Technique for Creating a Bond with a Woman
Instead of focusing on the facts, focus on the feelings.
For example, if you talk about what you like to do ("I like to ski..."), talk about your feelings about the things you like to do. ("Skiing in the winter is so much fun. You get to go away with friends at a cabin somewhere and have a great time"...)
The same technique also applies to listening. Instead of just nodding or saying "That's very cool" when a woman talks about herself, become part of the conversation by searching for the "feeling words" within the conversation and commenting on them.
For example, of a woman talks about animals, you can say, "Yeah. Animals are really great little companions aren't they. I laugh all the time when I play with my dog."
While this tip may sound very simple and short, it is one of the useful skills you can have to be "good with people." With a little bit of practice, you can put anyone at ease with this technique!
Good Luck!
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