10 Tips on How to be Active again in Dating Women
1) SEE YOUR BUDDIES: Go out for a couples of boys nights out. After being isolated from the world for so long, it's time for you to sit down with a couple of buddies just like the old times. This will help you become more sociable.
2) EXPAND YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE: Next, you need to expand your social circle and make NEW friends. Go to parties, join a few clubs...go volunteer somewhere. I guarantee you will meet many women on the way.
3) LEARN TO FLIRT: This is VERY important. From now on, you should be flirting with every girl you meet - just for fun.
4) BE PLAYFUL: This goes hand in hand with flirting. Personally, I think this is the MOST important thing to do if you would like to get your groove back. After being out of the game for so long, chances are you've probably forgotten how to be playful. So work on getting your playful self back.
5) ERASE THE PAST: You can't exactly move on with your life if you're still hung onto the idea of getting your ex back. So MOVE ON. Always look towards your FUTURE, not your past.
6) TAKE THINGS SLOWLY: Don't hurry into another relationship yet. Enjoy your single life. See it as a FREEDOM you have earned!
7) CLEAN UP YOUR HOUSE: Reorganize your furniture. Throw out all the "old stuff" you have. This will help you remove the excessive baggage in your life and make room for the new.
8) SEE BEYOND: Go out and smell the fresh air. See what a beautiful world this is. Life is more than JUST about love. You've gotta understand that before you can get into another relationship.
9) RAISE YOUR STANDARDS: Raise your standards and be pickier with the women you stay. Only date girls that are BETTER than your ex.
10) GO TO THE GYM: Working out can make you feel better about yourself.
And most important of all...GO OUT AND MEET WOMEN. Good Luck!
Take Self-Improvement Classes to Increase Your Success with Women
1) YOGA:
Costs: Anywhere from $15 to $50 a month
- Will help improve your posture.
- Lots of hot women. You will be outnumbered 10 to 1 in most classes.
2) ACTING:
Costs: From $50 - $250 for a simple course.
- Will help your voice / speech.
- Will help you understand "objectives".
- Will help your body language.
- Will help you overcome shyness.
- Lots of women.
- You can use your skills to work as an "extra" on movies and call yourself a part-time actor. Nice way to impress women.
3) BOXING / COMPETITIVE MARTIAL ARTS:
Costs: $40 - $70 a month
- Will help you develop your masculine, competitive energy.
- Will help you become more fit.
4) COOKING:
Costs: $25 - $100 per course
- Will teach you how to cook nice dishes for those romantic dates.
- Lots of women in the classes. (If you're into more mature women.)
5) PUBLIC SPEAKING:
Costs: $50-$250 per course
- Will help you overcome your shyness.
- Will help you develop your communication skills.
6) SALSA:
Costs: $30-$50 a month
- Will teach you how to dance.
- LOTS of women for you to meet.
7) MASSAGE:
Costs: $50-$200 per course
- You can apply the techniques to massaging women. GOOD skill to have.
8) CREATIVE WRITING:
Costs: $50-200 per course
- Develop your creative side.
- You can call yourself a poet or a writer. Can use this to open up conversation with intelligent women.
Last, but not the least, if you're interested in meeting women, you definitely have to visit this blog more often! Good Luck!
Why You Should Never Say SEX
Today's tip is short: Never say "let's have sex" to a woman.
You should ALWAYS refer to sex as something else, such as "love-making" or "sleeping together". Why? Because the term "sex" is not very intimate, and women enjoy intimacy when it comes to sex. To a woman, sex is not just about the physical aspects of having sex. There's a whole emotional side to it as well. They enjoy making love to a man they like, and sleeping on his arm after. By using the word "sex" to describe intercourse, you're really reducing the awesome emotional experience of love-making into a purely physical act.
So from now on, it's...
- "I want to make love to you" instead of "I want to
have sex with you."
- "Yeah...we slept together" instead of "Yeah...we
used to have sex together."
- "I love making love to you" instead of "I love having
sex with you."
- "Remember the first time we made love?" instead of
"Remember the first time we had sex?"
How Much Of A Man Are You?
Here are 10 Questions to ask yourself How Much Of A Man Are You?
1) Do you workout at least 3 times a week?
2) Do you try to "upgrade" yourself constantly?
3) Do you try to excel in EVERY area of your life?
4) Are you adventurous?
5) Do you participate in competitive sports?
6) Are you a challenge to women?
7) Do you treat attractive women like "normal people"?
8) Do you exibit self-control and confidence on dates?
9) Have you ever said "no" to a woman you're VERY attracted to?
10) Are you comfortable with your own skill?
Whatever Your Answers will be, Is All Up to You! So, Good Luck!
10 Keys to Better Conversationalist
This is VERY important. From now on, talk to ANYBODY. Not just girls, but ANYBODY. It will be one of the *best* things you can do for your love life.
2) Have Stories Ready
Have "canned" stories that you can tell when you talk to people. If you don't have any interesting stories to tell, it's a sign that you should log off the computer and go out into the real world. (Hint: Anyone who goes out a lot must have a lot of stories to tell.)
3) Change Topics As Soon As One Become Boring
Don't try to beat on a dead horse and keep talking about a subject because it "was" interesting at the beginning. As soon as your sense the energy drop, change the topic.
4) Don't Bore People With Question After Question
5) Make Good Eye Contact
Very important. Hold your eye contact JUST a bit too long when you talk to her.
6) Don't Boast
Never try to impress a woman or show off. You're just going to come off as an insecure guy. And you know what happens to insecure guys!
7) Avoid "Tough" Topics
Stay away from politics and religion. Chances are, you'll never agree.
8) Show some vulnerability
Show a TINY bit of vulnerability (such as a small secret or one little thing from your childhood) in order to establish an emotional connection.
9) Slow Down Your Speech
The slower you speak, the more attention people will give you. (And the more confident you will sound.)
10) Have Fun
If you learn to APPRECIATE talking to people, you will be WAY AHEAD of most guys. Why? Because most people DREAD talking to women. They see it as a "task" they have to do in order to get girls.
But guess what? Any time you treat something as a "task" instead of something you ENJOY doing, you'll really just wasting your time. As I say all the time, dating should be FUN. If you're not having fun, then you shouldn't be dating.
Good Luck and have FUN!
10 Ways To Make Great Compliments
Here are a couple of rules for making "killer compliments".
1) Don't compliment a woman "too much". Always mix it
up with flirting and teasing.
2) Don't compliment the obvious. If a woman's a good
musician, chances are, she has heard it hundreds of
times already.
3) Find something specific or unique to compliment on.
For example, instead of complimenting how good a woman
is at piano, find something specific to say, such as,
"I love the technique you had during that last passage.
Every note was perfectly balanced, and you don't hear
that very often. Sometimes not even from the pro's."
4) Think about what's important to the woman, not
what's important to you.
5) Use "I" instead of "You". Instead of saying
"You're wonderful", say "I was blown away by the way
you..." This will show you're giving her your approval
instead of sucking up to her. (Big difference!)
6) Don't forget to compliment the ordinary things that
often go unnoticed.
7) If the person acts modest, nod and say "I believe
in you." Once again, you're showing her approval
instead of sucking up to her.
8) Sometimes, a non-verbal compliment is just as good
as a verbal compliment. For example, you can nod when
you see something great or act like you're really
enjoying the dinner she has cooked for you.
9) What a woman wants to hear may not be what a woman
is good at. It may be what the woman WISHES she was
good at. Never forget that.
10) To further a conversation, ask a probing question
after a compliment. For example, after complimenting
on a woman's piano skills, ask her more about what
kind of music she likes and get into a conversation
about music.
Good Luck!
9 Ways to Get Yourself A Girlfriend
1) Turn off your computer and go out. Expand your social circle as much as you can - I guarantee you will meet MANY women on the way. Join a few hobbie clubs, go to house parties...or even get a volunteer job somewhere. I don't care how you do it. JUST GO OUT AND MAKE AS MANY FRIENDS AS POSSIBLE.
2) Flirt with every woman you meet - even if they are 60 year old's. Let go of all of your expectations and just flirt with women to give them pleasure, not to get anything in return. (As some of my Christian readers have told me, flirting is a way of "giving", not a way of getting. Having this mindset will give you GREAT success with women.)
3) Tease women.
4) Act like a complete challenge.
5) If you come across a woman you would like to meet, get into a conversation with her and ask for her phone number.
6) Go out on a first date and have fun. Focus on building the sexual chemistry. Remember to end the date early.
7) Ask her out again a couple of days later. Keep going out with her. Take it "one date at a time." Just focus on building the chemistry and do not talk about getting together AT ALL.
8) As you continue to date her, remember to keep on advancing physically. Hold her hand, kiss her, stroke her hair, and cuddle with her. It doesn't matter if you kiss her on the first date or on the fifth date, as long you keep advancing forward.
9) Have 7-10 dates with her. If the energy is good, at the end of the 10th date give her a kiss and ask her to become your girlfriend.
And good Luck because the 10th Way - is you got already yourself a Girlfriend.
10 Ways to Develop a Magnetic Personality
1) HUMOROUS: Funny people are ALWAYS more charismatic than people that are too serious. Funny = Exciting; Serious = Boring, get it?
2) AMBITIOUS: Charismatic men are often driven and hardworking in their pursuit of their impossible dreams. On the other hand, insecure men set goals that are really small because they are afraid of not reaching them. (That's if they set any goals at all.)
3) INTUITIVE: Charismatic men are often good "people-readers". They can read situations and people with ease and build rapport with anyone quickly.
4) PLAYFUL: Charismatic men aren't afraid to flirt and be playful.
5) CREATIVE: Charismatic men are often creative rather than "just practical". They have big dreams and a vivid imagination. They can capture your heart with their ideas, philosophies, and dreams.
6) ADVENTUROUS: Charismatic men are always looking to live their lives to their fullest.
7) SOCIAL: Charismatic men are comfortable talking to anyone about anything. They make friends easily. It is no wonder they connect with women with ease - because they can connect with ANYONE at ease.
8) UNPREDICTABLE: You never quite know what these wild boys will do next.
9) OPTIMISTIC: Nobody likes cynical assholes. Be optimistic about everything, and people will like you more. Remember: there is a sunny side in every situation.
10) LAIDBACK: Charismatic men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves. They are relaxed in every situation and don't let anything get to them.
As you go through this list, ask yourself honestly how many of these qualities you possess. I don't care how much "game" you have. If you don't have an interesting personality, you're going to become very BORING to a woman fast. Furthermore, having a more magnetic personality will allow you to:
- Get far more respect from women than the average person
- Exude self-confidence and power
- Draw women to you with less effort
- Put people at ease and make them feel understood
In short, even though it'll take some serious work on your part to develop these traits in your personality, THE RESULTS WILL BE WORTH YOUR TROUBLE.
Good Luck!
Flirting Using A Funny Teasing Technique
1) Look around the room for an ugly guy or a "loser". He should be behind where your girl is sitting or standing.
2) Lean closer to the woman and tell her, "There's a guy behind you who's checking you out."
3) Say something like, "Yes, that's him. The guy in the funny shirt. He's been looking at you the whole time. Maybe you should ask him out."
4) She will probably say, "No way!
5) Say, "Why not? I think he'd be the perfect boyfriend for you. He'll..."
6) From here, list a long list of things that the "average guy" does, such as calling her too often and sending her flowers.
7) Say, "No? Well, then what DO you like?"
8) After she answers, say, "Well, too bad you're too much
of a nice girl for me."
9) Before she can respond, say, "Hey! Look! He's checking you out again!"
10) Change topics and talk about something else. She'll
be dying to ask you why you think she is too much of a nice girl
for you. (So don't be surprised when she suddenly pops the question in a few hours or even a few days. It happens all the time!)
Good Luck!
Flirting with A Nice Eye Contact Trick
Here's another nice eye-contact trick for you.
Next time you're with a girl, increase your eye contact with her to about eighty percent of the time when you talk to her. Try to look DEEPLY into her eyes and even through it. Of course, you don't have to count how many seconds you have to look at her. Simply let your eyes be glued to hers a little longer, even during the silences; and when you finally must look away, drag your eyes away slowly as if you're feeling quite reluctantly, and look back at her again as soon as you can.
If you do this correctly, it will shoot the energy level way up to the moon!
Good Luck!
