Know the Facts of Online Dating

Online dating is getting very popular and if you would like to join this world, there are a few things that you should keep in mind. As with the other aspects of life, you will have more success if you follow the rules of the game and treat other people with respect. Some people may not realize these rules but in the end it will mean the difference between you getting the date and continuing to be single.


If you find an attractive picture online, it is ok to tell the person that you think they are nice looking. However looks are not everything. If that is all that you have to say online, then it is going to be better not to say anything at all. Read the person’s profile so that you can say something more than just a comment about their looks.

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In Preparation for the Big Date . . .

Enjoying Life
After the invitation to have a date with you, yes you could rejoice a bit but this must not take you for so long, you need to prepare for the day, the real day that you have been wishing for to arrive. Your preparation matters most. When you do not know what exactly to do, let us lend you our guides.


These are the tips that would surely let you walk the right path for the date you have pictured out:


* Set an early date for that date.
When you set such a date weeks after, it could just make your patience brittle and it would just pile up stress unto you. At first, you may feel that excitement inside you but as the days grow longer, you may get more and more impatient.


* Choose a less formal venue
For the first date, it would not be too comfortable if you choose a place where you would feel stuffy. Better have in mind a venue that is less formal but more fun. The too much formality thing may just stop you from getting to know each other well.


* Lunch time for the first time.
To all those who are having a “get to know each other date”, it is advisable to have an early date so that rushing plans to make the time special may not happen. There could still be that romantic touch though the sun is out. Evening dates may come after the first date.


* Think more of the person not the place.
Pressures about the venue, the food to order and the clothes you would wear. These are just secondary and they do not have to post so much pressure on you. If you allow this to happen, you would surely get carried away with the pressures and forget the real purpose of the date.


* Informal but not scruffy
As mentioned above, you have to choose a venue that is less formal but it does not mean that it has to be scruffy and you do not have to look as one scruffy thing as well. Look presentable though not that very formal.


* Your wealth is not the topic
There are a lot of fun and light things to talk about, do not brag about what you or your parents have. This would not be so nice for a topic that may just spoil the rest of the time. Humility would surely be a ticket to more dates.


These are just some of the many tips you need to have in your heart so that you would also have those good memories to be brought about by the great date you have. Of course, you have your own way of making this day special too.





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How To Deal With Rejection and Failure

Teaser 3: Will you melt, if I stare at you?
8 Tips On How To Deal With Rejection and Failure


When you first go out to practice the dating techniques you read here in this blog, you're bound to hear a few "no's" from the women you meet. (Actually, this is an ongoing process. You will never have a 100% success rate.) So here are a couple of ways to make the rejections easier to take and more valuable to you.




1) Disassociate yourself.


Look at the rejection as an event, not as a rejection of your inner core. Think in "third-person" as if you're watching a movie.




2) Think about "why".


Think about why the woman rejected you. Think back on your actions. Were you being too pushy? Did you not build up enough chemistry before you asked for a date? Try to locate any potential blindspots.




3) Learn from it.


Learn from your mistakes and try to improve each time. If you improve just a tiny bit each time, you'll improve a lot in the long run!




4) Try In A New Environment


If you feel like a certain environment may be holding your back, try the following: Take your practices to a new environment and see if you get different results.


For example, if the nightclub setting does like work for you, try taking a few dance classes, and so on.




5) Hang Out With A More Successful Person


How do you get smarter? By hanging out with smarter people! They'll be able to point out your mistakes when you make them.


One of the best ways to get really good at something is to get active feedback from someone who is already good at it. It's like playing sports. If you constantly play against opponents that are stronger than you, you will learn faster than if you constantly play against opponents who are not as good as you.




6) Make New Connections In Your Mind


Take the time to organize your new thoughts and ideas. Make connections between different topics and ideas that weren't there before. You don't really get something until you can see all the connections! Ask yourself questions such as, "How does flirting fit into building attraction?"




7) Take a Break If Necessary


If you feel like you are hitting the same wall over and over, then take a small break so you have time to recharge. The more you push when you're already frustrated, the more resistance you will build. Sometimes when you take a small break and then come back, you will find the obstacles will have disappeared on its own.




8) Take the Time to Learn'


It is hard to bounce back from failure if you don't even have a direction. That is why it is very important to pick up the knowledge you need to be successful. Instead of learning everything through your own mistakes, try to learn everything through other people's mistakes.






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If you're playful, Women will think you're Cool

If there is one thing that most guys need to do - to have more success in dating, it's to be more playful. More often than not, guys who are not good with women are guys who are "too serious" when they're around women.

If you're playful, women will think you're cool; if you're too serious, women are going to think you are a "tool."

It doesn't matter if it's part of your personality to be "serious." There are times and situations in life when you have to be very serious, and there are also times and situations when you have to be very playful.

I'll give you an example. If you were working as an air traffic controller, I would tell you to be very serious with your job and be very cautious at work.

But let's say you're just out on a first date with a woman after work. Then I would tell you to let go and be very playful with her!


Here's the bottom line:

If you're too serious with flirting, then you're not flirting at all. Even if you follow every step I've told you to do and say every line I've taught you to say, you're not actually flirting. To become a Smart Flirter, you must let go of your worries and become more playful!


If you're one of those guys who have trouble being playful around women, then today I am going show you a few ways to become more playful:

1) Poke her.


2) Tackle her.


3) Lift her up.


4) Challenge her to arm wrestling.


5) Play thumb war with her.


6) Give her a piggy back ride...and run as fast as you can.


7) Throw something tiny at her. Then look away and whistle as she looks at you.


8) Steal something from her and make her wrestle you to get it back.


9) Twirl her around.


10) Pinch her nose and shake it like she's a plush toy.


Use these sample techniques as a blueprint for coming up with your own techniques. Remember that the key is to be playful and focus on having fun instead of "getting results!"

Flirting 101

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A common mistake a neophytes do all the time is that they try to combine approaching women with flirting and teasing before they are ready to do so.


When you're playing basketball, you learn to dribble and you learn to shoot. Both are important skills to have and do work together eventually, but at the beginning, they need to be practiced separately until you are ready to do them simultaneously.


Dating is no different. If you worry about approaching women when you should be practicing your flirting, it's going to kill your success. And if you worry about how you should be flirting with a woman before you approach her, it's going to lower your confidence and make yourself stumble.


That's why you should practice approaching women and flirting with them separately until they both become second nature to you.


Start by flirt with every woman you come across casually. Just let go of your expectations and be playful. Forget about the results and just do it. Flirt with all the females within your social circle. (If you don't have one, it's time to get one!)


Once you can do that, then start approaching strangers (not just women, but men as well) and small-talk them. Focus on meeting people and developing your natural curiosity towards things and people in general.
GoodLuck! 


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Your 20 First Date Dating Tips

1) Flirt a lot. Be playful.

2) Tease her a lot and act like a challenge.

3) Stay in control and lead the date.

3) Avoid talking about politics, religion, and controversial topics.

4) Give her your full attention. Don't check out other women.

5) Make good eye contact.

6) Have strong body language.

7) Don't talk about your past relationships, and change topics when she talks about her past relationships.

8) Act positive and optimistic.

9) Don't make offensive jokes.

10) Don't act needy or kiss her ass.

11) Compliment her a little, but not too much. Remain a challenge.

12) Be on time.

13) Play it cool.

14) Don't get drunk. Seriously.

15) Dress well and groom yourself before you see her.

16) Give her a big hug as soon as you meet her. Why? A little physical touching right off the bat can be a good start!

17) Keep advancing in a subtle manner. Holding her hand? See if you can get a kiss next, and so on.

18) Build rapport and have a stimulating conversation.

19) Act like a gentleman. Open doors and pull out chairs naturally.

20) Relax and have fun!


Good Luck!

How to Overcome Your Problem Talking with Girls

Well, maybe your problem is talking to strangers. Let's say you're a very sociable person too, however you just have problem talking to girls.

Here are a few tips to overcome that:

1) Flirt with girls you don't find attractive to practice. This will help you pick up the flirty attitude.

2) Focus on being a challenge, no matter how hot the girl is. This will help you remain in control of yourself.

3) Surround yourself with female friends. It is the best way to become more comfortable around women.

4) At the beginning, flirt with girls but without making it look like you're asking them out.

5) Confidence comes from competence, which comes from practice and knowledge. Practice and do it!

6) Take baby steps. Start by saying "hi". Once you're comfortable with that, make friends. Eventually start flirting. Similarly, if beautiful women intimidate you, then approach more average-looking women until you are more confident.

7) Imagine you are talking to an old friend.

8) Imagine you are talking to a girl to hook her up with a buddy of yours.

9) Relax and stop caring about the results. Focus on the fun instead!


Good Luck!

Do You Ever Say 'Sorry' To a Woman?

Many men believe that it is wrong to say "sorry" to a woman. There are even some dating coaches who teach men to say "too bad" instead of "sorry" to a woman whenever they make a mistake.

I disagree.

I think it's perfectly okay to say "sorry" to a woman... as long as:

1) You have a real reason to say it.


2) You don't repeat it.


3) You don't ask for forgiveness.

A real man shouldn't be afraid of admitting his own mistakes. If he screws up really badly, he shouldn't be afraid to apologize to anyone. Just apologize, and let it go.


After all, part of being a man is accept responsibility for your own action. What you DON'T want to do, however, is to keep on begging a woman for forgiveness.

A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake of apologizing "too much".


The human mind is very interesting. If you "keep on" saying "sorry" to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip and keep "pretending" that she's mad at you in order to hear more - until she actually BELIEVES that she's mad at you. Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you, but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand.


So...instead of begging for forgiveness, just say "sorry", admit you've made a mistake, and change topics. If she's really mad at you, leave her alone and let her blow up some steam. But don't ask for forgiveness. You've already apologized. Asking for forgiveness won't do you any good.

Lastly, be careful about saying "sorry" if you're one of those guys who are "always sorry". While there is no problem with saying "sorry" when you have made a big mistake, you should NOT apologize for everything you do on a date.


Good Luck!

How To Talk Seductive In Bed

Below are Six (6) Ways on How To Talk Seductive In Bed:

1) Whatever you say in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom ONLY. When you're in heat in a locked bedroom, you can get away with a lot of things that might considered rude or offensive elsewhere. If you say these things outside...watch out.


2) Don't talk too dirty at the beginning. See how the woman reacts. Every woman is DIFFERENT. Be a LITTLE raunchy and see how she reacts. If she likes it, then turn it up.


3) Give her a few romantic compliments: Giving a woman compliments in bed is different than giving her compliments generally. You can get away with A LOT more. If you call a woman beautiful while on a first date, you're just being a wuss. But if you say "Damn you're so beautiful" in bed, then it's all right.


4) Be descriptive. For example, describe what you're doing to her.


5) Make eye contact: Make eye contact while you talk to her. It will drive her wild.


6) Groan slightly when she does something to you. This is the best compliment you can give to a woman in bed.

Good Luck!

6 Ways To A Smoother Relationship

Here are 6 tips to make your relationship smoother.

1) Watch Body Language

Learn to know your girlfriend's mood and state by watching her body language. For example, can you tell she's uncomfortable at a party by the way she sits or stands? Can you tell if she's nervous or not?

2) Listen

A big problem some couples have is that they stop listening to each other once the initial excitement of a relationship is gone. If you can't spare some time each day to listen to someone you love, even if it's just 30 minutes, maybe you don't need a girlfriend after all.

3) Be Patient

I heard from my friends complaining that their girlfriends talk a long time to "get to the point." For example, their girlfriends may tell them about her entire day at work before making a point...and even then, her point may be something silly and not worth mentioning at all...
Solution? Just listen!

4) Care About The Details

A good way to show affection is by showing concern for the finer "details" of life. Don't just ask her how her day was. Ask her about the specific things that are going in her life.

5) Don't Jump In With Solutions

When your girlfriend is upset or sad, don't jump in with solutions. Chances are, she's just blowing up steam. Generally, men want solutions when they vent; women want a shoulder to cry on and a hug.

6) Keep Flirting

And of course...don't forget to keep flirting with your girlfriend and acting like a challenge to keep the attraction high. Because once the attraction is dead, the relationship is going to go downhill.

Good Luck!

10 Signs Your Date is Getting Bored

Here are a few signs that a woman is NOT interested in what you're talking.
1) She keeps looking away.


2) She focuses REALLY hard on eating her food.


3) She won't contribute to the conversation at all.


4) She keeps talking on her cell phone or with her
friends.


5) She turns her back on you.


6) She breaks eye contact.


7) She "doesn't hear you".


8) She gives you short "one-liner" answers to you
questions - as if she's trying to get you to shut up.


9) She does not put down her book or magazine.


10) She has an uncomfortable or bored look on her face.




Should you encounter any of these signs, it means you are doing something WRONG. Change topics and talk about something that is more interesting to the woman. Pull back a bit and tease her to see if you can find any "openings" to a new conversation.


I'll give you an example. A well-dressed man was talking to a very attractive lady. He went on for half an hour about the real estate market, when the woman wasn't interested in the topic at all. One by one, she started to show the signs listed above. Unfortunately, the poor guy just kept on talking about houses. He just could not sense that the conversation was going nowhere.


But instead of pulling back and changing topics, he tried to sound even more excited and passionate about real estate. (This is a common mistake guys make, by the way.) Even worse, he started flaunting his wealth when it was clear the woman was not interested in business or money.


There's no way he's going to get a second date. Right?

How to Learn the Art of Seduction

Are you tired of chasing women? Do you want to turn the tables and have them chasing you instead? Here's how...
Steps
  1. Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you.
  2. Listen and talk to her. Women love to talk. They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what she talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her -- find out her likes and dislikes, her needs and desires, whatever it takes. Laugh with her and agree with her when you can.
  3. Take things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in.
  4. Kiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there.
  5. Increase the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes. Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow.
  6. Talk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act.
  7. Tell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her -- not in a cheesy way ("I want you, baby,") but in a tender way. She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen.
  8. When it's the right time, always ask for permission ("Are you okay, darling?") and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready.
  9. Respect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to "get some," then you are not seducing a woman; you are merely an animal in heat.
  10. Find a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start.
Tips
  • Always listen.
  • Talk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around.
  • Kiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process.
  • This method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much.
  • Don't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy).
  • Build a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends.
  • Think before you speak.
  • Good hygiene is a must.
  • Maintain a good diet and exercise to maintain an attractive physique.
  • When a woman says "No" she means it
  • Never bring up your ex. It is an instant turn off to women because they will think you are not over them.







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Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset

What should you do if a woman is depressed or upset?

Well, here is the Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset.

Give her emotional support and a shoulder to cry on, but do NOT attempt to give her ANY solutions to her problems. Why not? You may ask.

Because women's heads are wired differently than ours. As men, we want solutions to our problems right away. Women, on the other hand, want emotional support. So when women tell you their problems, they aren't REALLY looking for you to give them your two cents right away. What they're looking for is actually emotional support.

Unfortunately most guys do not realize this, and that's why they try to play the "advisor" or "counsellor" whenever their girlfriends tell them their problems. Instead of LISTENING to their girlfriends, they try to chip in and offer their "solutions" for the problems RIGHT AWAY. As a result, both parties become frustrated. The women feel their boyfriends are not listening to them, while the men complain to their buddies that their "stupid" girlfriends are not listening or being "logical".

So what should you do if a woman comes to you when she's upset? The first thing you should do is to LISTEN. Don't be too eager to offer her your opinion or your "solution" yet. Just LISTEN to her and give her a shoulder to cry on. Most of the times, she just wants somebody to talk to.

If she starts acting like a bitch, then just keep your silence and ignore her. Don't let her drag you into her problems. Give her your emotional support-but draw the line there. Getting inside her world will only makes things even more complicated.


Good Luck!

When and How To Be Persistent With Women

How do I know when to be persistent and when to stop going after a woman? That will be the question some of you wanted to ask. Right?

So, here it is guys, You should be persistent when a woman's ACTIONS tell you that you should keep going...and STOP when her actions show that she's not cool with it.

For example, if a woman keeps flirting with you and dating you casually even though she "says" she's not interested in a relationship, you can show some persistence and keep on going after her.

But if a woman gets MAD at you for going after her or tries to IGNORE you, then her ACTIONS are showing that she's NOT cool with it, which means you should STOP. At this point, if you act persistent and pushy, you will only push her AWAY from you even further.

Remember that while persistence is an attractive quality because men who persist are often the ones that succeed, if you're clearly in the negative zone, it is time to back off!

Also, you should make sure that you're doing the RIGHT things when you act persistent, because if you're not doing the right things and pushing the right buttons inside a woman, then the more you persist, the more you will push the woman away!

So, Good Luck, guys!

The BENEFITS of SEX


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did you know that we can determine if a person is sexually active or not by looking at her skin?
1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests have shown that a woman who has sexual relations produces big amounts of estrogen which makes hair shiny and soft.

2. To make love in soft and relaxed way reduces the possibilities of suffering from dermatitis and acne. The sweat produced cleans pores and makes the skin shine.

3. To make love allows to burn all the calories accumulate is this romantic love scene.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports. It strengthens and tonifies all body muscles. It is more enjoyable than doing 20 lapses in the pool. And you don't need special shoes !

5. Sex is an instantaneous cure against depression. It frees endorphins in the blood flow, creating a state of euphoria and leaves us with a feeling of well-being.

6. The more we make love, the more we have the capacity to do more. A body sexually active releases a higher amount of pheromone. This subtle aroma excites the opposite sex !

7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFICIENT THAN VALIUM.

8. To kiss everyday allows to avoid the dentist. Kisses aid saliva in cleaning teeth and lower the quantity of acids causing enamel weakening.

9. Sex relieves headaches. Each time we make love, it releases the tension in brain veins.

10. To make love a lot can heal a nasal congestion. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It helps fight asthma and spring allergies.


This message was sent to you so that you have good chances in sexual relations. It went around the world 9 times. It now arrived to you so that you can can in turn enjoy "Benefits from Sex".

Good Luck!

How To Lead On A Date

Here are 9 ways you can lead on a Date:

1) Hug Her At The Door

2) Have The Date And Time Planned BEFORE you ask her out.

3) Chivalry: Open doors and pull out chairs CASUALLY. Don't do it to impress or please her. Do it because it's part of you. (Trick: Don't act eager)

4) Protect Her: Put a hand on her lower back in crowd situations. Protect her.

5) Don't Ask For Permission: Don't ever ask her permission for ANYTHING.

6) Be Decisive: Don't bother her with questions on details such as where to sit or where to go. Make the decisions yourself and she will tell you if she doesn't like it.

7) Do the talking: Do the talking if there's any kind of trouble (with a waiter, etc...) Don't expect her to bail you out of anything. (I know a guy who once let a girl get harassed by a bouncer without doing anything...so yes...these spineless guys DO exist!)

8) Be A Master Of The Environment: Act comfortable with the environment at all times, no matter where you are.

9) Be Comfortable And Relaxed: Remember that leaders can put people in ease by being relaxed and comfortable themselves.

Good Luck!

The One Trait That Attracts Women

In a research conducted back in the late 90's by a group of psychologists, nearly 400 male and female university students were shown photographs with accompanying descriptions of people of the other sex. The point of the test was to see how the descriptions of these persons would influence the subjects' perceptions.


Interestingly enough, male photos that were described as "authoritative and masterful" were rated higher than the ones who were described as "obedient and submissive".


This isn't surprising, as most women DO want to have a more powerful man who can control and protect them. This is especially true for most hot women, who are used to men catering to them and kissing their arses. They are used to guys showering them with flowers and doing whatever they asks, and that's why they find them boring and unchallenging.


So what's the solution? Start acting like a man. Stop being an ass-kisser. I am not asking you to become a jerk or asshole. All I am asking you you, if you aren't doing so already, is to start acting like a real man and stop being an ass kisser. When a woman whines, ignore her or call them on their issues and messed up behaviors. When she bitches, put her back in her place.

Good Luck!

Where Is The Female G-spot

Since, Valentines Day is fast approaching, I am sure a lot of you guys are now excited to do "iT" for the first time with your girlfriend on this Day. Here are some tip that maybe could make your "Sexpreience" a very memorable one.

Well, for a start,  finding the G Spot is not an exact science.
The G-spot is located about 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall. When aroused it's about the size of a walnut, usually a bit longer than it is wide. The position of the G-spot makes it impossible for most women to get a finger to it, but a partner should be able to feel it by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina after she is aroused.

The palm of the hand should be up if the woman is on her back, and down if she is on her front; initially finding the spot may be easier if the woman lies on her front. The partner should be able to feel the G-spot with their fingers as a small lump in the vaginal wall. The G-Spot will feel somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of the vaginal wall.

The G-spot is a mass of glandular tissue, known as the paraurethral glands, and nerves. The G-spot lies between the urethra and the vagina, and is not actually a part of the vagina. Normally it's unnoticeable, but as a woman becomes aroused the area swells, making it possible to feel it through the vaginal wall. Once the spot has been located, it can be stimulate by moving your fingers in very small circles, or by doing a "come hither" motion with your fingers. Initial stimulation of the G-spot often causes the woman to experience a sudden and strong feeling of needing to urinate; this feeling soon passes, and may be replaced by pleasant and arousing feelings.

While all women seem to be able to feel stimulation of the G-spot, their response to it varies. Some women can orgasm from G-spot stimulation alone, others can't. Some women have strong orgasms from a combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, and some women have powerful orgasms when having intercourse in positions which stimulate the G-spot. Other women don't find G-spot stimulation particularly enjoyable.

The most popular sex positions for stimulating the G-spot are the Women-on-top position which allows the women to align herself for maximum pressure on the G-spot. The Doggie-Style position also allows for a wide range of positions to reach the desired alignment.

Wish You all A Happy Valentines! Good Luck!

Why Women Like Leaders

Why Women Like Leaders?
I think a better question would be, "Do PEOPLE like leaders?"

If you look at the world around you, you'll notice that almost EVERYBODY, not just women, are naturally attracted to leaders.

I think the reason for this is because most people feel the need to follow somebody. Nobody wants to make decisions if they could avoid it. The average person would rather "obey" and "follow" instead of lead so he doesn't have to make any decisions. (If you don't want to be a leader... then ask yourself if this is the reason - because you want to FOLLOW instead of lead...)

If you look at the guys who are not so good in dating, you will see they usually carry the same traits as the "average person".

They seek a woman's permission or approval before they do anything with her.

They are often stuck in a "Victim mentality" and actually believe statements such as "I am not good looking enough" or "Women don't like me".

They often would rather follow a woman around instead of doing the leading.

Women Like Leaders! So, below are 10 tips on How To Become a Leader:

1) Lead on dates.
2) Believe in yourself.
3) Expand your comfort zone AND lead other people out of theirs. There're tons of people around you who are waiting to find someone to follow.
4) Fail forward fast. It's okay to fail, as long as you fall FORWARD and learn from your mistakes.
5) Learn to take educated risks. No risks, no gain. Yes, you'll risk getting rejected when you approach a woman. But if you don't approach her at all, you will never get a chance with her.
6) Don't be a crowd follower: The guy who follows other people rarely gets noticed by anyone, including women. You want attention from women? Be in the spotlight!
7) Work on your communication skills. You can't inspire other people if you can't communicate well.
8) Be enthusiastic. Be enthusiastic in whatever you do, be it work, schools, or a hobby. Having this quality can attract you MANY more women than you can handle.
9) Be knowledgeable. Keep increasing your knowledge. The leader usually knows a lot more than his follower.
10) Have self-discipline. As I've stated in the past, self- discipline is *the* key to succeeding in dating and other areas of your life.

Good Luck!

Qualities You should Look for in a Woman

If you're interested in a long-term relationship, the following are the Qualities You should Look for in a Woman, to wit:

1) Honest
Never date a liar. Once a liar, always a liar. A woman who has lied to you over and over will lie to you again in the future. You can count on it.

2) Loyal
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Just like a woman who has lied to you once will often lie again, a woman who has cheated once will usually cheat again.

3) Socially Skilled
Find a woman who can get along with anyone. If a woman "hates the world" or people in general, that's usually a sign there are deeper problems within her.

4) Fun to be with
Date women with a fun personality. A boring woman will drive you crazy as soon as the initial hormone-driven honeymoon period is over.

5) Adventurous and open-minded
Find a woman you can travel and explore the world with. Narrow-minded women usually have limited foresight and get boring after awhile.

6) Cultured, classy and sophisticated
Cultured women often make a better companion if you live in a big city. (If you don't, it doesn't really matter.)

7) Frugal
Beware of big spenders and gold diggers. They will drain your bank account empty and then leave without looking back.

8) "Clean"
Your girlfriend should be currently clean of any drug or alcohol problems.

9) Flexible
Try to find someone who's willing to compromise. A spoiled princess will drive you nuts eventually.

10) A positive thinker
This one is very important. Pessimistic people will drain all your energy out of you.

Good Luck!

Just because a Woman Smiles at You

"There's this woman who's always smiling at me. But when I asked her out, she said 'no'. What did I do wrong?" This is the question you guys always asked. Right?

Well...honestly...just because a woman smiles at you does not mean she's interested in you. The only way to find out if a woman is REALLY interested in you is by doing the flirt-test. All other body language signs are SECONDARY.

With that said, there are also several kinds of smiles that a woman may give to a man. So just because a woman is smiling doesn't mean she's necessarily happy with you. She could actually be bored...or disgusted.

Here are 5 basic kinds of smiles:

1) The Bored Smile

This is the kind of smile a woman may give you if she's bored with a conversation. It is a slight smile with the corners of her mouth just a little tensed up. You may catch her looking around the room...

2) The Forced Smile

This is the smile a woman will give you if she seriously does not like you or if she thinks you're annoying or stupid. The smile is tighter than the bored smile, with even more tension in the corners of her mouth than the bored smile. She may give you a sarcastic look with her eyes.

3) The Polite Smile

The polite smile is a smile a waitress or bartender will give you for tips. How do you know it's not real? Simple. Just check the corners of her mouth. If they are all tensed up, she's faking it.

4) The Dreamy Smile

The dreamy smile is the smile she will give when she's fascinated by your story or really enjoying a deep conversation with you. The smile will be a natural smile without any tension, and her eyes will look like she has wandered into another world.

5) The Genuine Smile

The genuine smile is the smile a woman will give you when she's really happy. There'll be lots of teeth, no tension in the face, and her head will often throw back as she laughs out loud. Her eyes may even twinkle with happiness.

So now that you know how to tell the differences between the different kinds of smiles, I want you to notice them in the real world. Next time you go out, observe the people around you and see what kind of smiles they are showing to the people they are talking to. You'll be amazed at all the things you'll learn about how humans interact with each other. Good Luck!