How To Compliment a Girl
You must know that there is a little girl inside every woman who wants to be loved. And this is why if you make a good compliment the right way, she is going to be very happy.
Remember that attractive women are usually used to compliments. I can bet you that a good-looking woman gets compliments on her looks wherever she goes. If she really is beautiful, she already knows it. What's more, she was born with her body, so if you're just complimenting on her perfect body, you're really complimenting the Creator, not her.
So how can you be different than the rest of the guys? Well, there is only one thing you need to remember:
Your compliments will have to be special. In every way.
1) Compliment On Whats REALLY Special About Her:
You should always compliment on something unique like what she has done. Don't bother to compliment on her good looks because she was born with it. Compliment her on a funny joke she has made or a skirt she has made by herself. Or compliment her positive attributes such as her personality or honesty.
2) Be Detailed:
Always be detailed and clear. Girls love details. By the
way, if she is wearing socks that match with her top, its not
by coincidence. Let her know you noticed.
3) Mean What You Say:
Really look into her eyes when you compliment her. Also,
never use false flattery. If you say something, then mean it.
Or at least practice till you sound like you mean it. Trust me,
after repeating something so many times, you will start to
believe it. =)
4) Don't Overdo It:
Your compliments will only be special if you compliment
her every once in awhile. The less you compliment a woman, the more it will mean to her.
5) Only Compliment Her Because She Is Special
Most guys compliment a girl because they want a date.
Don't be like them. Compliment her because she is special, and
because you want to. I personally like to compliment a girl and
then leave. This always makes a girl warmer to me the next time
I see her again.
If you do this to someone you don't know, she will be
flattered and try to find out who you are as you walk away!
Good Luck!
Inside Jokes and Pet Names
Okay. Whenever a woman tells you a story, pull out a little phrase or joke that invokes your Quarrys favorite part.
Or make up a phrase or joke about a situation you two have been in.
Now let time PASS before you invoke the joke in a conversation. Remember the longer you wait, the stronger the punch will be when it finally comes!
You may also think of a cute nickname for your girl. Use it to tease her every once in awhile: it will create a sense
of intimacy if you do it correctly!
Getting Your First Kiss
You should NEVER have to ask a woman for your first
kiss. (Only WIMPS ask for a first kiss, and you should know by
now that women are NOT attracted to wimps!) You should "test
the waters" by using the following technique instead:
Flirt heavily with her and get some good connection
when you're over at her house. Then when the moment is right,
I want you to look into her eyes...and stroke her hair. Tell her
her hair smells good. Look into her eyes again and see how she
reacts. (Feedback is IMPORTANT) She's got those dreamy eyes?
Lift her chin up with a finger and tell her her eyes are
beautiful and gaze deeply into them. She still responding well?
Great. Lean down SLOWLY towards her lips. (If she doesn't pull
away then she WANTS the kiss). Kiss her lightly on her lips.
Pull back and look into her eyes again. Smile. Then kiss her
again, but make it harder and longer this time. Kiss her for
awhile and then start nibbling on her neck.
Once you've "melted" her with this, she should be ready
to do more.
Well, there you have it, the killer technique to get
your first kiss with the girl of your dream. It won't guarantee
you'll have a girlfriend by tomorrow night but it can certainly
give you a better "edge" the next time you're out with a girl.:
kiss. (Only WIMPS ask for a first kiss, and you should know by
now that women are NOT attracted to wimps!) You should "test
the waters" by using the following technique instead:
Flirt heavily with her and get some good connection
when you're over at her house. Then when the moment is right,
I want you to look into her eyes...and stroke her hair. Tell her
her hair smells good. Look into her eyes again and see how she
reacts. (Feedback is IMPORTANT) She's got those dreamy eyes?
Lift her chin up with a finger and tell her her eyes are
beautiful and gaze deeply into them. She still responding well?
Great. Lean down SLOWLY towards her lips. (If she doesn't pull
away then she WANTS the kiss). Kiss her lightly on her lips.
Pull back and look into her eyes again. Smile. Then kiss her
again, but make it harder and longer this time. Kiss her for
awhile and then start nibbling on her neck.
Once you've "melted" her with this, she should be ready
to do more.
Well, there you have it, the killer technique to get
your first kiss with the girl of your dream. It won't guarantee
you'll have a girlfriend by tomorrow night but it can certainly
give you a better "edge" the next time you're out with a girl.:
PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES
.....Then Start Flirting Now!
Flirting Technique: Use Nicknames
When you get closer to a woman, make up a cute nickname
for her.
Flirting Technique: Touch Her Back
If she starts touching you, then touch her on the
shoulder or arm when you laugh. Increase the frequency of
touching as the night goes on.
Flirting Technique: Leave Her Wanting More
Do what strippers do the guys. Get a girl all hot and
then leave her wanting more!
Flirting Technique: Laugh At Her Jokes
Laugh at her jokes whenever she makes one. Touch her on
the arm lightly when you laugh if she's already touching you.
Flirting Technique: Listen To Her Stories
Pay attention to what she says. Be focused on her, not
on the hot waitress.
Flirting Technique: Drop A Compliment
Drop her a compliment every once in awhile. Not too often
though!
Flirting Technique: Tease Her
Incorporate teasing into your flirting. Tease her till
she's wet!
Flirting Technique: Get More Personal
Ask her more and more personal questions as the evening
progresses. Things about her childhood, etc!
Flirting Technique: Stir Your Drink
Stir your drink with a rhythm as you talk to her.
The effect can be "hypnotizing" under the right
atmosphere.
Flirting Technique: Lower Your Volume
Lower and lower your volume so she has to lean towards
you to listen.
Flirting Technique: Whisper
When she gets close enough, whisper to her. This works
well in a bar, when the music is so loud you have to
talk in each other ears.
Flirting Technique: Be Playful
Ask yourself the following questions:
1) How much fun can I have tonight?
2) What sorts of interesting things can I
find out about this girl?
Well? It is up to you now guys. Good Luck!
Flirting is the Ultimate KEY
So, here are some of the flirting moves that I would like you to try. Hope you will share your respective experiences by posting in the comment section of this blog if these tips are effective.
Flirting Technique: Eye-ContactThese are just a few of so many PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES that will make the girl you want fall for you. And the best part is...the techniques are all so easy to follow, you will be dating beautiful women in no time.
Most of flirting is done with your eyes. Keep good
eye-contact on a woman when you talk to her. Just keep
your eyes focused on her a bit "too long."
Flirting Technique: Say "Hello" With Energy
When you approach a woman, say "Hello" in a flirty way.
It will make her think you are sexier than the average
geek who walks up to her and gives her a shy "Hi".
Flirting Technique: Shake Her Hand A Bit Too Long
When you shake her hand, let your hand stay on hers
for a bit too long and then brush against her hand as
you pull back. Do this while smiling and looking into
her eyes sincerely. You don want to come off as a
pervert.
Flirting Technique: Repeat The Woman's Name
As you talk to her, repeat her name as much as you can.
Say her name slow, softly and sensually each time you
say it.
Example: "Hello, De-bbie, I am very glad you came
here..."
Good Luck! More PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES will be posted here so do not fail to visit my blog as often as you want.
Basic Preparations in Dating
1) Keep your nails clean and cut them often. Long nails only look great on girls.
2) Wear a deodorant. There's nothing worse then being around a smelly pig.
3) Keep your teeth clean and your breath fresh.
4) You can wear a little bit of cologne, but remember that none is better then too much when it comes to cologne. Do what girls do. Spray some in the air and then WALK THROUGH IT.
5) Shower often.
6) Get a nice watch. Doesn't have to be a Rolex. Just anything without a LCD screen will do.
7) Throw away any shirts with sweat stain marks.
8) Keep your glasses clean and your shoes shiny.
Yes, this is all simple common-sense. But you would be suprised at the number of guys who are going to screw up because they forget to do these things. Don't be one of them.
Women do not Care About a Man Loves Them
They only care about how much THEY like a man. I am sure you like her, but does she like you? YOU DON'T KNOW!
Remember the key to attraction is...it's not how much you're attracted to a woman, but how much she is attracted to YOU that matters.
Most of the time, men who "gather the courage" to "suddenly tell the girl he loves her" usually do it at the "wrong" time, like when a girl least expects it. Surprises are scary and women don't know how to react. Their NATURAL reaction is to turn you down on the spot ("I have a boyfriend" or "I am not looking for someone right now", etc) just to be safe - even if they regret it later.
So, instead of putting the focus on your feelings and worrying about how you can tell her you love her, I want you to focus on getting HER to tell you she likes you.
The best thing you must do is FLIRTING with her. This will allow you to see if she likes you or not. If she ignores you or doesn't respond well to the flirting, then she's not interested in you. But if she flirts back, she wants you!
Start flirting with her and drive the chemistry up. It's time to ATTRACT her, not to chase her. Your goal is to get HER to fall for you and eventually ask you the "Are we together?" question. Good Luck!
Dating is Easy
If you know how - but you must still put in somework. I can show you all the little secrets you can use to meet, attract and date beautiful women, but you must PUT THEM TO USE.
You must be willing to change what you do habitually if you want to become successful with women. After all, to get things you've never had before, you must first do things you've never done before. Makes simple sense, doesn't it? Remember: if you just keep on what you've been doing all these years, you will just keep on getting what you've got - NOTHING!
Dating is a Skill
Contrary to popular beliefs, seducing beautiful women is a skill you can learn. Most "players" out there get laid not because they are rich and handsome, but because they are skilled in what they do in their past time - picking up women. They are the people who have been rejected over and over before finally picking up the skills they need to be successful with women.
The good news for you, my friend, is that these skills can be learned by anyone. This means anyone, regardless of his looks, wealth, and status, can become a master at picking up women once they have learned the right skills.
Every skill needs to be learned. You had to learn how to walk, how to talk, how to read, how to use a computer and so on. These are all skills you had to learn because you needed them. And meeting woman is just another skill you should learn - the sooner the better.
Confidence comes from Your Knowledge
Most men who are shy around women are only shy because they don't know what they are doing. Everybody has a few strong areas and a few weak ones. We're all confident in the areas we're best at and less confident in the areas we're not so good at.
If you're good at computer programming and I asked you to write a simple program for me, you'd probably take the job since you know you can code well. Same if you're in the army and I asked you to take a M16 apart and put it back together again. But what if I asked you to walk up to a beautiful woman and introduce yourself to her? You'd probably freak out because you'd feel small and insecure around such a beautiful Goddess.
But what if you knew what you were doing? What if you knew exactly when to approach her, exactly what to say, and exactly how to seduce her on the spot? What if you knew all the little hot buttons you could push to make her hot and sweaty for you? Attracting women would then be extremely easy for you - because you'd know precisely what you have to do to make a woman fall in love with you.
So do yourself a favor: Start learning and practicing the fine art of dating. Good Luck!