How To Not Lose Your Girlfriend
1) Don't Think Your Work Is Finished
Just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean you will keep her. Here is a pattern that I see all the time as a dating and relationships coach:
Guy chases girl.
Guy gets girl.
Guy stops doing the things that helped him get the girl.
Guy loses girl.
Are you going to be one of these guys? I hope not!
2) Don't Ignore The Details
If you want to keep a woman, then pay attention to details. Notice the things she does and give her special attention. When she is unhappy, read between the
lines instead of just taking her word for it. Because if you ask her what's wrong, she will just say "Nothing."
It is up to you to read into the details and see why she is upset. But don't worry, it doesn't take a genius to understand women. With a little bit of
practice, you will be able to do it too.
3) Don't Stop Being A Challenge
How To Talk Seductive In Bed
Below are Six (6) Ways on How To Talk Seductive In Bed:
1) Whatever you say in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom ONLY. When you're in heat in a locked bedroom, you can get away with a lot of things that might considered rude or offensive elsewhere. If you say these things outside...watch out.
2) Don't talk too dirty at the beginning. See how the woman reacts. Every woman is DIFFERENT. Be a LITTLE raunchy and see how she reacts. If she likes it, then turn it up.
3) Give her a few romantic compliments: Giving a woman compliments in bed is different than giving her compliments generally. You can get away with A LOT more. If you call a woman beautiful while on a first date, you're just being a wuss. But if you say "Damn you're so beautiful" in bed, then it's all right.
4) Be descriptive. For example, describe what you're doing to her.
5) Make eye contact: Make eye contact while you talk to her. It will drive her wild.
6) Groan slightly when she does something to you. This is the best compliment you can give to a woman in bed.
Good Luck!
Do Women Like Macho Men?
And Here's my answer: Women just like MEN in general!
Notice how I've put "MEN" in capital letters.
Let me explain why...
You see, personally I think too many guys use the "I don't want to act like a macho asshole" as an EXCUSE to act like a wuss bag in front of women...
What these guys don't understand that that to point is NOT to act "macho" or stupid, but to act like a real MAN. A MAN who gives off a raw, masculine kinda of energy.
Like I say all the time, if women were attracted to nice, "girlie" men, they wouldn't be dating men in the first place. They were be DATING EACH OTHER! And if they were interested in someone to "share their feelings with", they wouldn't need a BOYFRIEND, they could just call ANY of their girl friends!
The only, only, only reason why a woman is interested in a man is because...as my former girlfriend puts it...
"I want penis, not vagina."
Now...My former girlfriend may be a little bit blatant and direct, but you get the idea. The ONLY reason why a woman is interested in a MAN is because she wants a MAN.
By the way, the same concept applies to YOU too. You probably like women because they are FEMININE. So even though they are quite different than us...we APPRECIATE the differences. Even though women yelp WAY too much, always show up late on dates, and do silly things like watching sappy movies and reading girlie magazines, we APPRECIATE them for WHO THEY ARE.
Don't you agree? (Of course you do, unless you are gay.)
So...here's the lesson for today: Don't be afraid of acting like a man. Just like we like women for who they are, women like men for who they are, including the "stupid" things we do. NEVER try to appease women by acting like them. Instead of turning yourself into an effeminate "Metrosexual male", just relax and be a natural man. A NATURAL man who is NOT afraid of his own skin and NOT afraid of being a man.
For example:
1) Don't feel guilty about your own sexuality.
2) Don't let anyone or anything stop you from achieving your best.
3) Don't let your friends or family "feminize" you. You were born a MAN, and that's who you should be.
4) Don't be afraid of being adventurous. Go and climb the mountains of life.
5) Don't be afraid of doing "stupid" things that all boys do. (Stupid pranks, etc) Just be safe and don't break any laws or get anyone hurt.
6) Don't be afraid of acting like one of the boys.
7) Don't be afraid of flirting with women. Flirt and tease as much as you can. Don't be afraid of making advances at all. It's natural.
Women need men just like men need women. Just remember that! GoodLuck!
Inside Jokes and Pet Names
Okay. Whenever a woman tells you a story, pull out a little phrase or joke that invokes your Quarrys favorite part.
Or make up a phrase or joke about a situation you two have been in.
Now let time PASS before you invoke the joke in a conversation. Remember the longer you wait, the stronger the punch will be when it finally comes!
You may also think of a cute nickname for your girl. Use it to tease her every once in awhile: it will create a sense
of intimacy if you do it correctly!
THE IMPORTANCE OF TEASING
1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)
2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it
So in short, teasing means:
1) Making fun of a girl playfully
2) Arousing her and then pulling back
To me, teasing basically means sending "mixed signals." Basically, you don't want to do anything that is direct. You want to keep her wondering if you like her or not with your words and body language.
Here are some examples:
Example #1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you
really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really like
you", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct
and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY,
then you can get away with it because you're just joking.
You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you
a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will
leave her wondering if you're really attracted to her or not.
Women love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and
say,"He loves me, he loves me not"
Example #2: You can make fun of something small about her
(don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobes
is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)
She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into her
eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."
Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about
something that is special to both of you. Like if something
funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your
advantage.
Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.
When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,
"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown
off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it
even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."
Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,
try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.
She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's
wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to
try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start making
out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a
VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.
Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a
date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then
you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,
say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see
if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think
she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second
try first..."
