10 Signs Your Date is Getting Bored
1) She keeps looking away.
2) She focuses REALLY hard on eating her food.
3) She won't contribute to the conversation at all.
4) She keeps talking on her cell phone or with her
friends.
5) She turns her back on you.
6) She breaks eye contact.
7) She "doesn't hear you".
8) She gives you short "one-liner" answers to you
questions - as if she's trying to get you to shut up.
9) She does not put down her book or magazine.
10) She has an uncomfortable or bored look on her face.
Should you encounter any of these signs, it means you are doing something WRONG. Change topics and talk about something that is more interesting to the woman. Pull back a bit and tease her to see if you can find any "openings" to a new conversation.
I'll give you an example. A well-dressed man was talking to a very attractive lady. He went on for half an hour about the real estate market, when the woman wasn't interested in the topic at all. One by one, she started to show the signs listed above. Unfortunately, the poor guy just kept on talking about houses. He just could not sense that the conversation was going nowhere.
But instead of pulling back and changing topics, he tried to sound even more excited and passionate about real estate. (This is a common mistake guys make, by the way.) Even worse, he started flaunting his wealth when it was clear the woman was not interested in business or money.
There's no way he's going to get a second date. Right?
