Qualities You should Look for in a Woman
If you're interested in a long-term relationship, the following are the Qualities You should Look for in a Woman, to wit:
1) Honest
Never date a liar. Once a liar, always a liar. A woman who has lied to you over and over will lie to you again in the future. You can count on it.
2) Loyal
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Just like a woman who has lied to you once will often lie again, a woman who has cheated once will usually cheat again.
3) Socially Skilled
Find a woman who can get along with anyone. If a woman "hates the world" or people in general, that's usually a sign there are deeper problems within her.
4) Fun to be with
Date women with a fun personality. A boring woman will drive you crazy as soon as the initial hormone-driven honeymoon period is over.
5) Adventurous and open-minded
Find a woman you can travel and explore the world with. Narrow-minded women usually have limited foresight and get boring after awhile.
6) Cultured, classy and sophisticated
Cultured women often make a better companion if you live in a big city. (If you don't, it doesn't really matter.)
7) Frugal
Beware of big spenders and gold diggers. They will drain your bank account empty and then leave without looking back.
8) "Clean"
Your girlfriend should be currently clean of any drug or alcohol problems.
9) Flexible
Try to find someone who's willing to compromise. A spoiled princess will drive you nuts eventually.
10) A positive thinker
This one is very important. Pessimistic people will drain all your energy out of you.
Good Luck!
Just because a Woman Smiles at You
Well...honestly...just because a woman smiles at you does not mean she's interested in you. The only way to find out if a woman is REALLY interested in you is by doing the flirt-test. All other body language signs are SECONDARY.
With that said, there are also several kinds of smiles that a woman may give to a man. So just because a woman is smiling doesn't mean she's necessarily happy with you. She could actually be bored...or disgusted.
Here are 5 basic kinds of smiles:
1) The Bored Smile
This is the kind of smile a woman may give you if she's bored with a conversation. It is a slight smile with the corners of her mouth just a little tensed up. You may catch her looking around the room...
2) The Forced Smile
This is the smile a woman will give you if she seriously does not like you or if she thinks you're annoying or stupid. The smile is tighter than the bored smile, with even more tension in the corners of her mouth than the bored smile. She may give you a sarcastic look with her eyes.
3) The Polite Smile
The polite smile is a smile a waitress or bartender will give you for tips. How do you know it's not real? Simple. Just check the corners of her mouth. If they are all tensed up, she's faking it.
4) The Dreamy Smile
The dreamy smile is the smile she will give when she's fascinated by your story or really enjoying a deep conversation with you. The smile will be a natural smile without any tension, and her eyes will look like she has wandered into another world.
5) The Genuine Smile
The genuine smile is the smile a woman will give you when she's really happy. There'll be lots of teeth, no tension in the face, and her head will often throw back as she laughs out loud. Her eyes may even twinkle with happiness.
So now that you know how to tell the differences between the different kinds of smiles, I want you to notice them in the real world. Next time you go out, observe the people around you and see what kind of smiles they are showing to the people they are talking to. You'll be amazed at all the things you'll learn about how humans interact with each other. Good Luck!
How To Overcome Your Fear Of Women
If so...then the following tips are just right for you:
1) Befriend at least 5 Women
Go out and befriend 5 hot women. Don't hit on them. Don't flirt with them. Just befriend them.
Don't worry about falling into the friendship jail. Just be a good friend of theirs and hang out with them as often as you can - even if it means tagging along with them when they go out to pickup guys.
Since you're just befriending them without hitting on them, this should be easy even if you're a shy guy. (And if you're so shy that you can't even befriend a woman "as a friend", then you MUST do this exercise and overcome your fear of women. If you can't even talk to a woman, you're NOT going to get a girlfriend, Right?!)
2) Get Comfortable Around Them
Next, I want you to just get comfortable around your new female friends. Learn to look at them in the eyes. Learn to initiate innocent physical contact with them. Talk to their other friends when you go out. You're part of their groups now - so get comfortable with your new social life.
3) Observe Their Love Lives
Observe the way they act in relationships. Sense their own insecurity around guys they like. See through their fragile fantasies. watch how they throw "tests" at guys sub-consciously and how their attraction levels raise or lowers as time goes by - and why.
4) Talk To Their Boyfriends
Work your charm on their boyfriends as well. Stroke their ego's and be buddy-buddy with them. At the same time, learn from them by observing how they've managed to attract their hottie girlfriends.
5) Watch How They Pick Up Guys
If one of your new friends is single, then go out with her to a club and how she picks up guys or deals with guys that try to pick her up.
6) Get Them To Give You a Makeover
Get your new female friends to give you a makeover. Let them show you what hair style or clothes look the best on you.
7) Hook Up with Their Friends
Get them to introduce you to their friends. Chances are, their friends are going to be as good-looking as they are.
8) Use Them to Build Social Proof
Be seen with your new hot friends at clubs and events. "social proof" and envy are powerful psychological factors. Believe me or not, women will find you more attractive when they see you hanging out with other hot women.
9) Improve Your Own Self Image
By now, you should realize that under their beautiful skin, hotties are still human - just like you. They are your equal and they are just as insecure as you are deep inside (or even more) when it comes to dating and relationships.
You should also see that with the right skills and training, you too could become an expert in dating. Good Luck!
Do Women Like Macho Men?
And Here's my answer: Women just like MEN in general!
Notice how I've put "MEN" in capital letters.
Let me explain why...
You see, personally I think too many guys use the "I don't want to act like a macho asshole" as an EXCUSE to act like a wuss bag in front of women...
What these guys don't understand that that to point is NOT to act "macho" or stupid, but to act like a real MAN. A MAN who gives off a raw, masculine kinda of energy.
Like I say all the time, if women were attracted to nice, "girlie" men, they wouldn't be dating men in the first place. They were be DATING EACH OTHER! And if they were interested in someone to "share their feelings with", they wouldn't need a BOYFRIEND, they could just call ANY of their girl friends!
The only, only, only reason why a woman is interested in a man is because...as my former girlfriend puts it...
"I want penis, not vagina."
Now...My former girlfriend may be a little bit blatant and direct, but you get the idea. The ONLY reason why a woman is interested in a MAN is because she wants a MAN.
By the way, the same concept applies to YOU too. You probably like women because they are FEMININE. So even though they are quite different than us...we APPRECIATE the differences. Even though women yelp WAY too much, always show up late on dates, and do silly things like watching sappy movies and reading girlie magazines, we APPRECIATE them for WHO THEY ARE.
Don't you agree? (Of course you do, unless you are gay.)
So...here's the lesson for today: Don't be afraid of acting like a man. Just like we like women for who they are, women like men for who they are, including the "stupid" things we do. NEVER try to appease women by acting like them. Instead of turning yourself into an effeminate "Metrosexual male", just relax and be a natural man. A NATURAL man who is NOT afraid of his own skin and NOT afraid of being a man.
For example:
1) Don't feel guilty about your own sexuality.
2) Don't let anyone or anything stop you from achieving your best.
3) Don't let your friends or family "feminize" you. You were born a MAN, and that's who you should be.
4) Don't be afraid of being adventurous. Go and climb the mountains of life.
5) Don't be afraid of doing "stupid" things that all boys do. (Stupid pranks, etc) Just be safe and don't break any laws or get anyone hurt.
6) Don't be afraid of acting like one of the boys.
7) Don't be afraid of flirting with women. Flirt and tease as much as you can. Don't be afraid of making advances at all. It's natural.
Women need men just like men need women. Just remember that! GoodLuck!
Charm A Woman with Your Killer Smile
My New Year tips will be very short. This is how to charm a woman by giving her a personal smile.
As a "smart Dater", you should be smiling and acting friendly all the time.
But of course, if you smile too much to everybody, it's going to lose its effectiveness. This is a very simple but yet very practical and powerful "trick" for smiling at a woman you like. (You can also use this as the first step of a flirt test and see how she reacts.)
"Start off with a semi-serious look on your face as you look at the woman deeply in the eyes. (The eye contact is VERY important for this trick to work.) Let her look back into you.
Then flash her a slow and almost "secretive" smile. Make it something "personal" that is JUST between the two of you.
You're not smiling at the whole world. You're just smiling at HER - because she is special."
Now watch how she reacts! Good Luck!
