10 Tips on How to be Active again in Dating Women
1) SEE YOUR BUDDIES: Go out for a couples of boys nights out. After being isolated from the world for so long, it's time for you to sit down with a couple of buddies just like the old times. This will help you become more sociable.
2) EXPAND YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE: Next, you need to expand your social circle and make NEW friends. Go to parties, join a few clubs...go volunteer somewhere. I guarantee you will meet many women on the way.
3) LEARN TO FLIRT: This is VERY important. From now on, you should be flirting with every girl you meet - just for fun.
4) BE PLAYFUL: This goes hand in hand with flirting. Personally, I think this is the MOST important thing to do if you would like to get your groove back. After being out of the game for so long, chances are you've probably forgotten how to be playful. So work on getting your playful self back.
5) ERASE THE PAST: You can't exactly move on with your life if you're still hung onto the idea of getting your ex back. So MOVE ON. Always look towards your FUTURE, not your past.
6) TAKE THINGS SLOWLY: Don't hurry into another relationship yet. Enjoy your single life. See it as a FREEDOM you have earned!
7) CLEAN UP YOUR HOUSE: Reorganize your furniture. Throw out all the "old stuff" you have. This will help you remove the excessive baggage in your life and make room for the new.
8) SEE BEYOND: Go out and smell the fresh air. See what a beautiful world this is. Life is more than JUST about love. You've gotta understand that before you can get into another relationship.
9) RAISE YOUR STANDARDS: Raise your standards and be pickier with the women you stay. Only date girls that are BETTER than your ex.
10) GO TO THE GYM: Working out can make you feel better about yourself.
And most important of all...GO OUT AND MEET WOMEN. Good Luck!