How To Not Lose Your Girlfriend

Here is how to not lose your girlfriend:


1) Don't Think Your Work Is Finished

Just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean you will keep her. Here is a pattern that I see all the time as a dating and relationships coach:

Guy chases girl.

Guy gets girl.

Guy stops doing the things that helped him get the girl.

Guy loses girl.

Are you going to be one of these guys? I hope not!


2) Don't Ignore The Details

If you want to keep a woman, then pay attention to details. Notice the things she does and give her special attention. When she is unhappy, read between the
lines instead of just taking her word for it. Because if you ask her what's wrong, she will just say "Nothing."

It is up to you to read into the details and see why she is upset. But don't worry, it doesn't take a genius to understand women. With a little bit of
practice, you will be able to do it too.


3) Don't Stop Being A Challenge

Do You Ever Say 'Sorry' To a Woman?

1) You have a real reason to say it.


2) You don't repeat it.


3) You don't ask for forgiveness.

6 Ways To A Smoother Relationship

Here are 6 tips to make your relationship smoother.

1) Watch Body Language


2) Listen


3) Be Patient


4) Care About The Details


5) Don't Jump In With Solutions


6) Keep Flirting


Good Luck!

How to Learn the Art of Seduction

Are you tired of chasing women? Do you want to turn the tables and have them chasing you instead? Here's how...
Steps

1. Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you.
   
2. Listen and talk to her. Women love to talk. They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what she talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her -- find out her likes and dislikes, her needs and desires, whatever it takes. Laugh with her and agree with her when you can.
   
3. Take things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in.
   
4. Kiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there.
   
5. Increase the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes. Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow.
   
6. Talk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act.
   
7. Tell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her -- not in a cheesy way ("I want you, baby,") but in a tender way. She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen.
   
8. When it's the right time, always ask for permission ("Are you okay, darling?") and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready.
   
9. Respect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to "get some," then you are not seducing a woman; you are merely an animal in heat.
   
10. Find a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start.
    

Tips

• Always listen.
  
• Talk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around.
  
• Kiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process.
  
• This method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much.
  
• Don't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy).
  
• Build a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends.
  
• Think before you speak.
  
• Good hygiene is a must.
  
• Maintain a good diet and exercise to maintain an attractive physique.
  
• When a woman says "No" she means it
  
• Never bring up your ex. It is an instant turn off to women because they will think you are not over them.
  

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Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset

What should you do if a woman is depressed or upset?

Well, here is the Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset.

Give her emotional support and a shoulder to cry on, but do NOT attempt to give her ANY solutions to her problems. Why not? You may ask.

Because women's heads are wired differently than ours. As men, we want solutions to our problems right away. Women, on the other hand, want emotional support. So when women tell you their problems, they aren't REALLY looking for you to give them your two cents right away. What they're looking for is actually emotional support.

Unfortunately most guys do not realize this, and that's why they try to play the "advisor" or "counsellor" whenever their girlfriends tell them their problems. Instead of LISTENING to their girlfriends, they try to chip in and offer their "solutions" for the problems RIGHT AWAY. As a result, both parties become frustrated. The women feel their boyfriends are not listening to them, while the men complain to their buddies that their "stupid" girlfriends are not listening or being "logical".

So what should you do if a woman comes to you when she's upset? The first thing you should do is to LISTEN. Don't be too eager to offer her your opinion or your "solution" yet. Just LISTEN to her and give her a shoulder to cry on. Most of the times, she just wants somebody to talk to.

If she starts acting like a bitch, then just keep your silence and ignore her. Don't let her drag you into her problems. Give her your emotional support-but draw the line there. Getting inside her world will only makes things even more complicated.


Good Luck!

When and How To Be Persistent With Women

So, Good Luck, guys!

The BENEFITS of SEX

This message was sent to you so that you have good chances in sexual relations. It went around the world 9 times. It now arrived to you so that you can can in turn enjoy "Benefits from Sex".

How To Lead On A Date

Here are 9 ways you can lead on a Date:


Good Luck!

The One Trait That Attracts Women

In a research conducted back in the late 90's by a group of psychologists, nearly 400 male and female university students were shown photographs with accompanying descriptions of people of the other sex. The point of the test was to see how the descriptions of these persons would influence the subjects' perceptions.


Interestingly enough, male photos that were described as "authoritative and masterful" were rated higher than the ones who were described as "obedient and submissive".


This isn't surprising, as most women DO want to have a more powerful man who can control and protect them. This is especially true for most hot women, who are used to men catering to them and kissing their arses. They are used to guys showering them with flowers and doing whatever they asks, and that's why they find them boring and unchallenging.


So what's the solution? Start acting like a man. Stop being an ass-kisser. I am not asking you to become a jerk or asshole. All I am asking you you, if you aren't doing so already, is to start acting like a real man and stop being an ass kisser. When a woman whines, ignore her or call them on their issues and messed up behaviors. When she bitches, put her back in her place.

Good Luck!

Where Is The Female G-spot

Since, Valentines Day is fast approaching, I am sure a lot of you guys are now excited to do "iT" for the first time with your girlfriend on this Day. Here are some tip that maybe could make your "Sexpreience" a very memorable one.

Well, for a start,  finding the G Spot is not an exact science.
The G-spot is located about 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall. When aroused it's about the size of a walnut, usually a bit longer than it is wide. The position of the G-spot makes it impossible for most women to get a finger to it, but a partner should be able to feel it by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina after she is aroused.

The palm of the hand should be up if the woman is on her back, and down if she is on her front; initially finding the spot may be easier if the woman lies on her front. The partner should be able to feel the G-spot with their fingers as a small lump in the vaginal wall. The G-Spot will feel somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of the vaginal wall.

The G-spot is a mass of glandular tissue, known as the paraurethral glands, and nerves. The G-spot lies between the urethra and the vagina, and is not actually a part of the vagina. Normally it's unnoticeable, but as a woman becomes aroused the area swells, making it possible to feel it through the vaginal wall. Once the spot has been located, it can be stimulate by moving your fingers in very small circles, or by doing a "come hither" motion with your fingers. Initial stimulation of the G-spot often causes the woman to experience a sudden and strong feeling of needing to urinate; this feeling soon passes, and may be replaced by pleasant and arousing feelings.

While all women seem to be able to feel stimulation of the G-spot, their response to it varies. Some women can orgasm from G-spot stimulation alone, others can't. Some women have strong orgasms from a combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, and some women have powerful orgasms when having intercourse in positions which stimulate the G-spot. Other women don't find G-spot stimulation particularly enjoyable.

The most popular sex positions for stimulating the G-spot are the Women-on-top position which allows the women to align herself for maximum pressure on the G-spot. The Doggie-Style position also allows for a wide range of positions to reach the desired alignment.

Wish You all A Happy Valentines! Good Luck!

Just because a Woman Smiles at You

"There's this woman who's always smiling at me. But when I asked her out, she said 'no'. What did I do wrong?" This is the question you guys always asked. Right?

Well...honestly...just because a woman smiles at you does not mean she's interested in you. The only way to find out if a woman is REALLY interested in you is by doing the flirt-test. All other body language signs are SECONDARY.

With that said, there are also several kinds of smiles that a woman may give to a man. So just because a woman is smiling doesn't mean she's necessarily happy with you. She could actually be bored...or disgusted.


So now that you know how to tell the differences between the different kinds of smiles, I want you to notice them in the real world. Next time you go out, observe the people around you and see what kind of smiles they are showing to the people they are talking to. You'll be amazed at all the things you'll learn about how humans interact with each other. Good Luck!

Do Women Like Macho Men?

"Do women like macho men?" ... That is the big question most of you guys asked.

And Here's my answer: Women just like MEN in general!


Let me explain why...

You see, personally I think too many guys use the "I don't want to act like a macho asshole" as an EXCUSE to act like a wuss bag in front of women...

What these guys don't understand that that to point is NOT to act "macho" or stupid, but to act like a real MAN. A MAN who gives off a raw, masculine kinda of energy.

Like I say all the time, if women were attracted to nice, "girlie" men, they wouldn't be dating men in the first place. They were be DATING EACH OTHER! And if they were interested in someone to "share their feelings with", they wouldn't need a BOYFRIEND, they could just call ANY of their girl friends!

The only, only, only reason why a woman is interested in a man is because...as my former girlfriend puts it...

"I want penis, not vagina."

Now...My former girlfriend may be a little bit blatant and direct, but you get the idea. The ONLY reason why a woman is interested in a MAN is because she wants a MAN.

By the way, the same concept applies to YOU too. You probably like women because they are FEMININE. So even though they are quite different than us...we APPRECIATE the differences. Even though women yelp WAY too much, always show up late on dates, and do silly things like watching sappy movies and reading girlie magazines, we APPRECIATE them for WHO THEY ARE.

Don't you agree? (Of course you do, unless you are gay.)

So...here's the lesson for today: Don't be afraid of acting like a man. Just like we like women for who they are, women like men for who they are, including the "stupid" things we do. NEVER try to appease women by acting like them. Instead of turning yourself into an effeminate "Metrosexual male", just relax and be a natural man. A NATURAL man who is NOT afraid of his own skin and NOT afraid of being a man.

For example:

What If You Don't Have A Car

Can You Date If You Don't Have A Car?

Here's my answer: YOU'RE SCREWED!  Just kidding!

How To Lead And Command A Woman

The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to accept responsibility for our own actions.)

A lot of business people know this, and that's why they often don't give you many choices when you buy something. Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer, the harder it will be to make the sale because the person will have trouble "making the decision".

The same principle applies to dating. The more choices you offer a woman, the more confused she will be. The more firm you are about something you've already picked out for her, the more likely she'll go along with it.

For example, let's say you are trying to get a woman to have one more drink because you think it will help her relax. However, she's not sure if she can have another drink.

You could give her a choice and ask her if she would like to have another drink. She'll probably say no.

Or...

You could you visualize her laughing and acting happy once she has gulped down the drink. Then you say, "Come on, baby, just have the shot. I know you can do it." Then before she can react, follow through with action by handing her the shot glass. Finally, command her by saying "drink it". If you use the right voice tone, 9 out of 10 times the woman will obey you and have the shot. (Note: I don't encourage you getting women drunk. I am just using this common scenario as an example.)

The key here is to be sincere, direct, and authoritative. If you use a "funny voice", the woman will "play along" and show you resistance just for the sake of giving resistance. If you use a nervous voice, she will think that it is wrong to have the drink. Finally, if you sound too smooth, she will think that you're "trying something" and build up her defenses as a result.

To have the correct voice tone when you command a woman to do something, think of yourself as her protector - someone who just KNOWS what's good for her. Going back to the drinks example, think about how much more relaxed she will feel once she has finished the drink. Or if you're trying to get a woman in bed, think about how good she will be feeling when she's crying out your name in bed. Always think about what SHE will get instead of what you would like to get from here. Think about HER end state instead of your own.

With a bit of practice, you can use this skill on men as well. Once you have mastered the ability to encourage other men to try doing things they wouldn't normally do on their own, you will find yourself becoming an alpha male with an ever increasing pack of followers! Good Luck!

Why You Should Never Say SEX

You should ALWAYS refer to sex as something else, such as "love-making" or "sleeping together". Why? Because the term "sex" is not very intimate, and women enjoy intimacy when it comes to sex. To a woman, sex is not just about the physical aspects of having sex. There's a whole emotional side to it as well. They enjoy making love to a man they like, and sleeping on his arm after. By using the word "sex" to describe intercourse, you're really reducing the awesome emotional experience of love-making into a purely physical act.

And so on... Good Luck!

Do You know what Women Want?