Be a Great Lover
How To Date Women - Some Basics
Why is it that for some men, dating women is a complex and baffling challenge. I mean really, dating should be fun and relaxing. Is dating women now a science or an art? Or is there some simple basics that any man can follow and be successful with women? Well, actually there are some basic do's and don'ts, which if you pay attention to can greatly improve things for you the next time you go on a date.
Men quite often find women complex and hard to understand, even though they are human just like us. Many men realise that they have very little knowledge about what a woman likes and dislikes, what turns a women on and how to date a women the correct way to ensure it is a great success. Most men will try to sound cool and conceited when they are dating a woman, thinking that they can impress them more with that kind of attitude. Men have tried to impress women by buying them drinks, cars, homes, and other kinds of gifts and this kind of behaviour does create attraction butunfortunately the attraction is normally wrong kind of woman.
So, don't be like all the rest out there, but so some things that seperate you from the crowd, and this on it's own will make you more attractive. For instance, there is quite simply nothing that is a bigger turn on to a woman than a man performing a romantic gesture off his own back, this could mean something as simple as giving the woman in question flowers or cooking a romantic dinner for her. Also make sure you treat each woman like she is an individual deserving of your attention, be interested in her and what she is saying rather than trying to impress.
Also, bear in mind that women tend to be curious and naturally attracted to what they don't know. So if you are listening to her rather than talking all the time you will create curiosity as well. Whether you are trying to meet women or approach them, the ability to naturally attract them is extremely valuable. And this will also help build attraction because it will be building a good rapport with the woman in question. The key to success with women isn't to focus on what women want, it's cracking the code that causes attraction in her.
Some other basic tips to bear in mind include bathing, smelling good, and trimming away nose hair. Also be honest and don't lie. I know that it is tempting to impress and make things appear better than they are, but if your relationship develops then the truth will come out eventually, and in my opinion, out of all the dating tips out there, this is probably one of the most important ones of them all. So when you go on your date or ask someone out on one, be yourself. As we have already touched on most men will be brash and your friends will have probably told you that there are expectations that you have to live up to in order to attract and date women, but really there is no need to get hung up about all of this. Just be yourself and remember that women are attracted to men who act confidently around women.
Men quite often find women complex and hard to understand, even though they are human just like us. Many men realise that they have very little knowledge about what a woman likes and dislikes, what turns a women on and how to date a women the correct way to ensure it is a great success. Most men will try to sound cool and conceited when they are dating a woman, thinking that they can impress them more with that kind of attitude. Men have tried to impress women by buying them drinks, cars, homes, and other kinds of gifts and this kind of behaviour does create attraction butunfortunately the attraction is normally wrong kind of woman.
So, don't be like all the rest out there, but so some things that seperate you from the crowd, and this on it's own will make you more attractive. For instance, there is quite simply nothing that is a bigger turn on to a woman than a man performing a romantic gesture off his own back, this could mean something as simple as giving the woman in question flowers or cooking a romantic dinner for her. Also make sure you treat each woman like she is an individual deserving of your attention, be interested in her and what she is saying rather than trying to impress.
Also, bear in mind that women tend to be curious and naturally attracted to what they don't know. So if you are listening to her rather than talking all the time you will create curiosity as well. Whether you are trying to meet women or approach them, the ability to naturally attract them is extremely valuable. And this will also help build attraction because it will be building a good rapport with the woman in question. The key to success with women isn't to focus on what women want, it's cracking the code that causes attraction in her.
Some other basic tips to bear in mind include bathing, smelling good, and trimming away nose hair. Also be honest and don't lie. I know that it is tempting to impress and make things appear better than they are, but if your relationship develops then the truth will come out eventually, and in my opinion, out of all the dating tips out there, this is probably one of the most important ones of them all. So when you go on your date or ask someone out on one, be yourself. As we have already touched on most men will be brash and your friends will have probably told you that there are expectations that you have to live up to in order to attract and date women, but really there is no need to get hung up about all of this. Just be yourself and remember that women are attracted to men who act confidently around women.
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Dating Advice: Using The Triple R Technique
So, you’ve gone on a date with a girl and you really like her. Now you want to make sure that she wants to continue dating you. One way to assure a second date is to be very attentive on the first date to one specific topic that SHE brought up. The first step to The Triple R Technique™ is Remembering. Remember as much as possible about a specific topic that she spoke about. Try to pick a topic that she seemed very interested in.
To demonstrate this technique I’ll use a specific situation where I used it recently. I was out a restaurant on a first date with an extremely attractive woman. She was really into cooking. She was telling me about all the different recipes that she loved to prepare. I could tell that she was really passionate about it. So what did I do after the date? I moved on to the second R and did some simple Research. I went to the food network’s website and found some upcoming shows that looked interesting. You can just as easily go to tvguide.com and do a search for anything she might have been talking about. For example, if she was really into tennis, you can search for upcoming shows or tennis or search elsewhere online for upcoming tennis events. The next thing I did was called her a few days after our date and I got her voicemail. So I took this opportunity to perform the third R of the triple R Technique. I Recited the new information that I gathered. I remembered she spoke about how she loved making all different kinds of pasta sauces. In my message I included, “Oh, by the way, Emeril is making his Penne Vodka sauce on his show tomorrow night on the Food Network. I doubt it’s as good as yours but I figured I’d let you know if you wanted to pick up a few tips.” Always have this prepared before your phone call after the first date. This way, if she was semi-interested in you and let’s her phone go to voicemail, you have just increased your chances substantially of her calling you back.
She will love the fact that you actually listened to what she was saying and took an active interest in it. She’ll be amazed because I highly doubt any other guys have ever done this, thereby making you different and interesting.
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Do Women Respect You As A Man?
1) Have you ever been "nice" to a woman that just wants
to be "your friend"?
2) Do you have trouble saying "no" to attractive women -
especially the ones you like?
3) Do you tend to become "nicer and nicer" to a girl over
a period of time?
4) Has any woman ever stopped seeing you after a few
dates?
5) Have you ever complimented a woman...only to have
her walk away and show no interest...or even look annoyed?
6) Have you ever had an attractive woman coming to you
to WHINE about the abuses she has to take from the JERK
she is dating?
to be "your friend"?
2) Do you have trouble saying "no" to attractive women -
especially the ones you like?
3) Do you tend to become "nicer and nicer" to a girl over
a period of time?
4) Has any woman ever stopped seeing you after a few
dates?
5) Have you ever complimented a woman...only to have
her walk away and show no interest...or even look annoyed?
6) Have you ever had an attractive woman coming to you
to WHINE about the abuses she has to take from the JERK
she is dating?
If you've answered "yes" to any of these questions...then I've got something to tell you:
WOMEN DON'T RESPECT YOU...
...I am sorry, but it's true. This is EXCATLY why you aren't having success with women... because they don't respect you as a man. (I know this sounds painful - but it's true.)
And here's the bottom line:
Women are ONLY attracted to guys they RESPECT.
Don't believe me? You know...it's the same for guys too:
We are only attracted to girls we respect. As men, we can have sex with hot sluts...but we never STAY with them because we don't respect them at all. So...if a girl tries to have sex with us in order to seduce us because she thinks guys are just after sex, she's going to be in a nasty surprise. Sure...we may have sex with them or even fall for her in the short run...but over time, we're going to lose respect and eventually dump her because she's just "too easy".
The same applies to dating women. We can shower them with tons of love and care. We can buy them expensive gifts and drive them to work everyday. We can take care of them when they are depressed and give them a shoulder to cry on. We can give them all the "nice things" in life. But guess what? They are not going to become any more attracted to us.
Just like men don't respect women that are too easy, women don't respect men that are too "nice".
So how do we come to respect a member of the opposite sex? How do we get hot women to respect us? Well, according to psychologists, our respect of other people is usually based on
our perception of the person's independence and self-reliance. For example, we're drawn towards leaders and other "powerful" people because they are strong and independent.
The opposite is also true. The "clingier" a person is, the less respect we have for them. Would you want your girlfriend to call you 10 times a day...day after day...week after week...year after year?
So...in a nutshell...here's the lesson for this week...
HAVE SOME BACKBONE SO WOMEN CAN START GIVING YOU THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE!!!
I am serious. Start walking around with a SPINE...especially when you're around attractive women. Trust me, as soon as you stop letting women walk all over you, they're going to respect you and like you more.
Here are some practical tips on how to GET A SPINE:
1) Learn To Say "No": Not in an angry way, but in a calm and
almost "indifferent" manner. (Real men never get angry. Real
men put women back into their places by saying "no" to them
calmly. )
Examples:
"No, dear. We're not going to that restaurant tonight."
"No, I don't want to wait for you to call me 2 hours
before the movie to see if you're going. If you can't
come, tell me now so I can make other plans or go with
someone else."
2) Don't Be Too Nice: If you're the type of guy that likes
to "be nice" to women and buy them gifts and take them out
to dinner, I want you to stop now. Stop letting them order
you around. Stop volunteering to "do things for them". Every
time you fetch her bottle for her or give her a ride home,
she's going to see you MORE as a wussy FRIEND instead of
a potential LOVER, get it?
3) Be Prepared To Walk: If you aren't getting what you want
from a girl, there's no use hanging around. If you aren't
happy in a relationship, break out of it. Having this
attitude will give you A LOT of power. Once women know that
you CAN and WILL walk out if necessary, they won't take
you for granted anymore.
4) Plan Out Dates: This is actually the easiest way to
demonstrate your leadership and independence. Have the whole
date planned out before you go. Stay in control and just give
her a good night out. Remember that people are drawn towards
those that have a CLEAR sense of where they're going...
so if you plan everything ahead...your date is going to
respect you more.
5) Be Decisive: If a girl asks you whether you would like
to go for dinner or a play, don't say, "Whatever you like."
Give a REAL answer. Every time you give the "let's do
whatever you like, darling" kind of answer, you're handing
your power over to HER. Sooner or later, she's going to
stop respecting you as an equal partner.
6) Don't Care About What She Thinks Of You: Remember that
your job is to ATTRACT her, not to PLEASE her. Don't let
her know that you care what they think of you at all. The
moment a girl knows you rely on her opinion of you, she's
going to lose respect. Here's the bottom line: women are
only attracted to guys they respect, and guys that try too
hard to please women lose their respect over time!
7) Learn The Dating Game: Women respect guys that KNOW
WHAT THEY ARE DOING. Think about it...if you were a woman,
would you go for a guy that stuttered and sounded not very
confident...or a guy that knew EXCATLY how to approach you,
WHAT to say to you...and HOW to say it?
Remember that women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to guys
they RESPECT. This means POWERFUL, CONFIDENT, and
INDEPENDENT guys that make them feel weak in their knees...
Confidence is a Big Key in Attracting Women
Confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive views of themselves and their situations. Confident people trust their own abilities and have a great sense of control in lives.
People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure.
In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments.
Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women then those who are not.
People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure.
In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments.
Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women then those who are not.
THE IMPORTANCE OF TEASING
1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)
2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it
So in short, teasing means:
1) Making fun of a girl playfully
2) Arousing her and then pulling back
To me, teasing basically means sending "mixed signals." Basically, you don't want to do anything that is direct. You want to keep her wondering if you like her or not with your words and body language.
Here are some examples:
Example #1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you
really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really like
you", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct
and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY,
then you can get away with it because you're just joking.
You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you
a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will
leave her wondering if you're really attracted to her or not.
Women love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and
say,"He loves me, he loves me not"
Example #2: You can make fun of something small about her
(don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobes
is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)
She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into her
eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."
Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about
something that is special to both of you. Like if something
funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your
advantage.
Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.
When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,
"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown
off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it
even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."
Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,
try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.
She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's
wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to
try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start making
out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a
VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.
Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a
date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then
you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,
say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see
if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think
she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second
try first..."
The Golden Key to Attracting Women
SEXUAL CHEMISTRY
Ultimately, SEXUAL CHEMISTRY is all that matters at the beginning of every possible relationship. If you don't have it, you can stop thinking about a second or third date. It ain't going to happen.
Ultimately, SEXUAL CHEMISTRY is all that matters at the beginning of every possible relationship. If you don't have it, you can stop thinking about a second or third date. It ain't going to happen.
You see...attraction is based on FEELINGS, not logic.
Most guys make the mistake of trying to "convince" a girl to
like him by doing stupid things to "impress" her - such as
buying her dinner or reading her poetry. They think that by
telling her what a great guy he is, she will fall for him
and it will be happily ever after. WRONG.
You don't attract women by showing her your
accomplishments or the size of your bank account. You attract
women by MAKING HER HEART BEAT FASTER AND
MAKING HER BODY TEMPERATURE RISE A COUPLE OF DEGREES.
Basically...the golden key to attracting women is by
BUILDING THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "impress" her by showing her
your writing or car or whatever, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "be smooth" and "sweet-talk" her,
BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "get into her pants" on a first
date, BUILD THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "show her you love her", BUILD
THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
Instead of trying to "prove" anything, BUILD THE
SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.
See...
Unless you have got SEXUAL CHEMISTRY with women, she
will never, never be attracted to you, get it? She will just
see you as a "friend" or tell you "Sorry, I just don't feel
that way towards you."
So...do you want to build sexual chemistry with the
girl you like? (Of course you do...)
Do You know what Women Want?
So what DO women want?
What are their inner most desires?
Let's face it. If you have no idea what women REALLY want deep inside, you will never be able to please them completely. You can buy them lots of gifts and obey all their wishes, but they are not going to be attracted to you because you're not giving them what they really want.
Okay. So what DO women want?
Well... After years of interviewing women and men who are successful with women, I've come to realize that there is only ONE thing most women want from a guy: the ability to surrender to him.
Every woman wants to surrender to the "right" guy.
Don't believe me? Just listen to what the following girls have said:
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Natalia, age 24: "I want to surrender to a guy. Not as in a 'wave a white flag and let him walk all over me'kind of way, but in a...'surrender to him completely because I feel so GOOD around him' kind of way. My fantasy is to have my guy in a suit...kissing down my neck while rubbing his hands all over my body. I want him to whisper sexy things in my ears...to make me feel I want to surrender to him, to let him take charge of my body."
Meg, age 21: "I don't like guys that suck up to me. I mean, I enjoy it when guys buy me drinks and try to flatter me, but I am not going to be attracted to these men romantically. I mean come on - I need a man who is stronger than me - not a little boy. I want a REAL man who can love, nuture, and protect me. I want a MAN I can ADMIRE, not a boy who admires me!"
Sarah, age 28: "Men should realize that in today's world, women do not NEED men; We DESIRE men. We make the same money as them so we do not need their money. What we need is the
FEELING of being in love. The feeling of surrendering to our innermost desires. Like, "I love him so much, I am willing to give up everything - just for him."
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Listen. There is a darker side inside every woman that wants to be dominated by a real man. Not in a "beat me up and abuse me" kind of way, but in a "I want a man I can give myself to" kind of way.
Women DON'T want your gifts and flowers. They DON'T want your hopelessly chasing after them. What they REALLY want is a man who can GIVE THEM THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS
THEY FANTASIZE IN THEIR DREAMS and make them feel WEAK in their legs.
They want to think, "I love him so much. I wonder how he feels about me...", not "Wow. That was a nice gift. This boy likes me so much he brought me a necklace!"
They want to feel like YOU'RE the "right one" for them, not because you "love" her and "admire" her, but because SHE feels SHE loves and admires YOU.
Listen:
There are tons of women out there that are WAITING to surrender to you. Your dream date is NOT waiting for you to buy her a flower or "gather the courage" to ask her out. She is waiting for you to ENTER HER LIFE by making her feel "hopefully in love" with you. She wants to feel weak in her legs and melt...into your body.
So... What if you knew EXCATLY how to interact with women in a way that would make them feel they want to SURRENDER to you completely? What if you could build sexual chemistry
with women in a way that would make them think about you every
moment? How would your life be different if you understood the key to making women feel "weak" on the spot? Instead of feeding them power by trying to "buy their love" with flowers, gifts, and compliments, what if you could TAKE THAT POWER AWAY FROM THEM and make them SURRENDER to YOU? You would be walking around like a king because you would have complete confidence with women. After all, Why would you be afraid of women if they
are already MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTED to you?
What are their inner most desires?
Let's face it. If you have no idea what women REALLY want deep inside, you will never be able to please them completely. You can buy them lots of gifts and obey all their wishes, but they are not going to be attracted to you because you're not giving them what they really want.
Okay. So what DO women want?
Well... After years of interviewing women and men who are successful with women, I've come to realize that there is only ONE thing most women want from a guy: the ability to surrender to him.
Every woman wants to surrender to the "right" guy.
Don't believe me? Just listen to what the following girls have said:
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Natalia, age 24: "I want to surrender to a guy. Not as in a 'wave a white flag and let him walk all over me'kind of way, but in a...'surrender to him completely because I feel so GOOD around him' kind of way. My fantasy is to have my guy in a suit...kissing down my neck while rubbing his hands all over my body. I want him to whisper sexy things in my ears...to make me feel I want to surrender to him, to let him take charge of my body."
Meg, age 21: "I don't like guys that suck up to me. I mean, I enjoy it when guys buy me drinks and try to flatter me, but I am not going to be attracted to these men romantically. I mean come on - I need a man who is stronger than me - not a little boy. I want a REAL man who can love, nuture, and protect me. I want a MAN I can ADMIRE, not a boy who admires me!"
Sarah, age 28: "Men should realize that in today's world, women do not NEED men; We DESIRE men. We make the same money as them so we do not need their money. What we need is the
FEELING of being in love. The feeling of surrendering to our innermost desires. Like, "I love him so much, I am willing to give up everything - just for him."
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Listen. There is a darker side inside every woman that wants to be dominated by a real man. Not in a "beat me up and abuse me" kind of way, but in a "I want a man I can give myself to" kind of way.
Women DON'T want your gifts and flowers. They DON'T want your hopelessly chasing after them. What they REALLY want is a man who can GIVE THEM THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS
THEY FANTASIZE IN THEIR DREAMS and make them feel WEAK in their legs.
They want to think, "I love him so much. I wonder how he feels about me...", not "Wow. That was a nice gift. This boy likes me so much he brought me a necklace!"
They want to feel like YOU'RE the "right one" for them, not because you "love" her and "admire" her, but because SHE feels SHE loves and admires YOU.
Listen:
There are tons of women out there that are WAITING to surrender to you. Your dream date is NOT waiting for you to buy her a flower or "gather the courage" to ask her out. She is waiting for you to ENTER HER LIFE by making her feel "hopefully in love" with you. She wants to feel weak in her legs and melt...into your body.
So... What if you knew EXCATLY how to interact with women in a way that would make them feel they want to SURRENDER to you completely? What if you could build sexual chemistry
with women in a way that would make them think about you every
moment? How would your life be different if you understood the key to making women feel "weak" on the spot? Instead of feeding them power by trying to "buy their love" with flowers, gifts, and compliments, what if you could TAKE THAT POWER AWAY FROM THEM and make them SURRENDER to YOU? You would be walking around like a king because you would have complete confidence with women. After all, Why would you be afraid of women if they
are already MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTED to you?
