How To Lead On A Date

Here are 9 ways you can lead on a Date:

1) Hug Her At The Door

2) Have The Date And Time Planned BEFORE you ask her out.

3) Chivalry: Open doors and pull out chairs CASUALLY. Don't do it to impress or please her. Do it because it's part of you. (Trick: Don't act eager)

4) Protect Her: Put a hand on her lower back in crowd situations. Protect her.

5) Don't Ask For Permission: Don't ever ask her permission for ANYTHING.

6) Be Decisive: Don't bother her with questions on details such as where to sit or where to go. Make the decisions yourself and she will tell you if she doesn't like it.

7) Do the talking: Do the talking if there's any kind of trouble (with a waiter, etc...) Don't expect her to bail you out of anything. (I know a guy who once let a girl get harassed by a bouncer without doing anything...so yes...these spineless guys DO exist!)

8) Be A Master Of The Environment: Act comfortable with the environment at all times, no matter where you are.

9) Be Comfortable And Relaxed: Remember that leaders can put people in ease by being relaxed and comfortable themselves.

Good Luck!

The One Trait That Attracts Women

In a research conducted back in the late 90's by a group of psychologists, nearly 400 male and female university students were shown photographs with accompanying descriptions of people of the other sex. The point of the test was to see how the descriptions of these persons would influence the subjects' perceptions.


Interestingly enough, male photos that were described as "authoritative and masterful" were rated higher than the ones who were described as "obedient and submissive".


This isn't surprising, as most women DO want to have a more powerful man who can control and protect them. This is especially true for most hot women, who are used to men catering to them and kissing their arses. They are used to guys showering them with flowers and doing whatever they asks, and that's why they find them boring and unchallenging.


So what's the solution? Start acting like a man. Stop being an ass-kisser. I am not asking you to become a jerk or asshole. All I am asking you you, if you aren't doing so already, is to start acting like a real man and stop being an ass kisser. When a woman whines, ignore her or call them on their issues and messed up behaviors. When she bitches, put her back in her place.

Good Luck!

Where Is The Female G-spot

Since, Valentines Day is fast approaching, I am sure a lot of you guys are now excited to do "iT" for the first time with your girlfriend on this Day. Here are some tip that maybe could make your "Sexpreience" a very memorable one.

Well, for a start,  finding the G Spot is not an exact science.
The G-spot is located about 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall. When aroused it's about the size of a walnut, usually a bit longer than it is wide. The position of the G-spot makes it impossible for most women to get a finger to it, but a partner should be able to feel it by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina after she is aroused.

The palm of the hand should be up if the woman is on her back, and down if she is on her front; initially finding the spot may be easier if the woman lies on her front. The partner should be able to feel the G-spot with their fingers as a small lump in the vaginal wall. The G-Spot will feel somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of the vaginal wall.

The G-spot is a mass of glandular tissue, known as the paraurethral glands, and nerves. The G-spot lies between the urethra and the vagina, and is not actually a part of the vagina. Normally it's unnoticeable, but as a woman becomes aroused the area swells, making it possible to feel it through the vaginal wall. Once the spot has been located, it can be stimulate by moving your fingers in very small circles, or by doing a "come hither" motion with your fingers. Initial stimulation of the G-spot often causes the woman to experience a sudden and strong feeling of needing to urinate; this feeling soon passes, and may be replaced by pleasant and arousing feelings.

While all women seem to be able to feel stimulation of the G-spot, their response to it varies. Some women can orgasm from G-spot stimulation alone, others can't. Some women have strong orgasms from a combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, and some women have powerful orgasms when having intercourse in positions which stimulate the G-spot. Other women don't find G-spot stimulation particularly enjoyable.

The most popular sex positions for stimulating the G-spot are the Women-on-top position which allows the women to align herself for maximum pressure on the G-spot. The Doggie-Style position also allows for a wide range of positions to reach the desired alignment.

Wish You all A Happy Valentines! Good Luck!

Why Women Like Leaders

Why Women Like Leaders?
I think a better question would be, "Do PEOPLE like leaders?"

If you look at the world around you, you'll notice that almost EVERYBODY, not just women, are naturally attracted to leaders.

I think the reason for this is because most people feel the need to follow somebody. Nobody wants to make decisions if they could avoid it. The average person would rather "obey" and "follow" instead of lead so he doesn't have to make any decisions. (If you don't want to be a leader... then ask yourself if this is the reason - because you want to FOLLOW instead of lead...)

If you look at the guys who are not so good in dating, you will see they usually carry the same traits as the "average person".

They seek a woman's permission or approval before they do anything with her.

They are often stuck in a "Victim mentality" and actually believe statements such as "I am not good looking enough" or "Women don't like me".

They often would rather follow a woman around instead of doing the leading.

Women Like Leaders! So, below are 10 tips on How To Become a Leader:

1) Lead on dates.
2) Believe in yourself.
3) Expand your comfort zone AND lead other people out of theirs. There're tons of people around you who are waiting to find someone to follow.
4) Fail forward fast. It's okay to fail, as long as you fall FORWARD and learn from your mistakes.
5) Learn to take educated risks. No risks, no gain. Yes, you'll risk getting rejected when you approach a woman. But if you don't approach her at all, you will never get a chance with her.
6) Don't be a crowd follower: The guy who follows other people rarely gets noticed by anyone, including women. You want attention from women? Be in the spotlight!
7) Work on your communication skills. You can't inspire other people if you can't communicate well.
8) Be enthusiastic. Be enthusiastic in whatever you do, be it work, schools, or a hobby. Having this quality can attract you MANY more women than you can handle.
9) Be knowledgeable. Keep increasing your knowledge. The leader usually knows a lot more than his follower.
10) Have self-discipline. As I've stated in the past, self- discipline is *the* key to succeeding in dating and other areas of your life.

Good Luck!