Dating Tip
It's Not How Much You Like Her,
But How Much She Likes You That Counts!
You wonder...
1) "Why isn't she answering my calls?"
2) "I love her so much but she's ignoring me. Why?"
3) "Why did she cancel the date?"
4) "Why did she say I am 'too good for her'?"
5) "Why doesn't she want to go out with me anymore?"
Interestingly enough, these guys also get all "logical"and analyze everything to bits. They like to fantasize in their heads about all the "possible scenarios" of why a girl isn't returning their phone calls or why she is breaking up a"perfect" relationship.
Often, they come up with reasons such as:
1) "Maybe she isn't answering my calls because her father is in town and she has to spend time with him"
2) "Maybe she is ignoring me because she doesn't know how much I love her. Or maybe she's just playing hard to get."
3) "Maybe she cancelled our date because she has to work the next morning."
4) "Maybe she said I am 'too good for her' because deep inside, she loves me and wants me to be happy."
5) "Maybe she doesn't want to go out with me anymore because of childhood trauma. She just can't trust nice guys like me anymore."
Well, I am sorry, but if a girl is ignoring you or breaking up with you, there's only one reason:
SHE ISN'T ATTRACTED TO YOU ROMANTICALLY.
It has nothing to do with a busy schedule or a childhood trauma. It also has nothing to do with how much you like her - You could give her all your love and she could still reject you. Or you could be totally disinterested and she could still be all over you.
But How Much She Likes You That Counts!
You wonder...
1) "Why isn't she answering my calls?"
2) "I love her so much but she's ignoring me. Why?"
3) "Why did she cancel the date?"
4) "Why did she say I am 'too good for her'?"
5) "Why doesn't she want to go out with me anymore?"
Interestingly enough, these guys also get all "logical"and analyze everything to bits. They like to fantasize in their heads about all the "possible scenarios" of why a girl isn't returning their phone calls or why she is breaking up a"perfect" relationship.
Often, they come up with reasons such as:
1) "Maybe she isn't answering my calls because her father is in town and she has to spend time with him"
2) "Maybe she is ignoring me because she doesn't know how much I love her. Or maybe she's just playing hard to get."
3) "Maybe she cancelled our date because she has to work the next morning."
4) "Maybe she said I am 'too good for her' because deep inside, she loves me and wants me to be happy."
5) "Maybe she doesn't want to go out with me anymore because of childhood trauma. She just can't trust nice guys like me anymore."
Well, I am sorry, but if a girl is ignoring you or breaking up with you, there's only one reason:
SHE ISN'T ATTRACTED TO YOU ROMANTICALLY.
It has nothing to do with a busy schedule or a childhood trauma. It also has nothing to do with how much you like her - You could give her all your love and she could still reject you. Or you could be totally disinterested and she could still be all over you.
