Your dating life will take off when you master the talent of collecting contact information from the women you meet. When you learn this, you can still communicate with women after the very first time you meet them.

Some guys go for the number as soon as they start talking with the girl. Being able to get a phone number is a challenge in itself. Like it or not, the choice to be in touch again is reliant on the woman. You cannot force a woman to hand over her number. Even before you ask, she should be thinking "I hope he asks my number".

Here are some tips to making sure a girl will give you her digits.

Step 1: Stunning First Impression

While it's true that you should never judge a book by its cover, the books that have interesting things on the cover will be picked up first. A good first impression is priceless. Beautiful girls are generally quick to judge in the dating scene. Girls who are hit on by men often will tend to do this. The girls we would rate a ten are constantly bombarded with pick up lines and other gimmicks by guys like you.

Step 2: Grab Her Attention

If you understand what makes a girl turn her head and give you her full attention, this step should be straightforward. You'll be boring her to death if you only talk about common things like the weather. In the very first few minutes of conversation, she would probably know if she still wants to continue the talk. Have a list of openers ready if you've no idea how to grab a woman's full concentration.

If you ramble on and on without any direction, a girl's attention becomes fragmented. She may begin looking around for somebody else to talk to. The point is, if you are boring, she will not willingly provide you with her number when you ask. The truth is, you may not even have the chance to ask her number because she slipped away.

Step 3: Hook Her Into the Discussion

A fine way to make a woman go on to talk to you is to let her do the talking. This means the old twenty-questions type of conversation is out. You know about leading questions right? These are the kinds of questions you need to ask. A leading question is a very good way to let her answer in her own words, while you think of a follow up according to her answer.

You can ask her why she chose that nightspot to go to. You can also tell her something like "You ordered manhattan? You have to be Aries" to get her interested. Questions that can be cleared with yes or no are not good.

These tips will enhance your probability of getting her number at the end of the night.