10 Keys to Better Conversationalist
This is VERY important. From now on, talk to ANYBODY. Not just girls, but ANYBODY. It will be one of the *best* things you can do for your love life.
2) Have Stories Ready
Have "canned" stories that you can tell when you talk to people. If you don't have any interesting stories to tell, it's a sign that you should log off the computer and go out into the real world. (Hint: Anyone who goes out a lot must have a lot of stories to tell.)
3) Change Topics As Soon As One Become Boring
Don't try to beat on a dead horse and keep talking about a subject because it "was" interesting at the beginning. As soon as your sense the energy drop, change the topic.
4) Don't Bore People With Question After Question
5) Make Good Eye Contact
Very important. Hold your eye contact JUST a bit too long when you talk to her.
6) Don't Boast
Never try to impress a woman or show off. You're just going to come off as an insecure guy. And you know what happens to insecure guys!
7) Avoid "Tough" Topics
Stay away from politics and religion. Chances are, you'll never agree.
8) Show some vulnerability
Show a TINY bit of vulnerability (such as a small secret or one little thing from your childhood) in order to establish an emotional connection.
9) Slow Down Your Speech
The slower you speak, the more attention people will give you. (And the more confident you will sound.)
10) Have Fun
If you learn to APPRECIATE talking to people, you will be WAY AHEAD of most guys. Why? Because most people DREAD talking to women. They see it as a "task" they have to do in order to get girls.
But guess what? Any time you treat something as a "task" instead of something you ENJOY doing, you'll really just wasting your time. As I say all the time, dating should be FUN. If you're not having fun, then you shouldn't be dating.
Good Luck and have FUN!
