Confidence is a Big Key in Attracting Women
Confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive views of themselves and their situations. Confident people trust their own abilities and have a great sense of control in lives.
People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure.
In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments.
Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women then those who are not.
People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure." They dont believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure.
In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good. They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments.
Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women then those who are not.
THE IMPORTANCE OF TEASING
1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)
2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it
So in short, teasing means:
1) Making fun of a girl playfully
2) Arousing her and then pulling back
To me, teasing basically means sending "mixed signals." Basically, you don't want to do anything that is direct. You want to keep her wondering if you like her or not with your words and body language.
Here are some examples:
Example #1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you
really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really like
you", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct
and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY,
then you can get away with it because you're just joking.
You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you
a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will
leave her wondering if you're really attracted to her or not.
Women love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and
say,"He loves me, he loves me not"
Example #2: You can make fun of something small about her
(don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobes
is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)
She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into her
eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."
Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about
something that is special to both of you. Like if something
funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your
advantage.
Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.
When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,
"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown
off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it
even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."
Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,
try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.
She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's
wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to
try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start making
out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a
VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.
Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a
date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then
you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,
say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see
if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think
she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second
try first..."
