Getting over a break up is hard; however, getting over the first breakup is definitely the hardest. The reason it's so much harder than all the other breakups is because it's your first love. So it's not just any old regular break up for us, it's a break up with the person who first showed us what it means to love.

You probably spent most of your time together and now you have a difficult time picturing what your life's going to be like without them. In fact, just the thought of losing them is terrifying. You might have a hard time believing that you'll ever be happy again. But if you follow the 3 tips below, I guarantee that you'll be able to get over your first love and move on with your life.

1. Do not talk to your ex for the next month

You can't truly get over them if you guys are still friends. You have to cut all contact with each other while you attempt to get over it and move on. I know that it's hard, it feels you're suddenly losing your best friend. However, this is the first step that you absolutely MUST take if you want to get over your ex.