the results. Focus on the fun instead!

Good Luck!

Do You Ever Say 'Sorry' To a Woman?

2009-06-28T06:47:00.000-07:00

Many men believe that it is wrong to say "sorry" to a woman. There are even some dating coaches who teach men to say "too bad" instead of "sorry" to a woman whenever they make a mistake.

I disagree.

I think it's perfectly okay to say "sorry" to a woman... as long as:

1) You have a real reason to say it.

2) You don't repeat it.

3) You don't ask for forgiveness.

A real man shouldn't be afraid of admitting his own mistakes. If he screws up really badly, he shouldn't be afraid to apologize to anyone. Just apologize, and let it go.

After all, part of being a man is accept responsibility for your own action. What you DON'T want to do, however, is to keep on begging a woman for forgiveness.

A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake of apologizing "too much".

The human mind is very interesting. If you "keep on" saying "sorry" to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip and keep "pretending" that she's mad at you in order to hear more - until she actually BELIEVES that she's mad at you. Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you, but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand.

So...instead of begging for forgiveness, just say "sorry", admit you've made a mistake, and change topics. If she's really mad at you, leave her alone and let her blow up some steam. But don't ask for forgiveness. You've already apologized. Asking for forgiveness won't do you any good.

Lastly, be careful about saying "sorry" if you're one of those guys who are "always sorry". While there is no problem with saying "sorry" when you have made a big mistake, you should NOT apologize for everything you do on a date.

Good Luck!

How To Talk Seductive In Bed

2009-06-01T07:19:00.000-07:00

Below are Six (6) Ways on How To Talk Seductive In Bed:

1) Whatever you say in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom ONLY. When you're in heat in a locked bedroom, you can get away with a lot of things that might considered rude or offensive elsewhere. If you say these things outside...watch out.

2) Don't talk too dirty at the beginning. See how the woman reacts. Every woman is DIFFERENT. Be a LITTLE raunchy and see how she reacts. If she likes it, then turn it up.

3) Give her a few romantic compliments: Giving a woman compliments in bed is different than giving her compliments generally. You can get away with A LOT more. If you call a woman beautiful while on a first date, you're just being a wuss. But if you say "Damn you're so beautiful" in bed, then it's all right.

4) Be descriptive. For example, describe what you're doing to her.

5) Make eye contact: Make eye contact while you talk to her. It will drive her wild.

6) Groan slightly when she does something to you. This is the best compliment you can give to a woman in bed.

Good Luck!

6 Ways To A Smoother Relationship

2009-05-11T06:14:00.000-07:00

Here are 6 tips to make your relationship smoother.

1) Watch Body Language

Learn to know your girlfriend's mood and state by watching her body language. For example, can you tell she's uncomfortable at a party by the way she sits or stands? Can you tell if she's nervous or not?

2) Listen

A big problem some couples have is that they stop listening to each other once the initial excitement of a relationship is gone. If you can't spare some time each day to listen to someone you love, even if it's just 30 minutes, maybe you don't need a girlfriend after all.

3) Be Patient

I heard from my friends complaining that their girlfriends talk a long time to "get to the point." For example, their girlfriends may tell them about her entire day at work before making a point...and even then, her point may be something silly and not worth mentioning at all...

Solution? Just listen!

4) Care About The Details

A good way to show affection is by showing concern for the finer "details" of life. Don't just ask her how her day was. Ask her about the specific things that are going in her life.

5) Don't Jump In With Solutions

When your girlfriend is upset or sad, don't jump in with solutions. Chances are, she's just blowing up steam. Generally, men want solutions when they vent; women want a shoulder to cry on and a hug.

6) Keep Flirting

And of course...don't forget to keep flirting with your girlfriend and acting like a challenge to keep the attraction high. Because once the attraction is dead, the relationship is going to go downhill.

Good Luck!

10 Signs Your Date is Getting Bored

2009-04-23T08:54:00.000-07:00

Here are a few signs that a woman is NOT interested in what you're talking.

1) She keeps looking away.

2) She focuses REALLY hard on eating her food.

3) She won't contribute to the conversation at all.

4) She keeps talking on her cell phone or with her
friends.

5) She turns her back on you.

6) She breaks eye contact.

7) She "doesn't hear you".

8) She gives you short "one-liner" answers to you
questions - as if she's trying to get you to shut up.

9) She does not put down her book or magazine.

10) She has an uncomfortable or bored look on her face.

Should you encounter any of these signs, it means you are doing something WRONG. Change topics and talk about something that is more interesting to the woman. Pull back a bit and tease her to see if you can find any "openings" to a new conversation.

I'll give you an example. A well-dressed man was talking to a very attractive lady. He went on for half an hour about the real estate market, when the woman wasn't interested in the topic at all. One by one, she started to show the signs listed above. Unfortunately, the poor guy just kept on talking about houses. He just could not sense that the conversation was going nowhere.

But instead of pulling back and changing topics, he tried to sound even more excited and passionate about real estate. (This is a common mistake guys make, by the way.) Even worse, he started flaunting his wealth when it was clear the woman was not interested in business or money.

There's no way he's going to get a second date. Right?

How to Learn the Art of Seduction

2009-04-08T08:12:00.000-07:00

Are you tired of chasing women? Do you want to turn the tables and have them chasing you instead? Here's how...
Steps

Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you.
Listen and talk to her. Women love to talk. They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what she talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her -- find out her likes and dislikes, her needs and desires, whatever it takes. Laugh with her and agree with her when you can.
Take things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in.
Kiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there.
Increase the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes. Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow.
Talk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act.
Tell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her -- not in a cheesy way ("I want you, baby,") but in a tender way. She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen.
When it's the right time, always ask for permission ("Are you okay, darling?") and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready.
Respect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to "get some," then you are not seducing a woman; you are merely an animal in heat.
Find a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start.

Tips

Always listen.
Talk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around.
Kiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process.
This method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much.
Don't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy).
Build a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends.
Think before you speak.
Good hygiene is a must.
Maintain a good diet and exercise to maintain an attractive physique.
When a woman says "No" she means it
Never bring up your ex. It is an instant turn off to women because they will think you are not over them.

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Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset

2009-03-26T23:45:00.000-07:00

What should you do if a woman is depressed or upset?

Well, here is the Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset.

Give her emotional support and a shoulder to cry on, but do NOT attempt to give her ANY solutions to her problems. Why not? You may ask.

Because women's heads are wired differently than ours. As men, we want solutions to our problems right away. Women, on the other hand, want emotional support. So when women tell you their problems, they aren't REALLY looking for you to give them your two cents right away. What they're looking for is actually emotional support.

Unfortunately most guys do not realize this, and that's why they try to play the "advisor" or "counsellor" whenever their girlfriends tell them their problems. Instead of LISTENING to their girlfriends, they try to chip in and offer their "solutions" for the problems RIGHT AWAY. As a result, both parties become frustrated. The women feel their boyfriends are not listening to them, while the men complain to their buddies that their "stupid" girlfriends are not listening or being "logical".

So what should you do if a woman comes to you when she's upset? The first thing you should do is to LISTEN. Don't be too eager to offer her your opinion or your "solution" yet. Just LISTEN to her and give her a shoulder to cry on. Most of the times, she just wants somebody to talk to.

If she starts acting like a bitch, then just keep your silence and ignore her. Don't let her drag you into her problems. Give her your emotional support-but draw the line there. Getting inside her world will only makes things even more complicated.

Good Luck!

When and How To Be Persistent With Women

2009-03-10T07:56:00.000-07:00

How do I know when to be persistent and when to stop going after a woman? That will be the question some of you wanted to ask. Right?

So, here it is guys, You should be persistent when a woman's ACTIONS tell you that you should keep going...and STOP when her actions show that she's not cool with it.

For example, if a woman keeps flirting with you and dating you casually even though she "says" she's not interested in a relationship, you can show some persistence and keep on going after her.

But if a woman gets MAD at you for going after her or tries to IGNORE you, then her ACTIONS are showing that she's NOT cool with it, which means you should STOP. At this point, if you act persistent and pushy, you will only push her AWAY from you even further.

Remember that while persistence is an attractive quality because men who persist are often the ones that succeed, if you're clearly in the negative zone, it is time to back off!

Also, you should make sure that you're doing the RIGHT things when you act persistent, because if you're not doing the right things and pushing the right buttons inside a woman, then the more you persist, the more you will push the woman away!

So, Good Luck, guys!

The BENEFITS of SEX

2009-03-03T17:11:00.000-08:00

I received this spam email which I think worthy to be posted in this Blog!

did you know that we can determine if a person is sexually active or not by looking at her skin?

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests have shown that a woman who has sexual relations produces big amounts of estrogen which makes hair shiny and soft.

2. To make love in soft and relaxed way reduces the possibilities of suffering from dermatitis and acne. The sweat produced cleans pores and makes the skin shine.

3. To make love allows to burn all the calories accumulate is this romantic love scene.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports. It strengthens and tonifies all body muscles. It is more enjoyable than doing 20 lapses in the pool. And you don't need special shoes !

5. Sex is an instantaneous cure against depression. It frees endorphins in the blood flow, creating a state of euphoria and leaves us with a feeling of well-being.

6. The more we make love, the more we have the capacity to do more. A body sexually active releases a higher amount of pheromone. This subtle aroma excites the opposite sex !

7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFICIENT THAN VALIUM.

8. To kiss everyday allows to avoid the dentist. Kisses aid saliva in cleaning teeth and lower the quantity of acids causing enamel weakening.

9. Sex relieves headaches. Each time we make love, it releases the tension in brain veins.

10. To make love a lot can heal a nasal congestion. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It helps fight asthma and spring allergies.

This message was sent to you so that you have good chances in sexual relations. It went around the world 9 times. It now arrived to you so that you can can in turn enjoy "Benefits from Sex".

Good Luck!

How To Lead On A Date

2009-02-22T05:42:00.000-08:00

Here are 9 ways you can lead on a Date:

1) Hug Her At The Door

2) Have The Date And Time Planned BEFORE you ask her out.

3) Chivalry: Open doors and pull out chairs CASUALLY. Don't do it to impress or please her. Do it because it's part of you. (Trick: Don't act eager)

4) Protect Her: Put a hand on her lower back in crowd situations. Protect her.

5) Don't Ask For Permission: Don't ever ask her permission for ANYTHING.

6) Be Decisive: Don't bother her with questions on details such as where to sit or where to go. Make the decisions yourself and she will tell you if she doesn't like it.

7) Do the talking: Do the talking if there's any kind of trouble (with a waiter, etc...) Don't expect her to bail you out of anything. (I know a guy who once let a girl get harassed by a bouncer without doing anything...so yes...these spineless guys DO exist!)

8) Be A Master Of The Environment: Act comfortable with the environment at all times, no matter where you are.

9) Be Comfortable And Relaxed: Remember that leaders can put people in ease by being relaxed and comfortable themselves.

Good Luck!

The One Trait That Attracts Women

2009-02-15T04:02:00.000-08:00

In a research conducted back in the late 90's by a group of psychologists, nearly 400 male and female university students were shown photographs with accompanying descriptions of people of the other sex. The point of the test was to see how the descriptions of these persons would influence the subjects' perceptions.

Interestingly enough, male photos that were described as "authoritative and masterful" were rated higher than the ones who were described as "obedient and submissive".

This isn't surprising, as most women DO want to have a more powerful man who can control and protect them. This is especially true for most hot women, who are used to men catering to them and kissing their arses. They are used to guys showering them with flowers and doing whatever they asks, and that's why they find them boring and unchallenging.

So what's the solution? Start acting like a man. Stop being an ass-kisser. I am not asking you to become a jerk or asshole. All I am asking you you, if you aren't doing so already, is to start acting like a real man and stop being an ass kisser. When a woman whines, ignore her or call them on their issues and messed up behaviors. When she bitches, put her back in her place.

Good Luck!

Where Is The Female G-spot

2009-02-08T02:28:00.001-08:00

Since, Valentines Day is fast approaching, I am sure a lot of you guys are now excited to do "iT" for the first time with your girlfriend on this Day. Here are some tip that maybe could make your "Sexpreience" a very memorable one.

Well, for a start, finding the G Spot is not an exact science.
The G-spot is located about 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall. When aroused it's about the size of a walnut, usually a bit longer than it is wide. The position of the G-spot makes it impossible for most women to get a finger to it, but a partner should be able to feel it by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina after she is aroused.

The palm of the hand should be up if the woman is on her back, and down if she is on her front; initially finding the spot may be easier if the woman lies on her front. The partner should be able to feel the G-spot with their fingers as a small lump in the vaginal wall. The G-Spot will feel somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of the vaginal wall.

The G-spot is a mass of glandular tissue, known as the paraurethral glands, and nerves. The G-spot lies between the urethra and the vagina, and is not actually a part of the vagina. Normally it's unnoticeable, but as a woman becomes aroused the area swells, making it possible to feel it through the vaginal wall. Once the spot has been located, it can be stimulate by moving your fingers in very small circles, or by doing a "come hither" motion with your fingers. Initial stimulation of the G-spot often causes the woman to experience a sudden and strong feeling of needing to urinate; this feeling soon passes, and may be replaced by pleasant and arousing feelings.

While all women seem to be able to feel stimulation of the G-spot, their response to it varies. Some women can orgasm from G-spot stimulation alone, others can't. Some women have strong orgasms from a combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, and some women have powerful orgasms when having intercourse in positions which stimulate the G-spot. Other women don't find G-spot stimulation particularly enjoyable.

The most popular sex positions for stimulating the G-spot are the Women-on-top position which allows the women to align herself for maximum pressure on the G-spot. The Doggie-Style position also allows for a wide range of positions to reach the desired alignment.

Wish You all A Happy Valentines! Good Luck!

Why Women Like Leaders

2009-02-01T03:48:00.000-08:00

Why Women Like Leaders?
I think a better question would be, "Do PEOPLE like leaders?"

If you look at the world around you, you'll notice that almost EVERYBODY, not just women, are naturally attracted to leaders.

I think the reason for this is because most people feel the need to follow somebody. Nobody wants to make decisions if they could avoid it. The average person would rather "obey" and "follow" instead of lead so he doesn't have to make any decisions. (If you don't want to be a leader... then ask yourself if this is the reason - because you want to FOLLOW instead of lead...)

If you look at the guys who are not so good in dating, you will see they usually carry the same traits as the "average person".

They seek a woman's permission or approval before they do anything with her.

They are often stuck in a "Victim mentality" and actually believe statements such as "I am not good looking enough" or "Women don't like me".

They often would rather follow a woman around instead of doing the leading.

Women Like Leaders! So, below are 10 tips on How To Become a Leader:

1) Lead on dates.
2) Believe in yourself.
3) Expand your comfort zone AND lead other people out of theirs. There're tons of people around you who are waiting to find someone to follow.
4) Fail forward fast. It's okay to fail, as long as you fall FORWARD and learn from your mistakes.
5) Learn to take educated risks. No risks, no gain. Yes, you'll risk getting rejected when you approach a woman. But if you don't approach her at all, you will never get a chance with her.
6) Don't be a crowd follower: The guy who follows other people rarely gets noticed by anyone, including women. You want attention from women? Be in the spotlight!
7) Work on your communication skills. You can't inspire other people if you can't communicate well.
8) Be enthusiastic. Be enthusiastic in whatever you do, be it work, schools, or a hobby. Having this quality can attract you MANY more women than you can handle.
9) Be knowledgeable. Keep increasing your knowledge. The leader usually knows a lot more than his follower.
10) Have self-discipline. As I've stated in the past, self- discipline is *the* key to succeeding in dating and other areas of your life.

Good Luck!

Qualities You should Look for in a Woman

2009-01-25T05:45:00.000-08:00

If you're interested in a long-term relationship, the following are the Qualities You should Look for in a Woman, to wit:

1) Honest
Never date a liar. Once a liar, always a liar. A woman who has lied to you over and over will lie to you again in the future. You can count on it.

2) Loyal
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Just like a woman who has lied to you once will often lie again, a woman who has cheated once will usually cheat again.

3) Socially Skilled
Find a woman who can get along with anyone. If a woman "hates the world" or people in general, that's usually a sign there are deeper problems within her.

4) Fun to be with
Date women with a fun personality. A boring woman will drive you crazy as soon as the initial hormone-driven honeymoon period is over.

5) Adventurous and open-minded
Find a woman you can travel and explore the world with. Narrow-minded women usually have limited foresight and get boring after awhile.

6) Cultured, classy and sophisticated
Cultured women often make a better companion if you live in a big city. (If you don't, it doesn't really matter.)

7) Frugal
Beware of big spenders and gold diggers. They will drain your bank account empty and then leave without looking back.

8) "Clean"
Your girlfriend should be currently clean of any drug or alcohol problems.

9) Flexible
Try to find someone who's willing to compromise. A spoiled princess will drive you nuts eventually.

10) A positive thinker
This one is very important. Pessimistic people will drain all your energy out of you.

Good Luck!

Just because a Woman Smiles at You

2009-01-20T05:41:00.000-08:00

"There's this woman who's always smiling at me. But when I asked her out, she said 'no'. What did I do wrong?" This is the question you guys always asked. Right?

Well...honestly...just because a woman smiles at you does not mean she's interested in you. The only way to find out if a woman is REALLY interested in you is by doing the flirt-test. All other body language signs are SECONDARY.

With that said, there are also several kinds of smiles that a woman may give to a man. So just because a woman is smiling doesn't mean she's necessarily happy with you. She could actually be bored...or disgusted.

Here are 5 basic kinds of smiles:

1) The Bored Smile

This is the kind of smile a woman may give you if she's bored with a conversation. It is a slight smile with the corners of her mouth just a little tensed up. You may catch her looking around the room...

2) The Forced Smile

This is the smile a woman will give you if she seriously does not like you or if she thinks you're annoying or stupid. The smile is tighter than the bored smile, with even more tension in the corners of her mouth than the bored smile. She may give you a sarcastic look with her eyes.

3) The Polite Smile

The polite smile is a smile a waitress or bartender will give you for tips. How do you know it's not real? Simple. Just check the corners of her mouth. If they are all tensed up, she's faking it.

4) The Dreamy Smile

The dreamy smile is the smile she will give when she's fascinated by your story or really enjoying a deep conversation with you. The smile will be a natural smile without any tension, and her eyes will look like she has wandered into another world.

5) The Genuine Smile

The genuine smile is the smile a woman will give you when she's really happy. There'll be lots of teeth, no tension in the face, and her head will often throw back as she laughs out loud. Her eyes may even twinkle with happiness.

So now that you know how to tell the differences between the different kinds of smiles, I want you to notice them in the real world. Next time you go out, observe the people around you and see what kind of smiles they are showing to the people they are talking to. You'll be amazed at all the things you'll learn about how humans interact with each other. Good Luck!

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Women

2009-01-11T22:56:00.000-08:00

Do you have a fear of beautiful women? Do you freeze up every time you're in the presence of a woman who's hot and beautiful?

If so...then the following tips are just right for you:

1) Befriend at least 5 Women
Go out and befriend 5 hot women. Don't hit on them. Don't flirt with them. Just befriend them.
Don't worry about falling into the friendship jail. Just be a good friend of theirs and hang out with them as often as you can - even if it means tagging along with them when they go out to pickup guys.
Since you're just befriending them without hitting on them, this should be easy even if you're a shy guy. (And if you're so shy that you can't even befriend a woman "as a friend", then you MUST do this exercise and overcome your fear of women. If you can't even talk to a woman, you're NOT going to get a girlfriend, Right?!)

2) Get Comfortable Around Them
Next, I want you to just get comfortable around your new female friends. Learn to look at them in the eyes. Learn to initiate innocent physical contact with them. Talk to their other friends when you go out. You're part of their groups now - so get comfortable with your new social life.

3) Observe Their Love Lives
Observe the way they act in relationships. Sense their own insecurity around guys they like. See through their fragile fantasies. watch how they throw "tests" at guys sub-consciously and how their attraction levels raise or lowers as time goes by - and why.

4) Talk To Their Boyfriends
Work your charm on their boyfriends as well. Stroke their ego's and be buddy-buddy with them. At the same time, learn from them by observing how they've managed to attract their hottie girlfriends.

5) Watch How They Pick Up Guys
If one of your new friends is single, then go out with her to a club and how she picks up guys or deals with guys that try to pick her up.

6) Get Them To Give You a Makeover
Get your new female friends to give you a makeover. Let them show you what hair style or clothes look the best on you.

7) Hook Up with Their Friends
Get them to introduce you to their friends. Chances are, their friends are going to be as good-looking as they are.

8) Use Them to Build Social Proof
Be seen with your new hot friends at clubs and events. "social proof" and envy are powerful psychological factors. Believe me or not, women will find you more attractive when they see you hanging out with other hot women.

9) Improve Your Own Self Image
By now, you should realize that under their beautiful skin, hotties are still human - just like you. They are your equal and they are just as insecure as you are deep inside (or even more) when it comes to dating and relationships.

You should also see that with the right skills and training, you too could become an expert in dating. Good Luck!

Do Women Like Macho Men?

2009-01-06T05:42:00.000-08:00

"Do women like macho men?" ... That is the big question most of you guys asked.

And Here's my answer: Women just like MEN in general!

Notice how I've put "MEN" in capital letters.

Let me explain why...

You see, personally I think too many guys use the "I don't want to act like a macho asshole" as an EXCUSE to act like a wuss bag in front of women...

What these guys don't understand that that to point is NOT to act "macho" or stupid, but to act like a real MAN. A MAN who gives off a raw, masculine kinda of energy.

Like I say all the time, if women were attracted to nice, "girlie" men, they wouldn't be dating men in the first place. They were be DATING EACH OTHER! And if they were interested in someone to "share their feelings with", they wouldn't need a BOYFRIEND, they could just call ANY of their girl friends!

The only, only, only reason why a woman is interested in a man is because...as my former girlfriend puts it...

"I want penis, not vagina."

Now...My former girlfriend may be a little bit blatant and direct, but you get the idea. The ONLY reason why a woman is interested in a MAN is because she wants a MAN.

By the way, the same concept applies to YOU too. You probably like women because they are FEMININE. So even though they are quite different than us...we APPRECIATE the differences. Even though women yelp WAY too much, always show up late on dates, and do silly things like watching sappy movies and reading girlie magazines, we APPRECIATE them for WHO THEY ARE.

Don't you agree? (Of course you do, unless you are gay.)

So...here's the lesson for today: Don't be afraid of acting like a man. Just like we like women for who they are, women like men for who they are, including the "stupid" things we do. NEVER try to appease women by acting like them. Instead of turning yourself into an effeminate "Metrosexual male", just relax and be a natural man. A NATURAL man who is NOT afraid of his own skin and NOT afraid of being a man.

For example:

1) Don't feel guilty about your own sexuality.

2) Don't let anyone or anything stop you from achieving your best.

3) Don't let your friends or family "feminize" you. You were born a MAN, and that's who you should be.

4) Don't be afraid of being adventurous. Go and climb the mountains of life.

5) Don't be afraid of doing "stupid" things that all boys do. (Stupid pranks, etc) Just be safe and don't break any laws or get anyone hurt.

6) Don't be afraid of acting like one of the boys.

7) Don't be afraid of flirting with women. Flirt and tease as much as you can. Don't be afraid of making advances at all. It's natural.

Women need men just like men need women. Just remember that! GoodLuck!

Charm A Woman with Your Killer Smile

2009-01-01T01:15:00.000-08:00

My New Year tips will be very short. This is how to charm a woman by giving her a personal smile.

As a "smart Dater", you should be smiling and acting friendly all the time.

But of course, if you smile too much to everybody, it's going to lose its effectiveness. This is a very simple but yet very practical and powerful "trick" for smiling at a woman you like. (You can also use this as the first step of a flirt test and see how she reacts.)

"Start off with a semi-serious look on your face as you look at the woman deeply in the eyes. (The eye contact is VERY important for this trick to work.) Let her look back into you.

Then flash her a slow and almost "secretive" smile. Make it something "personal" that is JUST between the two of you.

You're not smiling at the whole world. You're just smiling at HER - because she is special."

Now watch how she reacts! Good Luck!

Tips On How to Make A Relationship Last

2008-12-23T04:25:00.000-08:00

Below are the Tips in making a relationship last a long long time:

Keep flirting with each other.

You know...a lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.

Big mistake.

No matter how long you've been going out with a woman - be it weeks, months, or years - it is still important to keep a romantic spark in your relationship. It doesn't matter how well you understand each other. If the attraction is gone, the relationship is going to suffer.

The couple that plays together tends to stay together, period. Isolate yourself from her romantically for an extended period of time, and the relationship will go down the drain.

By the way...

Here's a side benefit of keeping the attraction high. When the attraction is high, your partner (and you too) will be more flexible with each other - meaning there will be less fights and less arguments.

So...if you have a girlfriend or wife already, here is what I want you to do:

Don't let the romantic spark go away. Flirt with her every week.

You should also seek out new adventures together. Please don't do the boring movie and dinner every week and settle down into a "routine". Try to do something fresh and exciting once in awhile to keep the spark alive. Maybe go to the beach. Maybe go for a picnic instead of a movie. Do anything that you don't ordinarily do together and treat it as a "first date". Good Luck!

What If You Don't Have A Car

2008-12-18T05:15:00.000-08:00

Can You Date If You Don't Have A Car?

Here's my answer: YOU'RE SCREWED! Just kidding!

Seriously, at the end of the day, ATTRACTION is what matters. So if you don't have a car, it's okay. Even though it's an inconvenience, it's not going to stop you from getting the girls.

The trick is to act TOTALLY unapologetic about it. If the topic comes up, mention it CASUALLY without ANY shame or embarrassment.

If you act like you don't care, then the woman is not going to care either. The ONLY way she'll think you're a loser is if you act remotely embarrassed about it.

Remember, boys: As a smart Dater, you want to focus on your SKILLS! If you're good with women, they will offer you rides! Good Luck!

When To Stop Being Persistent With Women

2008-12-12T05:36:00.000-08:00

You should persist when a woman's ACTIONS tells you - you should keep going... and STOP when her actions show that she's not cool with it.

For example, if a woman keeps flirting with you and dating you casually even though she "says" she's not interested in a relationship, you can show some persistence and keep on going after her.

But if a woman gets MAD at you for going after her or tries to IGNORE you, then her ACTIONS are showing that she's NOT cool with it, which means you should STOP. At this point, if you act persistent and push, you will only push her AWAY from you even further.

Remember that while persistence is an attractive quality because men who persist are often the ones that succeed, if you're clearly in the negative zone, it is time to back off!

Also, you should make sure that you're doing the RIGHT things when you act persistent, because if you're not doing the right things and pushing the right button inside a woman, then the more you persist, the more you will push the woman away!

Good Luck! 

How To Lead And Command A Woman

2008-12-08T05:18:00.000-08:00

The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to accept responsibility for our own actions.)

A lot of business people know this, and that's why they often don't give you many choices when you buy something. Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer, the harder it will be to make the sale because the person will have trouble "making the decision".

The same principle applies to dating. The more choices you offer a woman, the more confused she will be. The more firm you are about something you've already picked out for her, the more likely she'll go along with it.

For example, let's say you are trying to get a woman to have one more drink because you think it will help her relax. However, she's not sure if she can have another drink.

You could give her a choice and ask her if she would like to have another drink. She'll probably say no.

Or...

You could you visualize her laughing and acting happy once she has gulped down the drink. Then you say, "Come on, baby, just have the shot. I know you can do it." Then before she can react, follow through with action by handing her the shot glass. Finally, command her by saying "drink it". If you use the right voice tone, 9 out of 10 times the woman will obey you and have the shot. (Note: I don't encourage you getting women drunk. I am just using this common scenario as an example.)

The key here is to be sincere, direct, and authoritative. If you use a "funny voice", the woman will "play along" and show you resistance just for the sake of giving resistance. If you use a nervous voice, she will think that it is wrong to have the drink. Finally, if you sound too smooth, she will think that you're "trying something" and build up her defenses as a result.

To have the correct voice tone when you command a woman to do something, think of yourself as her protector - someone who just KNOWS what's good for her. Going back to the drinks example, think about how much more relaxed she will feel once she has finished the drink. Or if you're trying to get a woman in bed, think about how good she will be feeling when she's crying out your name in bed. Always think about what SHE will get instead of what you would like to get from here. Think about HER end state instead of your own.

With a bit of practice, you can use this skill on men as well. Once you have mastered the ability to encourage other men to try doing things they wouldn't normally do on their own, you will find yourself becoming an alpha male with an ever increasing pack of followers! Good Luck!

Technique for Creating a Bond with a Woman

2008-12-03T05:50:00.000-08:00

This is a very simple technique for creating a bond with a woman at a first meeting.

Instead of focusing on the facts, focus on the feelings.

For example, if you talk about what you like to do ("I like to ski..."), talk about your feelings about the things you like to do. ("Skiing in the winter is so much fun. You get to go away with friends at a cabin somewhere and have a great time"...)

The same technique also applies to listening. Instead of just nodding or saying "That's very cool" when a woman talks about herself, become part of the conversation by searching for the "feeling words" within the conversation and commenting on them.

For example, of a woman talks about animals, you can say, "Yeah. Animals are really great little companions aren't they. I laugh all the time when I play with my dog."

While this tip may sound very simple and short, it is one of the useful skills you can have to be "good with people." With a little bit of practice, you can put anyone at ease with this technique!

Good Luck!

10 Tips on How to be Active again in Dating Women

2008-11-28T03:46:00.000-08:00

10 Tips on How to be Active again in Dating Women

1) SEE YOUR BUDDIES: Go out for a couples of boys nights out. After being isolated from the world for so long, it's time for you to sit down with a couple of buddies just like the old times. This will help you become more sociable.

2) EXPAND YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE: Next, you need to expand your social circle and make NEW friends. Go to parties, join a few clubs...go volunteer somewhere. I guarantee you will meet many women on the way.

3) LEARN TO FLIRT: This is VERY important. From now on, you should be flirting with every girl you meet - just for fun.

4) BE PLAYFUL: This goes hand in hand with flirting. Personally, I think this is the MOST important thing to do if you would like to get your groove back. After being out of the game for so long, chances are you've probably forgotten how to be playful. So work on getting your playful self back.

5) ERASE THE PAST: You can't exactly move on with your life if you're still hung onto the idea of getting your ex back. So MOVE ON. Always look towards your FUTURE, not your past.

6) TAKE THINGS SLOWLY: Don't hurry into another relationship yet. Enjoy your single life. See it as a FREEDOM you have earned!

7) CLEAN UP YOUR HOUSE: Reorganize your furniture. Throw out all the "old stuff" you have. This will help you remove the excessive baggage in your life and make room for the new.

8) SEE BEYOND: Go out and smell the fresh air. See what a beautiful world this is. Life is more than JUST about love. You've gotta understand that before you can get into another relationship.

9) RAISE YOUR STANDARDS: Raise your standards and be pickier with the women you stay. Only date girls that are BETTER than your ex.

10) GO TO THE GYM: Working out can make you feel better about yourself.

And most important of all...GO OUT AND MEET WOMEN. Good Luck!

Take Self-Improvement Classes to Increase Your Success with Women

2008-11-26T05:49:00.000-08:00

Take Self-Improvement Classes to Increase Your Success with Women. So below is a list of self-improvement classes that I think you should consider taking to increase your success with women.

1) YOGA:

Costs: Anywhere from $15 to $50 a month

- Will help improve your posture.

- Lots of hot women. You will be outnumbered 10 to 1 in most classes.

2) ACTING:

Costs: From $50 - $250 for a simple course.

- Will help your voice / speech.

- Will help you understand "objectives".

- Will help your body language.

- Will help you overcome shyness.

- Lots of women.

- You can use your skills to work as an "extra" on movies and call yourself a part-time actor. Nice way to impress women.

3) BOXING / COMPETITIVE MARTIAL ARTS:

Costs: $40 - $70 a month

- Will help you develop your masculine, competitive energy.

- Will help you become more fit.

4) COOKING:

Costs: $25 - $100 per course

- Will teach you how to cook nice dishes for those romantic dates.

- Lots of women in the classes. (If you're into more mature women.)

5) PUBLIC SPEAKING:

Costs: $50-$250 per course

- Will help you overcome your shyness.

- Will help you develop your communication skills.

6) SALSA:

Costs: $30-$50 a month

- Will teach you how to dance.

- LOTS of women for you to meet.

7) MASSAGE:

Costs: $50-$200 per course

- You can apply the techniques to massaging women. GOOD skill to have.

8) CREATIVE WRITING:

Costs: $50-200 per course

- Develop your creative side.

- You can call yourself a poet or a writer. Can use this to open up conversation with intelligent women.

Last, but not the least, if you're interested in meeting women, you definitely have to visit this blog more often! Good Luck!

Why You Should Never Say SEX

2008-11-22T22:22:00.000-08:00

Today's tip is short: Never say "let's have sex" to a woman.

You should ALWAYS refer to sex as something else, such as "love-making" or "sleeping together". Why? Because the term "sex" is not very intimate, and women enjoy intimacy when it comes to sex. To a woman, sex is not just about the physical aspects of having sex. There's a whole emotional side to it as well. They enjoy making love to a man they like, and sleeping on his arm after. By using the word "sex" to describe intercourse, you're really reducing the awesome emotional experience of love-making into a purely physical act.

So from now on, it's...

- "I want to make love to you" instead of "I want to

have sex with you."

- "Yeah...we slept together" instead of "Yeah...we

used to have sex together."

- "I love making love to you" instead of "I love having

sex with you."

- "Remember the first time we made love?" instead of

"Remember the first time we had sex?"

And so on... Good Luck!

How Much Of A Man Are You?

2008-11-18T05:12:00.000-08:00

Here are 10 Questions to ask yourself How Much Of A Man Are You?

1) Do you workout at least 3 times a week?

2) Do you try to "upgrade" yourself constantly?

3) Do you try to excel in EVERY area of your life?

4) Are you adventurous?

5) Do you participate in competitive sports?

6) Are you a challenge to women?

7) Do you treat attractive women like "normal people"?

8) Do you exibit self-control and confidence on dates?

9) Have you ever said "no" to a woman you're VERY attracted to?

10) Are you comfortable with your own skill?

Whatever Your Answers will be, Is All Up to You! So, Good Luck!

10 Keys to Better Conversationalist

2008-11-14T04:35:00.000-08:00

1) Be Sociable In General

This is VERY important. From now on, talk to ANYBODY. Not just girls, but ANYBODY. It will be one of the *best* things you can do for your love life.

2) Have Stories Ready

Have "canned" stories that you can tell when you talk to people. If you don't have any interesting stories to tell, it's a sign that you should log off the computer and go out into the real world. (Hint: Anyone who goes out a lot must have a lot of stories to tell.)

3) Change Topics As Soon As One Become Boring

Don't try to beat on a dead horse and keep talking about a subject because it "was" interesting at the beginning. As soon as your sense the energy drop, change the topic.

4) Don't Bore People With Question After Question

5) Make Good Eye Contact

Very important. Hold your eye contact JUST a bit too long when you talk to her.

6) Don't Boast

Never try to impress a woman or show off. You're just going to come off as an insecure guy. And you know what happens to insecure guys!

7) Avoid "Tough" Topics

Stay away from politics and religion. Chances are, you'll never agree.

8) Show some vulnerability

Show a TINY bit of vulnerability (such as a small secret or one little thing from your childhood) in order to establish an emotional connection.

9) Slow Down Your Speech

The slower you speak, the more attention people will give you. (And the more confident you will sound.)

10) Have Fun

If you learn to APPRECIATE talking to people, you will be WAY AHEAD of most guys. Why? Because most people DREAD talking to women. They see it as a "task" they have to do in order to get girls.

But guess what? Any time you treat something as a "task" instead of something you ENJOY doing, you'll really just wasting your time. As I say all the time, dating should be FUN. If you're not having fun, then you shouldn't be dating.

Good Luck and have FUN!

10 Ways To Make Great Compliments

2008-11-12T05:27:00.000-08:00

Here are a couple of rules for making "killer compliments".

1) Don't compliment a woman "too much". Always mix it
up with flirting and teasing.

2) Don't compliment the obvious. If a woman's a good
musician, chances are, she has heard it hundreds of
times already.

3) Find something specific or unique to compliment on.
For example, instead of complimenting how good a woman
is at piano, find something specific to say, such as,
"I love the technique you had during that last passage.
Every note was perfectly balanced, and you don't hear
that very often. Sometimes not even from the pro's."

4) Think about what's important to the woman, not
what's important to you.

5) Use "I" instead of "You". Instead of saying
"You're wonderful", say "I was blown away by the way
you..." This will show you're giving her your approval
instead of sucking up to her. (Big difference!)

6) Don't forget to compliment the ordinary things that
often go unnoticed.

7) If the person acts modest, nod and say "I believe
in you." Once again, you're showing her approval
instead of sucking up to her.

8) Sometimes, a non-verbal compliment is just as good
as a verbal compliment. For example, you can nod when
you see something great or act like you're really
enjoying the dinner she has cooked for you.

9) What a woman wants to hear may not be what a woman
is good at. It may be what the woman WISHES she was
good at. Never forget that.

10) To further a conversation, ask a probing question
after a compliment. For example, after complimenting
on a woman's piano skills, ask her more about what
kind of music she likes and get into a conversation
about music.

Good Luck!

9 Ways to Get Yourself A Girlfriend

2008-11-08T23:05:00.000-08:00

Here's how you can get a girlfriend in 9 easy steps:

1) Turn off your computer and go out. Expand your social circle as much as you can - I guarantee you will meet MANY women on the way. Join a few hobbie clubs, go to house parties...or even get a volunteer job somewhere. I don't care how you do it. JUST GO OUT AND MAKE AS MANY FRIENDS AS POSSIBLE.

2) Flirt with every woman you meet - even if they are 60 year old's. Let go of all of your expectations and just flirt with women to give them pleasure, not to get anything in return. (As some of my Christian readers have told me, flirting is a way of "giving", not a way of getting. Having this mindset will give you GREAT success with women.)

3) Tease women.

4) Act like a complete challenge.

5) If you come across a woman you would like to meet, get into a conversation with her and ask for her phone number.

6) Go out on a first date and have fun. Focus on building the sexual chemistry. Remember to end the date early.

7) Ask her out again a couple of days later. Keep going out with her. Take it "one date at a time." Just focus on building the chemistry and do not talk about getting together AT ALL.

8) As you continue to date her, remember to keep on advancing physically. Hold her hand, kiss her, stroke her hair, and cuddle with her. It doesn't matter if you kiss her on the first date or on the fifth date, as long you keep advancing forward.

9) Have 7-10 dates with her. If the energy is good, at the end of the 10th date give her a kiss and ask her to become your girlfriend.

And good Luck because the 10th Way - is you got already yourself a Girlfriend.

10 Ways to Develop a Magnetic Personality

2008-11-07T04:28:00.000-08:00

Below are the 10 Ways to Develop a Magnetic Personality in order to increase your success with women:
1) HUMOROUS: Funny people are ALWAYS more charismatic than people that are too serious. Funny = Exciting; Serious = Boring, get it?
2) AMBITIOUS: Charismatic men are often driven and hardworking in their pursuit of their impossible dreams. On the other hand, insecure men set goals that are really small because they are afraid of not reaching them. (That's if they set any goals at all.)
3) INTUITIVE: Charismatic men are often good "people-readers". They can read situations and people with ease and build rapport with anyone quickly.
4) PLAYFUL: Charismatic men aren't afraid to flirt and be playful.
5) CREATIVE: Charismatic men are often creative rather than "just practical". They have big dreams and a vivid imagination. They can capture your heart with their ideas, philosophies, and dreams.
6) ADVENTUROUS: Charismatic men are always looking to live their lives to their fullest.
7) SOCIAL: Charismatic men are comfortable talking to anyone about anything. They make friends easily. It is no wonder they connect with women with ease - because they can connect with ANYONE at ease.
8) UNPREDICTABLE: You never quite know what these wild boys will do next.
9) OPTIMISTIC: Nobody likes cynical assholes. Be optimistic about everything, and people will like you more. Remember: there is a sunny side in every situation.
10) LAIDBACK: Charismatic men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves. They are relaxed in every situation and don't let anything get to them.

As you go through this list, ask yourself honestly how many of these qualities you possess. I don't care how much "game" you have. If you don't have an interesting personality, you're going to become very BORING to a woman fast. Furthermore, having a more magnetic personality will allow you to:
- Get far more respect from women than the average person
- Exude self-confidence and power
- Draw women to you with less effort
- Put people at ease and make them feel understood
In short, even though it'll take some serious work on your part to develop these traits in your personality, THE RESULTS WILL BE WORTH YOUR TROUBLE.

Good Luck!

Flirting Using A Funny Teasing Technique

2008-11-01T18:43:00.000-07:00

Here's a funny value-building technique that most of the "successful" guys used for flirting.
1) Look around the room for an ugly guy or a "loser". He should be behind where your girl is sitting or standing.
2) Lean closer to the woman and tell her, "There's a guy behind you who's checking you out."
3) Say something like, "Yes, that's him. The guy in the funny shirt. He's been looking at you the whole time. Maybe you should ask him out."
4) She will probably say, "No way! "
5) Say, "Why not? I think he'd be the perfect boyfriend for you. He'll..."
6) From here, list a long list of things that the "average guy" does, such as calling her too often and sending her flowers.
7) Say, "No? Well, then what DO you like?"
8) After she answers, say, "Well, too bad you're too much
of a nice girl for me."
9) Before she can respond, say, "Hey! Look! He's checking you out again!"
10) Change topics and talk about something else. She'll
be dying to ask you why you think she is too much of a nice girl
for you. (So don't be surprised when she suddenly pops the question in a few hours or even a few days. It happens all the time!)

Good Luck!

Flirting with A Nice Eye Contact Trick

2008-11-01T04:56:00.000-07:00

Here's another nice eye-contact trick for you.

Next time you're with a girl, increase your eye contact with her to about eighty percent of the time when you talk to her. Try to look DEEPLY into her eyes and even through it. Of course, you don't have to count how many seconds you have to look at her. Simply let your eyes be glued to hers a little longer, even during the silences; and when you finally must look away, drag your eyes away slowly as if you're feeling quite reluctantly, and look back at her again as soon as you can.

If you do this correctly, it will shoot the energy level way up to the moon!

Good Luck!

25 Signs A Woman Likes You

2008-10-29T06:22:00.000-07:00

Here are 25 signs You must remember a woman likes you...
1) She asks people lots of questions about you.
2) She flirts with you, and you only.
3) She talks about you a lot in front of other people.
4) She talks to you about things she has heard from friends.
5) She keeps asking about your love life.
6) She teases you a lot.
7) She blushes in red when she sees you.
8) She tenses up when you touch her but does not attempt to move away at all.
9) She doesn't look away when you check her out.
10)She constantly adjusts or smoothes your clothing's.
11) She starts a conversation with you, when you don't know her.
12) She gives you all her contact information when you just ask for her number or email.
13) She gets jealous when you flirt with other women.
14) She dresses up when sees you.
15) She laughs at all your jokes.
16) She thrusts her breasts out while talking to you.
17) She wants to spend time with you.
18)She's very "obedient".
19) She acts excessively offended when you tease her and tries to get you to "make it up".
20) She TALKS about getting angry at you, but never does.
21) She invites you over at night.
22) She calls you or talks to you for no reason.
23) She asks you out to an event with her.
24) She comments how great you smell.
25) She plays with your hair.

Good Luck!

Flirt Test is Effective

2008-10-25T22:14:00.000-07:00

A reader emailed me and asked if I could post some "body language signs" that shows a woman's attraction for a man.

The answer is "NO" because body language signs are WAY too easy to be misused or abused.

There are a lot of books out there that state crazy things such as, "If a woman tilts her head at 45 degrees while looking at you from her shoulder and smiling at you with her legs crossed, she must be attracted to you."

This is utterly USELESS in my opinion. In fact, I really think it's all b@llsh*t.

My motto is always KISS, or "Keep it Simple, Stupid!"

I don't need to check 15 different body language indicators to see if a woman is attracted to me. I just do the "Flirt Test".

When I want to find out if a girl is attracted to me, I merely flirt with her a little bit. If she flirts back, then I flirt more.

I just keep testing the waters and raising the chemistry until she's all over me.

This works MUCH better than sitting back while "looking for body language signs", which is really passive AND useless.

Good Luck!

How to Flirt Online

2008-10-22T05:07:00.000-07:00

Are you wondering How do you flirt with women on the Internet?

One easy way to flirt with women online is by writing a fairy tale with her while you're chatting with her on Yahoo Messenger. (Or any other instant messaging program.)

Here's how to do it:

1) Tell her you're working on a masterpiece. Ask her if she would like to hear it.

2) Choose a basic story as your framework. (Knight saves princess, etc.)

3) Put her in the role of the princess. Put yourself in the role of the hero or knight. Stick her title in front of her name as you tell her the story to make it cuter. ("Princess Mary" or "Princess Joanne" or whatever.)

4) Start by saying "Once upon a time, there a princess called..."

5) Add yourself into the story.

6) Add a dumb guy you both know (or a famous person) as the villain.

7) Work mutual friends into the story as you can. (Have a buddy as the village idiot and her friend as the princess's maid, for example.)

8) Have the hero save the princess from the bad guy.

9) Tell her you haven't finished the story yet.

10) Use a tease-false-ending. "Robin John dumps Princess Marion onto the ground and rides off to the sunset alone."

11) Watch her whine and tell you how that's not the way it should be.

12) Ask her to come up with a better ending. She will.

13) Tell her you have to go and say something like "Sweet dreams. Dream about your prince, princess ."

Good luck guys! and happy FLIRTING!

Two Keys To Getting More Women

2008-10-19T06:40:00.000-07:00

These are the Two Secret KEYS to Getting More Women

Secret Key #1) Go Out More

The first key is to GO OUT, GO OUT, and GO OUT some more.

It always amazes me how so many guys expect to meet women when they spend most of their time playing video games or watching television at home. How's staying at home going to improve your love life? The more you go out, the more people you will meet. And the more people you will meet, the more WOMEN you will meet, period.
I know it probably sounds like common sense. That's because it is.

And common sense WORKS!

If you don't have much of a love life right now, then I want you to go out more and meet more friends. It*WILL* help. I promise you!

Secret Key #2) The second key is to FLIRT with the girls you meet.

If you never flirt, then no matter how many girls you meet, they will just end up seeing your as their "friend." Without a romantic spark, you will NOT get anywhere with these women.

Being serious around women will NOT help you in dating. You *have* to be playful. Serious is boring, playful is fun, get it?

Good Luck!

101 Ways To Be Playful With Women

2008-09-19T03:18:00.000-07:00

There are so many ways to be playful with women. Below are 20 of them which is one way or another will enhance your flirting prowess towards women. But keep in mind that these are only examples.

Of course, one must have a playful ATTITUDE to being playful! Right?

So, here the few examples of the 101 Ways to Be Playful with Women:

1) Poke her.

2) Tackle her.

3) Lift her up.

4) Challenge her to arm wrestling.

5) Play thumb war with her.

6) Give her a piggy back ride...and run as fast as you can.

7) Throw something tiny at her. Then look away and whistle as
she looks at you.

8) Steal something from her and make her wrestle you to get
it back.

9) Twirl her around.

10) Pinch her nose and shake it like she's a plush toy.

11) Role-play with her.

12) Give her a nickname.

13) Do a dumb little dance.

14) Pretend you are her and exaggerate.

15) Play with a small animal with her.

16) Play with a small kid with her.

17) Take her to skating or mini-golf. Goof around a bit.

18) Play tic-tac-toe with her on a frosted window.

19) Cover her eyes from behind.

20) Tap her on one shoulder and walk the other way.

Good Luck!

How Women Fall In Love

2008-09-14T03:25:00.000-07:00

This maybe an outrageous theory on How women Fall In Love.

But, I want to tell you that we fall in love when we're NOT in our crush's presence. Right?

Remember the last time you fell in love with a girl? How did it happen?

If I am correct, I bet you had felt an attraction for her as soon as you saw her. But after you had gone home...you couldn't help but to think about her more and more...and as you thought about her more and more...and imagined yourself in all sorts of romantic situations with her...you suddenly realized that you are in love...

Does it sounds familiar? Do you remember your first love?

I think a similar process happens with women. When they meet a guy they like, they may feel an attraction for him. But they ONLY fall in love LATER when they are NOT in the guy's presence anymore. They fall in love as they later think about the guy and wonder, "Does he like me? Or does he not?"

Here are a few ideas on how you can use this concept to attract women:

1) Don't Be Too Available: Let women think about you and fall in love in the process.

2) Don't Tell Her You Like Her: Let her wonder instead!

3) End Dates Early: Give her more reason to think about you.

Good luck with women!

How To Ask A Woman By Granting Her Permission

2008-09-06T19:37:00.000-07:00

How To 'Ask' A Woman By Granting Her Permission

Today's tip is going to be very short...

    I'm going to teach you a good way to "ask" a woman to
do something, such as coming up to your apartment.

    Instead of saying, "Would you like to come in?", say
"You can come in for a couple of minutes."

    By using "can" instead of "would you like to", not
only are you acting like a challenge by not asking her like
a wuss, you are also GRANTING HER PERMISSION and presupposing
that she has EARNED it.

    This way, you can ask a woman to come back to your
place WHILE acting like a challenge!

Good Luck!

Volunteering Your Way to Paradise

2008-09-05T17:26:00.000-07:00

A very good way of meeting nice girls:
By Volunteering.

Most volunteer places are places where the females outnumber guys 10 to 1. Also, today most volunteers are younger college students, etc who are there to pick up work experience. This means they are going to be young and cute! These girls also make nice girlfriends because no cold, lying, cheating, bad girl who enjoys playing guys would have the heart to waste time volunteering! They would much rather spend all their time cheating on guys instead!

When you volunteer, try to find a volunteering job you would actually enjoy. Do you like art? Work at the art museum. Keep in mind that the volunteers who work at your destination will probably share the same interests as you. What a great basis for a friendship or relationship!

Now go down to that hospital and meet all the young nurses! Good Luck!

Assertive 101

2008-09-04T21:17:00.000-07:00

How To Be Assertive 101:

Lesson #1) Do not express anger and annoyance while on a date. Always remain calm, even when you wrecked your car, okay?

Lesson #2) Speak up and learn to say NO. Women "test" guys all the time - even at a subconscious level. They act like little brats and see if you will let them get their way. If you do, they  will see you as a wimp and dump you. But if you don't even bulge, then they will have more respect for you.  Have the "You don't have me fooled for a minute, dear" attitude every time a girl throws a tantrum.

Lesson #3) Look at people when you talk to them. Stare at her eyes, not at her boobs!

Lesson #4) Ask for help if you need it. The real man realizes he's not all-powerful and isn't afraid of asking for help.

Lesson #5) Be in charge. You're taking the woman out, not the other way around!

Start acting more assertive, and the women will notice a difference in you almost immediately. 

Women's Secret Fantasy

2008-09-03T21:07:00.000-07:00

Women's Secret Fantasy

Women love it when their men are in control. It's their
secret fantasy. So don't act like a little wimp going out with his mother when you go out with a woman, okay?

   When you walk into a restaurant, choose where to seat. Just say "Let's sit over there" and take her hand. If she makes a suggestion about where to sit, say something like "No. Let's sit over there. It seems like a nice spot." and just take her there. No further questions.

   I am not asking you to be a control freak. I just want you to start acting more assertive. Most guys are too weak in this area.

   Women love to "surrender completely" to a guy. So make their secret and darkest fantasy come true, okay?

Slow Down If You Want To Get Women

2008-09-02T07:30:00.000-07:00

Slow Down If You Want To Get Women. When you talk, talk slow. When you move, move slow. Yes!

Why? Because slowing down will make you come off as a much more confident and mysterious person. Don't believe me? Try to rent any old James Bond movie. Really observe the way Bond moves. See if he's ever in a rush when there aren't any bombs exploding around him.

Remember, a man who is in control has no reason to be in a hurry. They are always relaxed because they just KNOW they are in charge of the situation. Every movement a confident man makes is slow and almost "calculated". Just like James Bond, he just knows when to pick up his cup and when to raise an eyebrow. Women know this, and that's why they go for the "strong, silent type."

Want proof? Okay, here's a more "recent" example. Remember Joe Millionaire on TV? Not the smartest guy, is he? But women find him dead sexy. He's not exactly what I would call the most articulate person in the world, but all the ladies (including my mother) dig him because of his body language. If you observe the way Evan moves on TV, you will find that he's just about the slowest guy on earth.

Want more examples? Okay. Just watch any episode of "Blind Date" or the "5th Wheel". The strong, silent and slow type ALWAYS win and get picked at the end. As for the hyperactive goofballs, they almost never get the girls. Now, who would YOU rather be? The stud or the goofball?

Advancing To Conquer Her

2008-09-01T07:22:00.000-07:00

"Advancing" To Conquer Her. Yes. It sounds all too simple, but I can guarantee you its true. When you are seducing a woman, every move you make should bring you closer to home base. Dont waste your time idling or depending on "luck". If you want something, you will have to get it yourself. And if you want to get into a girls pants, you will have to strip her defense down bit-by-bit, piece-by-piece, and step-by-step.

When you meet her, get her phone number. When you have her phone number, get a date. When you go out with her, hold her hand. When you're holding her hand, kiss her. Know what I mean? Let me list the steps a man typically has to go through to sleep with a woman.

1)    Initial Meeting
2)    Phone Number
3)    Date
4)    Hold Hands
5)    Kiss
6)    Cuddle
7)    Touch With Shirt On
8)    Hands under Shirt
9)    Foreplay
10)    Sex

In order to go from step one to ten, you will have to keep advancing. The trick to doing this is to keep working and working to get her ready for the next level. For example, if she isn't ready for a kiss, keep flirting with her till she wants one. If she doesnt want to take her bra off, sniff her neck and cuddle till she wants you to be all over her. She's worried about sex? Turn her on more with foreplay till shes begging you for it. Here's a good one. Tease her by saying, "All you have to say is please." If she says no, go back to cuddling and touching. Eventually she will be screaming YES.

Dont worry if you hit a few obstacles. Every time you bump into a wall, just see it as an opportunity to find out more about the girl. This is all information you can use later. See it as narrowing down a list of what she might like. Eventually you will find her sweet spot. No pun intended.

How To Compliment a Girl

2008-08-31T07:09:00.000-07:00

How to compliment a woman the proper way. Remember that girls love compliments.
You must know that there is a little girl inside every woman who wants to be loved. And this is why if you make a good compliment the right way, she is going to be very happy.

Remember that attractive women are usually used to compliments. I can bet you that a good-looking woman gets compliments on her looks wherever she goes. If she really is beautiful, she already knows it. What's more, she was born with her body, so if you're just complimenting on her perfect body, you're really complimenting the Creator, not her.

So how can you be different than the rest of the guys? Well, there is only one thing you need to remember:

Your compliments will have to be special. In every way.

1) Compliment On Whats REALLY Special About Her:

You should always compliment on something unique like what she has done. Don't bother to compliment on her good looks because she was born with it. Compliment her on a funny joke she has made or a skirt she has made by herself. Or compliment her positive attributes such as her personality or honesty.

2) Be Detailed:

   Always be detailed and clear. Girls love details. By the
way, if she is wearing socks that match with her top, its not
by coincidence. Let her know you noticed.

3) Mean What You Say:

   Really look into her eyes when you compliment her. Also,
never use false flattery. If you say something, then mean it.
Or at least practice till you sound like you mean it. Trust me,
after repeating something so many times, you will start to
believe it. =)

4) Don't Overdo It:

   Your compliments will only be special if you compliment
her every once in awhile. The less you compliment a woman, the more it will mean to her.

5) Only Compliment Her Because She Is Special

   Most guys compliment a girl because they want a date.
Don't be like them. Compliment her because she is special, and
because you want to. I personally like to compliment a girl and
then leave. This always makes a girl warmer to me the next time
I see her again.

If you do this to someone you don't know, she will be
flattered and try to find out who you are as you walk away!
Good Luck!

Inside Jokes and Pet Names

2008-08-30T07:01:00.000-07:00

Here's a quick tip that can turbocharge your love life by creating an impression of intimacy with the women you meet.

    Okay. Whenever a woman tells you a story, pull out a little phrase or joke that invokes your Quarrys favorite part.
Or make up a phrase or joke about a situation you two have been in.

    Now let time PASS before you invoke the joke in a conversation. Remember the longer you wait, the stronger the punch will be when it finally comes!

    You may also think of a cute nickname for your girl. Use it to tease her every once in awhile: it will create a sense
of intimacy if you do it correctly!

Getting Your First Kiss

2008-08-28T07:36:00.000-07:00

The KILLER way to get your first kiss with a girl. Here's the secret how?

You should NEVER have to ask a woman for your first
kiss. (Only WIMPS ask for a first kiss, and you should know by
now that women are NOT attracted to wimps!) You should "test
the waters" by using the following technique instead:

    Flirt heavily with her and get some good connection
when you're over at her house. Then when the moment is right,
I want you to look into her eyes...and stroke her hair. Tell her
her hair smells good. Look into her eyes again and see how she
reacts. (Feedback is IMPORTANT) She's got those dreamy eyes?
Lift her chin up with a finger and tell her her eyes are
beautiful and gaze deeply into them. She still responding well?
Great. Lean down SLOWLY towards her lips. (If she doesn't pull
away then she WANTS the kiss). Kiss her lightly on her lips.
Pull back and look into her eyes again. Smile. Then kiss her
again, but make it harder and longer this time. Kiss her for
awhile and then start nibbling on her neck.

    Once you've "melted" her with this, she should be ready
to do more.

    Well, there you have it, the killer technique to get
your first kiss with the girl of your dream. It won't guarantee
you'll have a girlfriend by tomorrow night but it can certainly
give you a better "edge" the next time you're out with a girl.:

PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES

2008-08-21T20:01:00.000-07:00

Let me ask you a question...how badly do you want a girl?
.....Then Start Flirting Now!

Flirting Technique: Use Nicknames

    When you get closer to a woman, make up a cute nickname
    for her.

Flirting Technique: Touch Her Back

    If she starts touching you, then touch her on the
    shoulder or arm when you laugh. Increase the frequency of
    touching as the night goes on.

Flirting Technique: Leave Her Wanting More

    Do what strippers do the guys. Get a girl all hot and
    then leave her wanting more!

Flirting Technique: Laugh At Her Jokes

    Laugh at her jokes whenever she makes one. Touch her on
    the arm lightly when you laugh if she's already touching you.

Flirting Technique: Listen To Her Stories

    Pay attention to what she says. Be focused on her, not
    on the hot waitress.

Flirting Technique: Drop A Compliment

    Drop her a compliment every once in awhile. Not too often
    though!

Flirting Technique: Tease Her

    Incorporate teasing into your flirting. Tease her till
    she's wet!

Flirting Technique: Get More Personal

    Ask her more and more personal questions as the evening
    progresses. Things about her childhood, etc!

Flirting Technique: Stir Your Drink

    Stir your drink with a rhythm as you talk to her.
    The effect can be "hypnotizing" under the right
    atmosphere.

Flirting Technique: Lower Your Volume

    Lower and lower your volume so she has to lean towards
    you to listen.

Flirting Technique: Whisper

    When she gets close enough, whisper to her. This works
    well in a bar, when the music is so loud you have to
    talk in each other ears.

Flirting Technique: Be Playful

    Ask yourself the following questions:
        1) How much fun can I have tonight?
        2) What sorts of interesting things can I
        find out about this girl?

Well? It is up to you now guys. Good Luck!

Flirting is the Ultimate KEY

2008-08-20T19:36:00.000-07:00

As you probably know already, flirting is the ultimate KEY to building up sexual chemistry with women.

So, here are some of the flirting moves that I would like you to try. Hope you will share your respective experiences by posting in the comment section of this blog if these tips are effective.

Flirting Technique: Eye-Contact

    Most of flirting is done with your eyes. Keep good
    eye-contact on a woman when you talk to her. Just keep
    your eyes focused on her a bit "too long."

Flirting Technique: Say "Hello" With Energy

    When you approach a woman, say "Hello" in a flirty way.
    It will make her think you are sexier than the average
    geek who walks up to her and gives her a shy "Hi".

Flirting Technique: Shake Her Hand A Bit Too Long

    When you shake her hand, let your hand stay on hers
    for a bit too long and then brush against her hand as
    you pull back. Do this while smiling and looking into
    her eyes sincerely. You don want to come off as a
    pervert.

Flirting Technique: Repeat The Woman's Name

    As you talk to her, repeat her name as much as you can.
    Say her name slow, softly and sensually each time you
    say it.

    Example: "Hello, De-bbie, I am very glad you came
        here..."

These are just a few of so many PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES that will make the girl you want fall for you. And the best part is...the techniques are all so easy to follow, you will be dating beautiful women in no time.

Good Luck! More PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES will be posted here so do not fail to visit my blog as often as you want.

Basic Preparations in Dating

2008-08-19T19:10:00.000-07:00

Here is a quick list of little things to look out for before you even attempt to go near a woman:

1) Keep your nails clean and cut them often. Long nails only look great on girls.

2) Wear a deodorant. There's nothing worse then being around a smelly pig.

3) Keep your teeth clean and your breath fresh.

4) You can wear a little bit of cologne, but remember that none is better then too much when it comes to cologne. Do what girls do. Spray some in the air and then WALK THROUGH IT.

5) Shower often.

6) Get a nice watch. Doesn't have to be a Rolex. Just anything without a LCD screen will do.

7) Throw away any shirts with sweat stain marks.

8) Keep your glasses clean and your shoes shiny.

Yes, this is all simple common-sense. But you would be suprised at the number of guys who are going to screw up because they forget to do these things. Don't be one of them.

Women do not Care About a Man Loves Them

2008-08-18T18:47:00.000-07:00

Yes it is true. Women do not care about a man loves them.

They only care about how much THEY like a man. I am sure you like her, but does she like you? YOU DON'T KNOW!

Remember the key to attraction is...it's not how much you're attracted to a woman, but how much she is attracted to YOU that matters.

Most of the time, men who "gather the courage" to "suddenly tell the girl he loves her" usually do it at the "wrong" time, like when a girl least expects it. Surprises are scary and women don't know how to react. Their NATURAL reaction is to turn you down on the spot ("I have a boyfriend" or "I am not looking for someone right now", etc) just to be safe - even if they regret it later.

So, instead of putting the focus on your feelings and worrying about how you can tell her you love her, I want you to focus on getting HER to tell you she likes you.

The best thing you must do is FLIRTING with her. This will allow you to see if she likes you or not. If she ignores you or doesn't respond well to the flirting, then she's not interested in you. But if she flirts back, she wants you!

Start flirting with her and drive the chemistry up. It's time to ATTRACT her, not to chase her. Your goal is to get HER to fall for you and eventually ask you the "Are we together?" question. Good Luck!

Dating is Easy

2008-08-17T18:26:00.000-07:00

Dating is EASY
If you know how - but you must still put in somework. I can show you all the little secrets you can use to meet, attract and date beautiful women, but you must PUT THEM TO USE.

You must be willing to change what you do habitually if you want to become successful with women. After all, to get things you've never had before, you must first do things you've never done before. Makes simple sense, doesn't it? Remember: if you just keep on what you've been doing all these years, you will just keep on getting what you've got - NOTHING!

Dating is a Skill
Contrary to popular beliefs, seducing beautiful women is a skill you can learn. Most "players" out there get laid not because they are rich and handsome, but because they are skilled in what they do in their past time - picking up women. They are the people who have been rejected over and over before finally picking up the skills they need to be successful with women.

The good news for you, my friend, is that these skills can be learned by anyone. This means anyone, regardless of his looks, wealth, and status, can become a master at picking up women once they have learned the right skills.

Every skill needs to be learned. You had to learn how to walk, how to talk, how to read, how to use a computer and so on. These are all skills you had to learn because you needed them. And meeting woman is just another skill you should learn - the sooner the better.

Confidence comes from Your Knowledge
Most men who are shy around women are only shy because they don't know what they are doing. Everybody has a few strong areas and a few weak ones. We're all confident in the areas we're best at and less confident in the areas we're not so good at.

If you're good at computer programming and I asked you to write a simple program for me, you'd probably take the job since you know you can code well. Same if you're in the army and I asked you to take a M16 apart and put it back together again. But what if I asked you to walk up to a beautiful woman and introduce yourself to her? You'd probably freak out because you'd feel small and insecure around such a beautiful Goddess.

But what if you knew what you were doing? What if you knew exactly when to approach her, exactly what to say, and exactly how to seduce her on the spot? What if you knew all the little hot buttons you could push to make her hot and sweaty for you? Attracting women would then be extremely easy for you - because you'd know precisely what you have to do to make a woman fall in love with you.

So do yourself a favor: Start learning and practicing the fine art of dating. Good Luck!

Be a Great Lover

2007-09-28T07:10:00.000-07:00

By: Peter Toole
Most men aren't really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one. So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a guy after the first time they make love? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women? First off, women like to be listened to. They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed can lead touch better sex. Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him.

What's more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly LIKE women. That makes a big difference. The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn't see them as friends. A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

Also a man who touches women gently and doesn't rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good. So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don't feel that way. It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all. It certainly isn't the way to excite and stimulate most women.

And of course, a great lover knows about the female body. He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind. He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes - or doesn't make. He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs. If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately.

A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn't just stick in his penis and hammer at her. He doesn't stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most men do.

What really keeps most men from being great lovers - lovers that women remember with a smile for years - is that they have a goal - and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal. They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Next time you are on a date with a woman, try listening to her - really listening. Talk with her, get to really know her. Enjoy her company, don't focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later or anything other than the time you are spending with her at that very moment. If you treat every minute you spend with her in this way, and you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you - and that is the most important first step toward being a great lover.

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How To Date Women - Some Basics

2007-09-28T07:04:00.000-07:00

By: Brad Burns

Why is it that for some men, dating women is a complex and baffling challenge. I mean really, dating should be fun and relaxing. Is dating women now a science or an art? Or is there some simple basics that any man can follow and be successful with women? Well, actually there are some basic do's and don'ts, which if you pay attention to can greatly improve things for you the next time you go on a date.

Men quite often find women complex and hard to understand, even though they are human just like us. Many men realise that they have very little knowledge about what a woman likes and dislikes, what turns a women on and how to date a women the correct way to ensure it is a great success. Most men will try to sound cool and conceited when they are dating a woman, thinking that they can impress them more with that kind of attitude. Men have tried to impress women by buying them drinks, cars, homes, and other kinds of gifts and this kind of behaviour does create attraction butunfortunately the attraction is normally wrong kind of woman.

So, don't be like all the rest out there, but so some things that seperate you from the crowd, and this on it's own will make you more attractive. For instance, there is quite simply nothing that is a bigger turn on to a woman than a man performing a romantic gesture off his own back, this could mean something as simple as giving the woman in question flowers or cooking a romantic dinner for her. Also make sure you treat each woman like she is an individual deserving of your attention, be interested in her and what she is saying rather than trying to impress.

Also, bear in mind that women tend to be curious and naturally attracted to what they don't know. So if you are listening to her rather than talking all the time you will create curiosity as well. Whether you are trying to meet women or approach them, the ability to naturally attract them is extremely valuable. And this will also help build attraction because it will be building a good rapport with the woman in question. The key to success with women isn't to focus on what women want, it's cracking the code that causes attraction in her.

Some other basic tips to bear in mind include bathing, smelling good, and trimming away nose hair. Also be honest and don't lie. I know that it is tempting to impress and make things appear better than they are, but if your relationship develops then the truth will come out eventually, and in my opinion, out of all the dating tips out there, this is probably one of the most important ones of them all. So when you go on your date or ask someone out on one, be yourself. As we have already touched on most men will be brash and your friends will have probably told you that there are expectations that you have to live up to in order to attract and date women, but really there is no need to get hung up about all of this. Just be yourself and remember that women are attracted to men who act confidently around women.

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Dating Advice: Using The Triple R Technique

2007-09-25T08:44:00.000-07:00

By: Spencer Michaels

So, you’ve gone on a date with a girl and you really like her. Now you want to make sure that she wants to continue dating you. One way to assure a second date is to be very attentive on the first date to one specific topic that SHE brought up. The first step to The Triple R Technique™ is Remembering. Remember as much as possible about a specific topic that she spoke about. Try to pick a topic that she seemed very interested in.

To demonstrate this technique I’ll use a specific situation where I used it recently. I was out a restaurant on a first date with an extremely attractive woman. She was really into cooking. She was telling me about all the different recipes that she loved to prepare. I could tell that she was really passionate about it. So what did I do after the date? I moved on to the second R and did some simple Research. I went to the food network’s website and found some upcoming shows that looked interesting. You can just as easily go to tvguide.com and do a search for anything she might have been talking about. For example, if she was really into tennis, you can search for upcoming shows or tennis or search elsewhere online for upcoming tennis events. The next thing I did was called her a few days after our date and I got her voicemail. So I took this opportunity to perform the third R of the triple R Technique. I Recited the new information that I gathered. I remembered she spoke about how she loved making all different kinds of pasta sauces. In my message I included, “Oh, by the way, Emeril is making his Penne Vodka sauce on his show tomorrow night on the Food Network. I doubt it’s as good as yours but I figured I’d let you know if you wanted to pick up a few tips.” Always have this prepared before your phone call after the first date. This way, if she was semi-interested in you and let’s her phone go to voicemail, you have just increased your chances substantially of her calling you back.

She will love the fact that you actually listened to what she was saying and took an active interest in it. She’ll be amazed because I highly doubt any other guys have ever done this, thereby making you different and interesting.

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2007-09-25T08:36:00.000-07:00

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Do Women Respect You As A Man?

2007-08-10T05:05:00.000-07:00

1) Have you ever been "nice" to a woman that just wants
to be "your friend"?

2) Do you have trouble saying "no" to attractive women -
especially the ones you like?

3) Do you tend to become "nicer and nicer" to a girl over
a period of time?

4) Has any woman ever stopped seeing you after a few
dates?

5) Have you ever complimented a woman...only to have
her walk away and show no interest...or even look annoyed?

6) Have you ever had an attractive woman coming to you
to WHINE about the abuses she has to take from the JERK
she is dating?

If you've answered "yes" to any of these questions...then I've got something to tell you:

WOMEN DON'T RESPECT YOU...
...I am sorry, but it's true. This is EXCATLY why you aren't having success with women... because they don't respect you as a man. (I know this sounds painful - but it's true.)

And here's the bottom line:
Women are ONLY attracted to guys they RESPECT.

Don't believe me? You know...it's the same for guys too:
We are only attracted to girls we respect. As men, we can have sex with hot sluts...but we never STAY with them because we don't respect them at all. So...if a girl tries to have sex with us in order to seduce us because she thinks guys are just after sex, she's going to be in a nasty surprise. Sure...we may have sex with them or even fall for her in the short run...but over time, we're going to lose respect and eventually dump her because she's just "too easy".

The same applies to dating women. We can shower them with tons of love and care. We can buy them expensive gifts and drive them to work everyday. We can take care of them when they are depressed and give them a shoulder to cry on. We can give them all the "nice things" in life. But guess what? They are not going to become any more attracted to us.

Just like men don't respect women that are too easy, women don't respect men that are too "nice".

So how do we come to respect a member of the opposite sex? How do we get hot women to respect us? Well, according to psychologists, our respect of other people is usually based on
our perception of the person's independence and self-reliance. For example, we're drawn towards leaders and other "powerful" people because they are strong and independent.

The opposite is also true. The "clingier" a person is, the less respect we have for them. Would you want your girlfriend to call you 10 times a day...day after day...week after week...year after year?

So...in a nutshell...here's the lesson for this week...

HAVE SOME BACKBONE SO WOMEN CAN START GIVING YOU THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE!!!

I am serious. Start walking around with a SPINE...especially when you're around attractive women. Trust me, as soon as you stop letting women walk all over you, they're going to respect you and like you more.

Here are some practical tips on how to GET A SPINE:

1) Learn To Say "No": Not in an angry way, but in a calm and
almost "indifferent" manner. (Real men never get angry. Real
men put women back into their places by saying "no" to them
calmly. )

Examples:

"No, dear. We're not going to that restaurant tonight."

"No, I don't want to wait for you to call me 2 hours
before the movie to see if you're going. If you can't
come, tell me now so I can make other plans or go with
someone else."

2) Don't Be Too Nice: If you're the type of guy that likes
to "be nice" to women and buy them gifts and take them out
to dinner, I want you to stop now. Stop letting them order
you around. Stop volunteering to "do things for them". Every
time you fetch her bottle for her or give her a ride home,
she's going to see you MORE as a wussy FRIEND instead of
a potential LOVER, get it?

3) Be Prepared To Walk: If you aren't getting what you want
from a girl, there's no use hanging around. If you aren't
happy in a relationship, break out of it. Having this
attitude will give you A LOT of power. Once women know that
you CAN and WILL walk out if necessary, they won't take
you for granted anymore.

4) Plan Out Dates: This is actually the easiest way to
demonstrate your leadership and independence. Have the whole
date planned out before you go. Stay in control and just give
her a good night out. Remember that people are drawn towards
those that have a CLEAR sense of where they're going...
so if you plan everything ahead...your date is going to
respect you more.

5) Be Decisive: If a girl asks you whether you would like
to go for dinner or a play, don't say, "Whatever you like."
Give a REAL answer. Every time you give the "let's do
whatever you like, darling" kind of answer, you're handing
your power over to HER. Sooner or later, she's going to
stop respecting you as an equal partner.

6) Don't Care About What She Thinks Of You: Remember that
your job is to ATTRACT her, not to PLEASE her. Don't let
her know that you care what they think of you at all. The
moment a girl knows you rely on her opinion of you, she's
going to lose respect. Here's the bottom line: women are
only attracted to guys they respect, and guys that try too
hard to please women lose their respect over time!

7) Learn The Dating Game: Women respect guys that KNOW
WHAT THEY ARE DOING. Think about it...if you were a woman,
would you go for a guy that stuttered and sounded not very
confident...or a guy that knew EXCATLY how to approach you,
WHAT to say to you...and HOW to say it?

Remember that women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to guys
they RESPECT. This means POWERFUL, CONFIDENT, and
INDEPENDENT guys that make them feel weak in their knees...

Confidence is a Big Key in Attracting Women

2007-07-09T03:55:00.000-07:00

Confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive views of themselves and their situations. Confident people trust their own abilities and have a great sense of control in lives.

People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure.

In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments.

Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women then those who are not.

THE IMPORTANCE OF TEASING

2007-07-01T08:05:00.000-07:00

The official definition of teasing is as follows:
1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)
2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it

So in short, teasing means:
1) Making fun of a girl playfully
2) Arousing her and then pulling back

To me, teasing basically means sending "mixed signals." Basically, you don't want to do anything that is direct. You want to keep her wondering if you like her or not with your words and body language.

Here are some examples:

Example #1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you
really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really like
you", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct
and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY,
then you can get away with it because you're just joking.

You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you
a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will
leave her wondering if you're really attracted to her or not.
Women love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and
say,"He loves me, he loves me not"

Example #2: You can make fun of something small about her
(don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobes
is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)
She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into her
eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."

Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about
something that is special to both of you. Like if something
funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your
advantage.

Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.
When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,
"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown
off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it
even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."

Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,
try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.
She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's
wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to
try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start making
out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a
VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.

Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a
date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then
you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,
say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see
if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think
she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second
try first..."

The Golden Key to Attracting Women

2007-06-13T00:52:00.000-07:00

SEXUAL CHEMISTRY
Ultimately, SEXUAL CHEMISTRY is all that matters at the beginning of every possible relationship. If you don't have it, you can stop thinking about a second or third date. It ain't going to happen.

You see...attraction is based on FEELINGS, not logic.
Most guys make the mistake of trying to "convince" a girl to
like him by doing stupid things to "impress" her - such as
buying her dinner or reading her poetry. They think that by
telling her what a great guy he is, she will fall for him
and it will be happily ever after. WRONG.

You don't attract women by showing her your
accomplishments or the size of your bank account. You attract
women by MAKING HER HEART BEAT FASTER AND
MAKING HER BODY TEMPERATURE RISE A COUPLE OF DEGREES.

Basically...the golden key to attracting women is by
BUILDING THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

Instead of trying to "impress" her by showing her
your writing or car or whatever, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

Instead of trying to "be smooth" and "sweet-talk" her,
BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

Instead of trying to "get into her pants" on a first
date, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

Instead of trying to "show her you love her", BUILD
THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

Instead of trying to "prove" anything, BUILD THE
SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

See...

Unless you have got SEXUAL CHEMISTRY with women, she
will never, never be attracted to you, get it? She will just
see you as a "friend" or tell you "Sorry, I just don't feel
that way towards you."

So...do you want to build sexual chemistry with the
girl you like? (Of course you do...)

Do You know what Women Want?

2007-05-05T05:19:00.000-07:00

So what DO women want?
What are their inner most desires?
Let's face it. If you have no idea what women REALLY want deep inside, you will never be able to please them completely. You can buy them lots of gifts and obey all their wishes, but they are not going to be attracted to you because you're not giving them what they really want.

Okay. So what DO women want?

Well... After years of interviewing women and men who are successful with women, I've come to realize that there is only ONE thing most women want from a guy: the ability to surrender to him.

Every woman wants to surrender to the "right" guy.

Don't believe me? Just listen to what the following girls have said:

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Natalia, age 24: "I want to surrender to a guy. Not as in a 'wave a white flag and let him walk all over me'kind of way, but in a...'surrender to him completely because I feel so GOOD around him' kind of way. My fantasy is to have my guy in a suit...kissing down my neck while rubbing his hands all over my body. I want him to whisper sexy things in my ears...to make me feel I want to surrender to him, to let him take charge of my body."

Meg, age 21: "I don't like guys that suck up to me. I mean, I enjoy it when guys buy me drinks and try to flatter me, but I am not going to be attracted to these men romantically. I mean come on - I need a man who is stronger than me - not a little boy. I want a REAL man who can love, nuture, and protect me. I want a MAN I can ADMIRE, not a boy who admires me!"

Sarah, age 28: "Men should realize that in today's world, women do not NEED men; We DESIRE men. We make the same money as them so we do not need their money. What we need is the
FEELING of being in love. The feeling of surrendering to our innermost desires. Like, "I love him so much, I am willing to give up everything - just for him."

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Listen. There is a darker side inside every woman that wants to be dominated by a real man. Not in a "beat me up and abuse me" kind of way, but in a "I want a man I can give myself to" kind of way.

Women DON'T want your gifts and flowers. They DON'T want your hopelessly chasing after them. What they REALLY want is a man who can GIVE THEM THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS
THEY FANTASIZE IN THEIR DREAMS and make them feel WEAK in their legs.

They want to think, "I love him so much. I wonder how he feels about me...", not "Wow. That was a nice gift. This boy likes me so much he brought me a necklace!"

They want to feel like YOU'RE the "right one" for them, not because you "love" her and "admire" her, but because SHE feels SHE loves and admires YOU.

Listen:

There are tons of women out there that are WAITING to surrender to you. Your dream date is NOT waiting for you to buy her a flower or "gather the courage" to ask her out. She is waiting for you to ENTER HER LIFE by making her feel "hopefully in love" with you. She wants to feel weak in her legs and melt...into your body.

So... What if you knew EXCATLY how to interact with women in a way that would make them feel they want to SURRENDER to you completely? What if you could build sexual chemistry
with women in a way that would make them think about you every
moment? How would your life be different if you understood the key to making women feel "weak" on the spot? Instead of feeding them power by trying to "buy their love" with flowers, gifts, and compliments, what if you could TAKE THAT POWER AWAY FROM THEM and make them SURRENDER to YOU? You would be walking around like a king because you would have complete confidence with women. After all, Why would you be afraid of women if they
are already MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTED to you?

Dating Tip

2006-05-06T23:05:00.000-07:00

It's Not How Much You Like Her,
But How Much She Likes You That Counts!

You wonder...
1) "Why isn't she answering my calls?"
2) "I love her so much but she's ignoring me. Why?"
3) "Why did she cancel the date?"
4) "Why did she say I am 'too good for her'?"
5) "Why doesn't she want to go out with me anymore?"

Interestingly enough, these guys also get all "logical"and analyze everything to bits. They like to fantasize in their heads about all the "possible scenarios" of why a girl isn't returning their phone calls or why she is breaking up a"perfect" relationship.

Often, they come up with reasons such as:
1) "Maybe she isn't answering my calls because her father is in town and she has to spend time with him"
2) "Maybe she is ignoring me because she doesn't know how much I love her. Or maybe she's just playing hard to get."
3) "Maybe she cancelled our date because she has to work the next morning."
4) "Maybe she said I am 'too good for her' because deep inside, she loves me and wants me to be happy."
5) "Maybe she doesn't want to go out with me anymore because of childhood trauma. She just can't trust nice guys like me anymore."

Well, I am sorry, but if a girl is ignoring you or breaking up with you, there's only one reason:
SHE ISN'T ATTRACTED TO YOU ROMANTICALLY.
It has nothing to do with a busy schedule or a childhood trauma. It also has nothing to do with how much you like her - You could give her all your love and she could still reject you. Or you could be totally disinterested and she could still be all over you.