How To Build Rapport With Anyone You Meet

The key is to share a similar philosophy with whoever you are talking to.


    Why? Because beliefs are way deep within the core identity with someone, and deep inside everybody wants to be understood and recognized. so if you let someone know that you have some strong core beliefs that are similar to theirs, they are going to feel like you're their best friend.


    You don't have to agree with their beliefs completely. Just look for something that you DO agree with and focus on that.

  
    For example, with scholars, you want to recognize the importance of education.


    With hippies, you want to recognize the importance of freedom and doing whatever you want. (Even if you make it clear that you are still stuck in the "system" and can't travel as often as you'd like. The hippies would pity you, but they would still like you.)

8 Ways How To Get More Attention From Women

Here are eight ways to get more attention from women.


1) Dress Well


    As a man, if you dress well, you "will" turn heads. So whenever
you go out, put on some nice shoes and a pair of nice slacks. Accessorize
yourself with a nice watch (consider it a long term investment) and
necklace. Get a real haircut instead of a buzz cut. (Work it into your
monthly budget!)

    You have 5 seconds to make a first impression. Don't let your
clothes let you down!



2) Surround Yourself With Women


    The more women you have around you, the more other women
will pay attention to you and be comfortable around you. Consider it
automatic social proof. After all, if you weren't a cool guy, you
wouldn't be surrounded by women.

   
    If you have no female friends, now it's time to get some. Don't
worry if they are not romantically interested in you. Just hang out with
them and meet other women while you are out with them.



3) Know Something About Everything



    Open up yourself to the world and know a little bit about
everything. Be an expert in one area or two...and just know enough
(even just the basics) for the rest. This way, you can have a conversation
about anything.



4) Act Indifferent



    If you act like you are in control of your life and don't
really care about what other people think (without being an extremist,
of course), women will be drawn to you because they will be curious
about your world.

8 Tips For Dating a Friend

1) Be Prepared To Lose the Friendship First of all, if you are considering dating a friend, you should be prepared to lose the friendship. I know I'll probably be bashed by sappy folks for saying this, but it's just a harsh truth based on all the cases I've seen as a dating coach in the past ten years. If your friend does not reciprocate your feelings, he or she may "freak out" and pull back from you. Even if your friend does like you back and you guys end up dating, the relationship may not last forever. And when the breakup finally happens, it may not be as amicable as you would hope.

2) Don't Just Say It If you like your friend, make sure you don't just "spill your beans" and reveal how you feel. They may NOT feel the same way. Even if they did, "telling" them would kill their interest level. Instead of wearing your heart on your sleeve and letting yourself blurt it out, just follow the tips in this article and take things one step at a time.

3) Make Them See You Differently Your first job is to stop bring predictable and make them start seeing you differently? Why? Because they probably think they know you very well and that there is no reason to go from being "friends" to dating. You gotta change that. Surprise them by showing more sides to you. (They better be good things!) Make them realize that there is a LOT more to you than what meets the eye. You gotta make them intrigued by you, or you're going to be stuck as a friend forever.