Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset
Well, here is the Right Thing to do When A woman Is Upset.
Give her emotional support and a shoulder to cry on, but do NOT attempt to give her ANY solutions to her problems. Why not? You may ask.
Because women's heads are wired differently than ours. As men, we want solutions to our problems right away. Women, on the other hand, want emotional support. So when women tell you their problems, they aren't REALLY looking for you to give them your two cents right away. What they're looking for is actually emotional support.
Unfortunately most guys do not realize this, and that's why they try to play the "advisor" or "counsellor" whenever their girlfriends tell them their problems. Instead of LISTENING to their girlfriends, they try to chip in and offer their "solutions" for the problems RIGHT AWAY. As a result, both parties become frustrated. The women feel their boyfriends are not listening to them, while the men complain to their buddies that their "stupid" girlfriends are not listening or being "logical".
So what should you do if a woman comes to you when she's upset? The first thing you should do is to LISTEN. Don't be too eager to offer her your opinion or your "solution" yet. Just LISTEN to her and give her a shoulder to cry on. Most of the times, she just wants somebody to talk to.
If she starts acting like a bitch, then just keep your silence and ignore her. Don't let her drag you into her problems. Give her your emotional support-but draw the line there. Getting inside her world will only makes things even more complicated.
Good Luck!
When and How To Be Persistent With Women
How do I know when to be persistent and when to stop going after a woman? That will be the question some of you wanted to ask. Right?
So, here it is guys, You should be persistent when a woman's ACTIONS tell you that you should keep going...and STOP when her actions show that she's not cool with it.
For example, if a woman keeps flirting with you and dating you casually even though she "says" she's not interested in a relationship, you can show some persistence and keep on going after her.
But if a woman gets MAD at you for going after her or tries to IGNORE you, then her ACTIONS are showing that she's NOT cool with it, which means you should STOP. At this point, if you act persistent and pushy, you will only push her AWAY from you even further.
Remember that while persistence is an attractive quality because men who persist are often the ones that succeed, if you're clearly in the negative zone, it is time to back off!
Also, you should make sure that you're doing the RIGHT things when you act persistent, because if you're not doing the right things and pushing the right buttons inside a woman, then the more you persist, the more you will push the woman away!
So, Good Luck, guys!
The BENEFITS of SEX
I received this spam email which I think worthy to be posted in this Blog!
did you know that we can determine if a person is sexually active or not by looking at her skin?
1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests have shown that a woman who has sexual relations produces big amounts of estrogen which makes hair shiny and soft.
2. To make love in soft and relaxed way reduces the possibilities of suffering from dermatitis and acne. The sweat produced cleans pores and makes the skin shine.
3. To make love allows to burn all the calories accumulate is this romantic love scene.
4. Sex is one of the safest sports. It strengthens and tonifies all body muscles. It is more enjoyable than doing 20 lapses in the pool. And you don't need special shoes !
5. Sex is an instantaneous cure against depression. It frees endorphins in the blood flow, creating a state of euphoria and leaves us with a feeling of well-being.
6. The more we make love, the more we have the capacity to do more. A body sexually active releases a higher amount of pheromone. This subtle aroma excites the opposite sex !
7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFICIENT THAN VALIUM.
8. To kiss everyday allows to avoid the dentist. Kisses aid saliva in cleaning teeth and lower the quantity of acids causing enamel weakening.
9. Sex relieves headaches. Each time we make love, it releases the tension in brain veins.
10. To make love a lot can heal a nasal congestion. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It helps fight asthma and spring allergies.
This message was sent to you so that you have good chances in sexual relations. It went around the world 9 times. It now arrived to you so that you can can in turn enjoy "Benefits from Sex".
Good Luck!
