Tips On How to Make A Relationship Last

Below are the Tips in making a relationship last a long long time:


You know...a lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.


No matter how long you've been going out with a woman - be it weeks, months, or years - it is still important to keep a romantic spark in your relationship. It doesn't matter how well you understand each other. If the attraction is gone, the relationship is going to suffer.


The couple that plays together tends to stay together, period. Isolate yourself from her romantically for an extended period of time, and the relationship will go down the drain.

By the way...

Here's a side benefit of keeping the attraction high. When the attraction is high, your partner (and you too) will be more flexible with each other - meaning there will be less fights and less arguments.

So...if you have a girlfriend or wife already, here is what I want you to do:

Don't let the romantic spark go away. Flirt with her every week.

You should also seek out new adventures together. Please don't do the boring movie and dinner every week and settle down into a "routine". Try to do something fresh and exciting once in awhile to keep the spark alive. Maybe go to the beach. Maybe go for a picnic instead of a movie. Do anything that you don't ordinarily do together and treat it as a "first date". Good Luck!

What If You Don't Have A Car

Can You Date If You Don't Have A Car?

Here's my answer: YOU'RE SCREWED!  Just kidding!

When To Stop Being Persistent With Women

How To Lead And Command A Woman

The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to accept responsibility for our own actions.)

A lot of business people know this, and that's why they often don't give you many choices when you buy something. Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer, the harder it will be to make the sale because the person will have trouble "making the decision".

The same principle applies to dating. The more choices you offer a woman, the more confused she will be. The more firm you are about something you've already picked out for her, the more likely she'll go along with it.

For example, let's say you are trying to get a woman to have one more drink because you think it will help her relax. However, she's not sure if she can have another drink.

You could give her a choice and ask her if she would like to have another drink. She'll probably say no.

Or...

You could you visualize her laughing and acting happy once she has gulped down the drink. Then you say, "Come on, baby, just have the shot. I know you can do it." Then before she can react, follow through with action by handing her the shot glass. Finally, command her by saying "drink it". If you use the right voice tone, 9 out of 10 times the woman will obey you and have the shot. (Note: I don't encourage you getting women drunk. I am just using this common scenario as an example.)

The key here is to be sincere, direct, and authoritative. If you use a "funny voice", the woman will "play along" and show you resistance just for the sake of giving resistance. If you use a nervous voice, she will think that it is wrong to have the drink. Finally, if you sound too smooth, she will think that you're "trying something" and build up her defenses as a result.

To have the correct voice tone when you command a woman to do something, think of yourself as her protector - someone who just KNOWS what's good for her. Going back to the drinks example, think about how much more relaxed she will feel once she has finished the drink. Or if you're trying to get a woman in bed, think about how good she will be feeling when she's crying out your name in bed. Always think about what SHE will get instead of what you would like to get from here. Think about HER end state instead of your own.

With a bit of practice, you can use this skill on men as well. Once you have mastered the ability to encourage other men to try doing things they wouldn't normally do on their own, you will find yourself becoming an alpha male with an ever increasing pack of followers! Good Luck!

Technique for Creating a Bond with a Woman

This is a very simple technique for creating a bond with a woman at a first meeting.

10 Tips on How to be Active again in Dating Women

10 Tips on How to be Active again in Dating Women

1) SEE YOUR BUDDIES: Go out for a couples of boys nights out. After being isolated from the world for so long, it's time for you to sit down with a couple of buddies just like the old times. This will help you become more sociable.

2) EXPAND YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE: Next, you need to expand your social circle and make NEW friends. Go to parties, join a few clubs...go volunteer somewhere. I guarantee you will meet many women on the way.

3) LEARN TO FLIRT: This is VERY important. From now on, you should be flirting with every girl you meet - just for fun.

4) BE PLAYFUL: This goes hand in hand with flirting. Personally, I think this is the MOST important thing to do if you would like to get your groove back. After being out of the game for so long, chances are you've probably forgotten how to be playful. So work on getting your playful self back.

5) ERASE THE PAST: You can't exactly move on with your life if you're still hung onto the idea of getting your ex back. So MOVE ON. Always look towards your FUTURE, not your past.

6) TAKE THINGS SLOWLY: Don't hurry into another relationship yet. Enjoy your single life. See it as a FREEDOM you have earned!

7) CLEAN UP YOUR HOUSE: Reorganize your furniture. Throw out all the "old stuff" you have. This will help you remove the excessive baggage in your life and make room for the new.

8) SEE BEYOND: Go out and smell the fresh air. See what a beautiful world this is. Life is more than JUST about love. You've gotta understand that before you can get into another relationship.

9) RAISE YOUR STANDARDS: Raise your standards and be pickier with the women you stay. Only date girls that are BETTER than your ex.

10) GO TO THE GYM: Working out can make you feel better about yourself.

And most important of all...GO OUT AND MEET WOMEN. Good Luck!

Take Self-Improvement Classes to Increase Your Success with Women

Take Self-Improvement Classes to Increase Your Success with Women. So below is a list of self-improvement classes that I think you should consider taking to increase your success with women.

1) YOGA:

Costs: Anywhere from $15 to $50 a month

- Will help improve your posture.

- Lots of hot women. You will be outnumbered 10 to 1 in most classes.

2) ACTING:

Costs: From $50 - $250 for a simple course.

- Will help your voice / speech.

- Will help you understand "objectives".

- Will help your body language.

- Will help you overcome shyness.

- Lots of women.

- You can use your skills to work as an "extra" on movies and call yourself a part-time actor. Nice way to impress women.


3) BOXING / COMPETITIVE MARTIAL ARTS:

Costs: $40 - $70 a month

- Will help you develop your masculine, competitive energy.

- Will help you become more fit.

4) COOKING:

Costs: $25 - $100 per course

- Will teach you how to cook nice dishes for those romantic dates.

- Lots of women in the classes. (If you're into more mature women.)

5) PUBLIC SPEAKING:

Costs: $50-$250 per course

- Will help you overcome your shyness.

- Will help you develop your communication skills.


6) SALSA:

Costs: $30-$50 a month

- Will teach you how to dance.

- LOTS of women for you to meet.


7) MASSAGE:

Costs: $50-$200 per course

- You can apply the techniques to massaging women. GOOD skill to have.


8) CREATIVE WRITING:

Costs: $50-200 per course

- Develop your creative side.

- You can call yourself a poet or a writer. Can use this to open up conversation with intelligent women.

Last, but not the least, if you're interested in meeting women, you definitely have to visit this blog more often! Good Luck!

Why You Should Never Say SEX

You should ALWAYS refer to sex as something else, such as "love-making" or "sleeping together". Why? Because the term "sex" is not very intimate, and women enjoy intimacy when it comes to sex. To a woman, sex is not just about the physical aspects of having sex. There's a whole emotional side to it as well. They enjoy making love to a man they like, and sleeping on his arm after. By using the word "sex" to describe intercourse, you're really reducing the awesome emotional experience of love-making into a purely physical act.

And so on... Good Luck!

How Much Of A Man Are You?

Here are 10 Questions to ask yourself How Much Of A Man Are You?

1) Do you workout at least 3 times a week?

2) Do you try to "upgrade" yourself constantly?

3) Do you try to excel in EVERY area of your life?

4) Are you adventurous?

5) Do you participate in competitive sports?

6) Are you a challenge to women?

7) Do you treat attractive women like "normal people"?

8) Do you exibit self-control and confidence on dates?

9) Have you ever said "no" to a woman you're VERY attracted to?

10) Are you comfortable with your own skill?

Whatever Your Answers will be, Is All Up to You! So, Good Luck!

10 Keys to Better Conversationalist

1) Be Sociable In General

This is VERY important. From now on, talk to ANYBODY. Not just girls, but ANYBODY. It will be one of the *best* things you can do for your love life.

2) Have Stories Ready

Have "canned" stories that you can tell when you talk to people. If you don't have any interesting stories to tell, it's a sign that you should log off the computer and go out into the real world. (Hint: Anyone who goes out a lot must have a lot of stories to tell.)

3) Change Topics As Soon As One Become Boring

Don't try to beat on a dead horse and keep talking about a subject because it "was" interesting at the beginning. As soon as your sense the energy drop, change the topic.

4) Don't Bore People With Question After Question

5) Make Good Eye Contact

Very important. Hold your eye contact JUST a bit too long when you talk to her.

6) Don't Boast

Never try to impress a woman or show off. You're just going to come off as an insecure guy. And you know what happens to insecure guys!

7) Avoid "Tough" Topics

Stay away from politics and religion. Chances are, you'll never agree.

8) Show some vulnerability

Show a TINY bit of vulnerability (such as a small secret or one little thing from your childhood) in order to establish an emotional connection.

9) Slow Down Your Speech

The slower you speak, the more attention people will give you. (And the more confident you will sound.)

10) Have Fun

If you learn to APPRECIATE talking to people, you will be WAY AHEAD of most guys. Why? Because most people DREAD talking to women. They see it as a "task" they have to do in order to get girls.

But guess what? Any time you treat something as a "task" instead of something you ENJOY doing, you'll really just wasting your time. As I say all the time, dating should be FUN. If you're not having fun, then you shouldn't be dating.

Good Luck and have FUN!

10 Ways To Make Great Compliments

Here are a couple of rules for making "killer compliments".

1) Don't compliment a woman "too much". Always mix it
up with flirting and teasing.

2) Don't compliment the obvious. If a woman's a good
musician, chances are, she has heard it hundreds of
times already.

3) Find something specific or unique to compliment on.
For example, instead of complimenting how good a woman
is at piano, find something specific to say, such as,
"I love the technique you had during that last passage.
Every note was perfectly balanced, and you don't hear
that very often. Sometimes not even from the pro's."

4) Think about what's important to the woman, not
what's important to you.

5) Use "I" instead of "You". Instead of saying
"You're wonderful", say "I was blown away by the way
you..." This will show you're giving her your approval
instead of sucking up to her. (Big difference!)

6) Don't forget to compliment the ordinary things that
often go unnoticed.

7) If the person acts modest, nod and say "I believe
in you." Once again, you're showing her approval
instead of sucking up to her.

8) Sometimes, a non-verbal compliment is just as good
as a verbal compliment. For example, you can nod when
you see something great or act like you're really
enjoying the dinner she has cooked for you.

9) What a woman wants to hear may not be what a woman
is good at. It may be what the woman WISHES she was
good at. Never forget that.

10) To further a conversation, ask a probing question
after a compliment. For example, after complimenting
on a woman's piano skills, ask her more about what
kind of music she likes and get into a conversation
about music.

Good Luck!

9 Ways to Get Yourself A Girlfriend

Here's how you can get a girlfriend in 9 easy steps:

1) Turn off your computer and go out. Expand your social circle as much as you can - I guarantee you will meet MANY women on the way. Join a few hobbie clubs, go to house parties...or even get a volunteer job somewhere. I don't care how you do it. JUST GO OUT AND MAKE AS MANY FRIENDS AS POSSIBLE.

2) Flirt with every woman you meet - even if they are 60 year old's. Let go of all of your expectations and just flirt with women to give them pleasure, not to get anything in return. (As some of my Christian readers have told me, flirting is a way of "giving", not a way of getting. Having this mindset will give you GREAT success with women.)

3) Tease women.

4) Act like a complete challenge.

5) If you come across a woman you would like to meet, get into a conversation with her and ask for her phone number.

6) Go out on a first date and have fun. Focus on building the sexual chemistry. Remember to end the date early.

7) Ask her out again a couple of days later. Keep going out with her. Take it "one date at a time." Just focus on building the chemistry and do not talk about getting together AT ALL.

8) As you continue to date her, remember to keep on advancing physically. Hold her hand, kiss her, stroke her hair, and cuddle with her. It doesn't matter if you kiss her on the first date or on the fifth date, as long you keep advancing forward.

9) Have 7-10 dates with her. If the energy is good, at the end of the 10th date give her a kiss and ask her to become your girlfriend.

And good Luck because the 10th Way - is you got already yourself a Girlfriend.

10 Ways to Develop a Magnetic Personality

Below are the 10 Ways to Develop a Magnetic Personality in order to increase your success with women:
1) HUMOROUS: Funny people are ALWAYS more charismatic than people that are too serious. Funny = Exciting; Serious = Boring, get it?
2) AMBITIOUS: Charismatic men are often driven and hardworking in their pursuit of their impossible dreams. On the other hand, insecure men set goals that are really small because they are afraid of not reaching them. (That's if they set any goals at all.)
3) INTUITIVE: Charismatic men are often good "people-readers". They can read situations and people with ease and build rapport with anyone quickly.
4) PLAYFUL: Charismatic men aren't afraid to flirt and be playful.
5) CREATIVE: Charismatic men are often creative rather than "just practical". They have big dreams and a vivid imagination. They can capture your heart with their ideas, philosophies, and dreams.
6) ADVENTUROUS: Charismatic men are always looking to live their lives to their fullest.
7) SOCIAL: Charismatic men are comfortable talking to anyone about anything. They make friends easily. It is no wonder they connect with women with ease - because they can connect with ANYONE at ease.
8) UNPREDICTABLE: You never quite know what these wild boys will do next.
9) OPTIMISTIC: Nobody likes cynical assholes. Be optimistic about everything, and people will like you more. Remember: there is a sunny side in every situation.
10) LAIDBACK: Charismatic men don't wear their hearts on their sleeves. They are relaxed in every situation and don't let anything get to them.

As you go through this list, ask yourself honestly how many of these qualities you possess. I don't care how much "game" you have. If you don't have an interesting personality, you're going to become very BORING to a woman fast. Furthermore, having a more magnetic personality will allow you to:
- Get far more respect from women than the average person
- Exude self-confidence and power
- Draw women to you with less effort
- Put people at ease and make them feel understood
In short, even though it'll take some serious work on your part to develop these traits in your personality, THE RESULTS WILL BE WORTH YOUR TROUBLE.

Good Luck!

Flirting Using A Funny Teasing Technique

Here's a funny value-building technique that most of the "successful" guys used for flirting.
1) Look around the room for an ugly guy or a "loser". He should be behind where your girl is sitting or standing.
2) Lean closer to the woman and tell her, "There's a guy behind you who's checking you out."
3) Say something like, "Yes, that's him. The guy in the funny shirt. He's been looking at you the whole time. Maybe you should ask him out."
4) She will probably say, "No way! "
5) Say, "Why not? I think he'd be the perfect boyfriend for you. He'll..."
6) From here, list a long list of things that the "average guy" does, such as calling her too often and sending her flowers.
7) Say, "No? Well, then what DO you like?"
8) After she answers, say, "Well, too bad you're too much
of a nice girl for me."
9) Before she can respond, say, "Hey! Look! He's checking you out again!"
10) Change topics and talk about something else. She'll
be dying to ask you why you think she is too much of a nice girl
for you. (So don't be surprised when she suddenly pops the question in a few hours or even a few days. It happens all the time!)

Good Luck!

Flirting with A Nice Eye Contact Trick

25 Signs A Woman Likes You

Here are 25 signs You must remember a woman likes you...
1) She asks people lots of questions about you.
2) She flirts with you, and you only.
3) She talks about you a lot in front of other people.
4) She talks to you about things she has heard from friends.
5) She keeps asking about your love life.
6) She teases you a lot.
7) She blushes in red when she sees you.
8) She tenses up when you touch her but does not attempt to move away at all.
9) She doesn't look away when you check her out.
10)She constantly adjusts or smoothes your clothing's.
11) She starts a conversation with you, when you don't know her.
12) She gives you all her contact information when you just ask for her number or email.
13) She gets jealous when you flirt with other women.
14) She dresses up when sees you.
15) She laughs at all your jokes.
16) She thrusts her breasts out while talking to you.
17) She wants to spend time with you.
18)She's very "obedient".
19) She acts excessively offended when you tease her and tries to get you to "make it up".
20) She TALKS about getting angry at you, but never does.
21) She invites you over at night.
22) She calls you or talks to you for no reason.
23) She asks you out to an event with her.
24) She comments how great you smell.
25) She plays with your hair.


Good Luck!

Flirt Test is Effective

A reader emailed me and asked if I could post some "body language signs" that shows a woman's attraction for a man.

The answer is "NO" because body language signs are WAY too easy to be misused or abused.

There are a lot of books out there that state crazy things such as, "If a woman tilts her head at 45 degrees while looking at you from her shoulder and smiling at you with her legs crossed, she must be attracted to you."

This is utterly USELESS in my opinion. In fact, I really think it's all b@llsh*t.

My motto is always KISS, or "Keep it Simple, Stupid!"

I don't need to check 15 different body language indicators to see if a woman is attracted to me. I just do the "Flirt Test".

When I want to find out if a girl is attracted to me, I merely flirt with her a little bit. If she flirts back, then I flirt more.

I just keep testing the waters and raising the chemistry until she's all over me.

This works MUCH better than sitting back while "looking for body language signs", which is really passive AND useless.

Good Luck!

How to Flirt Online

Are you wondering How do you flirt with women on the Internet?

One easy way to flirt with women online is by writing a fairy tale with her while you're chatting with her on Yahoo Messenger. (Or any other instant messaging program.)

Here's how to do it:

1) Tell her you're working on a masterpiece. Ask her if she would like to hear it.

2) Choose a basic story as your framework. (Knight saves princess, etc.)

3) Put her in the role of the princess. Put yourself in the role of the hero or knight. Stick her title in front of her name as you tell her the story to make it cuter. ("Princess Mary" or "Princess Joanne" or whatever.)

4) Start by saying "Once upon a time, there a princess called..."

5) Add yourself into the story.

6) Add a dumb guy you both know (or a famous person) as the villain.

7) Work mutual friends into the story as you can. (Have a buddy as the village idiot and her friend as the princess's maid, for example.)

8) Have the hero save the princess from the bad guy.

9) Tell her you haven't finished the story yet.

10) Use a tease-false-ending. "Robin John dumps Princess Marion onto the ground and rides off to the sunset alone."

11) Watch her whine and tell you how that's not the way it should be.

12) Ask her to come up with a better ending. She will.

13) Tell her you have to go and say something like "Sweet dreams. Dream about your prince, princess ." 


Good luck guys! and happy FLIRTING!

Two Keys To Getting More Women

These are the Two Secret KEYS to Getting More Women


The first key is to GO OUT, GO OUT, and GO OUT some more.

It always amazes me how so many guys expect to meet women when they spend most of their time playing video games or watching television at home. How's staying at home going to improve your love life? The more you go out, the more people you will meet. And the more people you will meet, the more WOMEN you will meet, period.
I know it probably sounds like common sense. That's because it is.

And common sense WORKS!

If you don't have much of a love life right now, then I want you to go out more and meet more friends. It*WILL* help. I promise you!


Secret Key #2) The second key is to FLIRT with the girls you meet. 

If you never flirt, then no matter how many girls you meet, they will just end up seeing your as their "friend." Without a romantic spark, you will NOT get anywhere with these women.

Being serious around women will NOT help you in dating. You *have* to be playful. Serious is boring, playful is fun, get it?

Good Luck!

101 Ways To Be Playful With Women

There are so many ways to be playful with women. Below are 20 of them which is one way or another will enhance your flirting prowess towards women.  But keep in mind that these are only examples.

Of course, one must have a playful ATTITUDE to being playful! Right?

So, here the few examples of  the 101 Ways to Be Playful with Women:

1) Poke her.

2) Tackle her.

3) Lift her up.

4) Challenge her to arm wrestling.

5) Play thumb war with her.

6) Give her a piggy back ride...and run as fast as you can.

7) Throw something tiny at her. Then look away and whistle as
she looks at you.

8) Steal something from her and make her wrestle you to get
it back.

9) Twirl her around.

10) Pinch her nose and shake it like she's a plush toy.

11) Role-play with her.

12) Give her a nickname.

13) Do a dumb little dance.

14) Pretend you are her and exaggerate.

15) Play with a small animal with her.

16) Play with a small kid with her.

17) Take her to skating or mini-golf. Goof around a bit.

18) Play tic-tac-toe with her on a frosted window.

19) Cover her eyes from behind.

20) Tap her on one shoulder and walk the other way.

Good Luck!

How Women Fall In Love

This maybe an outrageous theory on How women Fall In Love.

But, I want to tell you that we fall in love when we're NOT in our crush's presence. Right?

Remember the last time you fell in love with a girl? How did it happen?

If I am correct, I bet you had felt an attraction for her as soon as you saw her. But after you had gone home...you couldn't help but to think about her more and more...and as you thought about her more and more...and imagined yourself in all sorts of romantic situations with her...you suddenly realized that you are in love...

Does it sounds familiar? Do you remember your first love?

I think a similar process happens with women. When they meet a guy they like, they may feel an attraction for him. But they ONLY fall in love LATER when they are NOT in the guy's presence anymore. They fall in love as they later think about the guy and wonder, "Does he like me? Or does he not?"

Here are a few ideas on how you can use this concept to attract women:

1) Don't Be Too Available: Let women think about you and fall in love in the process. 

2) Don't Tell Her You Like Her: Let her wonder instead! 

3) End Dates Early: Give her more reason to think about you.


Good luck with women!

How To Ask A Woman By Granting Her Permission

Today's tip is going to be very short...

    I'm going to teach you a good way to "ask" a woman to
do something, such as coming up to your apartment.

    Instead of saying, "Would you like to come in?", say
"You can come in for a couple of minutes."

    By using "can" instead of "would you like to", not
only are you acting like a challenge by not asking her like
a wuss, you are also GRANTING HER PERMISSION and presupposing
that she has EARNED it.

    This way, you can ask a woman to come back to your
place WHILE acting like a challenge!

Good Luck!

Volunteering Your Way to Paradise

A very good way of meeting nice girls:  
By Volunteering.

Most volunteer places are places where the females outnumber guys 10 to 1. Also, today most volunteers are younger college students, etc who are there to pick up work experience. This means they are going to be young and cute! These girls also make nice girlfriends because no cold, lying, cheating, bad girl who enjoys playing guys would have the heart to waste time volunteering! They would much rather spend all their time cheating on guys instead!

When you volunteer, try to find a volunteering job you would actually enjoy. Do you like art? Work at the art museum. Keep in mind that the volunteers who work at your destination will probably share the same interests as you. What a great basis for a friendship or relationship!

Now go down to that hospital and meet all the young nurses! Good Luck!

Assertive 101

Women's Secret Fantasy

Women's Secret Fantasy

Women love it when their men are in control. It's their
secret fantasy. So don't act like a little wimp going out with his mother when you go out with a woman, okay?


     When you walk into a restaurant, choose where to seat. Just say "Let's sit over there" and take her hand. If she makes a suggestion about where to sit, say something like "No. Let's sit over there. It seems like a nice spot." and just take her there. No further questions.


     I am not asking you to be a control freak. I just want you to start acting more assertive. Most guys are too weak in this area.


     Women love to "surrender completely" to a guy. So make their secret and darkest fantasy come true, okay?

Slow Down If You Want To Get Women

Slow Down If You Want To Get Women. When you talk, talk slow. When you move, move slow. Yes!

Why?  Because slowing down will make you come off as a much more confident and mysterious person. Don't believe me? Try to rent any old James Bond movie. Really observe the way Bond moves. See if he's ever in a rush when there aren't any bombs exploding around him.

Remember, a man who is in control has no reason to be in a hurry. They are always relaxed because they just KNOW they are in charge of the situation. Every movement a confident man makes is slow and almost "calculated". Just like James Bond, he just knows when to pick up his cup and when to raise an eyebrow. Women know this, and that's why they go for the "strong, silent type."

Want proof?  Okay, here's a more "recent" example. Remember Joe Millionaire on TV? Not the smartest guy, is he? But women find him dead sexy. He's not exactly what I would call the most articulate person in the world, but all the ladies (including my mother) dig him because of his body language. If you observe the way Evan moves on TV, you will find that he's just about the slowest guy on earth.

Want more examples? Okay. Just watch any episode of  "Blind Date" or the "5th Wheel". The strong, silent and slow  type ALWAYS win and get picked at the end. As for the hyperactive goofballs, they almost never get the girls.  Now, who would YOU rather be? The stud or the goofball?

Advancing To Conquer Her

"Advancing" To Conquer Her.  Yes.  It sounds all too simple, but I can guarantee you its true. When you are seducing a woman, every move you make should bring you closer to home base. Dont waste your time idling or depending on "luck". If you want something, you will have to get it yourself. And if you want to get into a girls pants, you will have to strip her defense down bit-by-bit, piece-by-piece, and step-by-step.

When you meet her, get her phone number. When you have her phone number, get a date. When you go out with her, hold her hand. When you're holding her hand, kiss her. Know what I mean? Let me list the steps a man typically has to go through to sleep with a woman.

1)    Initial Meeting
2)    Phone Number
3)    Date
4)    Hold Hands
5)    Kiss
6)    Cuddle
7)    Touch With Shirt On
8)    Hands under Shirt
9)    Foreplay
10)    Sex

In order to go from step one to ten, you will have to keep advancing. The trick to doing this is to keep working and working to get her ready for the next level. For example, if she isn't ready for a kiss, keep flirting with her till she wants one. If she doesnt want to take her bra off, sniff her neck and cuddle till she wants you to be all over her. She's worried about sex? Turn her on more with foreplay till shes begging you for it. Here's a good one. Tease her by saying, "All you have to say is please." If she says no, go back to cuddling and touching. Eventually she will be screaming YES.

Dont worry if you hit a few obstacles. Every time you bump into a wall, just see it as an opportunity to find out more about the girl. This is all information you can use later. See it as narrowing down a list of what she might like. Eventually you will find her sweet spot. No pun intended.

How To Compliment a Girl

How to compliment a woman the proper way. Remember that girls love compliments.
You must know that there is a little girl inside every woman who wants to be loved. And this is why if you make a good compliment the right way, she is going to be very happy.

Remember that attractive women are usually used to compliments. I can bet you that a good-looking woman gets compliments on her looks wherever she goes. If she really is beautiful, she already knows it. What's more, she was born with her body, so if you're just complimenting on her perfect body, you're really complimenting the Creator, not her.

       So how can you be different than the rest of the guys? Well, there is only one thing you need to remember:

      Your compliments will have to be special. In every way.

1) Compliment On Whats REALLY Special About Her:

       You should always compliment on something unique like what she has done. Don't bother to compliment on her good looks because she was born with it. Compliment her on a funny joke she has made or a skirt she has made by herself.  Or compliment her positive attributes such as her personality or honesty.

2) Be Detailed:

       Always be detailed and clear. Girls love details. By the
way, if she is wearing socks that match with her top, its not
by coincidence. Let her know you noticed.

3) Mean What You Say:

       Really look into her eyes when you compliment her. Also,
never use false flattery. If you say something, then mean it.
Or at least practice till you sound like you mean it. Trust me,
after repeating something so many times, you will start to
believe it. =)

4) Don't Overdo It:

       Your compliments will only be special if you compliment
her every once in awhile. The less you compliment a woman, the more it will mean to her.

5) Only Compliment Her Because She Is Special

       Most guys compliment a girl because they want a date.
Don't be like them. Compliment her because she is special, and
because you want to. I personally like to compliment a girl and
then leave. This always makes a girl warmer to me the next time
I see her again.

      If you do this to someone you don't know, she will be
flattered and try to find out who you are as you walk away!
Good Luck!

Inside Jokes and Pet Names

Here's a quick tip that can turbocharge your love life by creating an impression of intimacy with the women you meet.

    Okay. Whenever a woman tells you a story, pull out a little phrase or joke that invokes your Quarrys favorite part.
Or make up a phrase or joke about a situation you two have been in. 

    Now let time PASS before you invoke the joke in a conversation. Remember the longer you wait, the stronger the punch will be when it finally comes!

    You may also think of a cute nickname for your girl.  Use it to tease her every once in awhile: it will create a sense
of intimacy if you do it correctly!

Getting Your First Kiss

The KILLER way to get your first kiss with a girl. Here's the secret how?

PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES

Let me ask you a question...how badly do you want a girl? 
.....Then Start Flirting Now!

Flirting Technique: Use Nicknames

    When you get closer to a woman, make up a cute nickname
    for her.

Flirting Technique: Touch Her Back

    If she starts touching you, then touch her on the
    shoulder or arm when you laugh. Increase the frequency of
    touching as the night goes on.

Flirting Technique: Leave Her Wanting More

    Do what strippers do the guys. Get a girl all hot and
    then leave her wanting more!

Flirting Technique: Laugh At Her Jokes
   
    Laugh at her jokes whenever she makes one. Touch her on
    the arm lightly when you laugh if she's already touching you.

Flirting Technique: Listen To Her Stories

    Pay attention to what she says. Be focused on her, not
    on the hot waitress.

Flirting Technique: Drop A Compliment

    Drop her a compliment every once in awhile. Not too often
    though!

Flirting Technique: Tease Her

    Incorporate teasing into your flirting. Tease her till
    she's wet!

Flirting Technique: Get More Personal

    Ask her more and more personal questions as the evening
    progresses. Things about her childhood, etc!

 Flirting Technique: Stir Your Drink

    Stir your drink with a rhythm as you talk to her.
    The effect can be "hypnotizing" under the right
    atmosphere.

Flirting Technique: Lower Your Volume

    Lower and lower your volume so she has to lean towards
    you to listen.

Flirting Technique: Whisper

    When she gets close enough, whisper to her. This works
    well in a bar, when the music is so loud you have to
    talk in each other ears.

Flirting Technique: Be Playful

    Ask yourself the following questions:
        1)    How much fun can I have tonight?
        2)    What sorts of interesting things can I
              find out about this girl?

Well?  It is up to you now guys. Good Luck!

Flirting is the Ultimate KEY

As you probably know already, flirting is the ultimate KEY to building up sexual chemistry with women.

So,  here are some of the flirting moves that I would like you to try. Hope you will share your respective experiences by posting in the comment section of this blog if these tips are effective.

Flirting Technique: Eye-Contact

    Most of flirting is done with your eyes. Keep good
    eye-contact on a woman when you talk to her. Just keep
    your eyes focused on her a bit "too long."

Flirting Technique: Say "Hello" With Energy

    When you approach a woman, say "Hello" in a flirty way.
    It will make her think you are sexier than the average
    geek who walks up to her and gives her a shy "Hi".

Flirting Technique: Shake Her Hand A Bit Too Long

    When you shake her hand, let your hand stay on hers
    for a bit too long and then brush against her hand as
    you pull back. Do this while smiling and looking into
    her eyes sincerely. You don want to come off as a
    pervert.

Flirting Technique: Repeat The Woman's Name

    As you talk to her, repeat her name as much as you can.
    Say her name slow, softly and sensually each time you
    say it.

    Example: "Hello, De-bbie, I am very glad you came
          here..."

These are just a few of so many PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES that will make the girl you want fall for you.  And the best part is...the techniques are all so easy to follow, you will be dating beautiful women in no time.

Good Luck! More PROVEN FLIRTING TECHNIQUES will be posted here so do not fail to visit my blog as often as you want.

Basic Preparations in Dating

Here is a quick list of little things to look out for before you even attempt to go near a woman:

1) Keep your nails clean and cut them often. Long nails only look great on girls.

2) Wear a deodorant. There's nothing worse then being around a smelly pig.

3) Keep your teeth clean and your breath fresh.

4) You can wear a little bit of cologne, but remember that none is better then too much when it comes to cologne. Do what girls do. Spray some in the air and then WALK THROUGH IT.

5) Shower often.

6) Get a nice watch. Doesn't have to be a Rolex. Just anything without a LCD screen will do.

7) Throw away any shirts with sweat stain marks.

8) Keep your glasses clean and your shoes shiny.

Yes, this is all simple common-sense. But you would be suprised at the number of guys who are going to screw up because they forget to do these things. Don't be one of them. 

Women do not Care About a Man Loves Them

Yes it is true. Women do not care about a man loves them.

They only care about how much THEY like a man. I am sure you like her, but does she like you? YOU DON'T KNOW! 

Remember the key to attraction is...it's not how much you're attracted to a woman, but how much she is attracted  to YOU that matters.

Most of the time, men who "gather the courage" to "suddenly tell the girl he loves her" usually do it at the "wrong" time, like when a girl least expects it. Surprises are scary and women don't know how to react. Their NATURAL reaction is to turn you down on the spot ("I have a boyfriend" or "I am not looking for someone right now", etc) just to be safe - even if they regret it later.

So, instead of putting the focus on your feelings and worrying about how you can tell her you love her, I want you to focus on getting HER to tell you she likes you.

The best thing you must do is FLIRTING with her. This will allow you to see if she likes you or not. If she ignores you or doesn't respond well to the flirting, then she's not interested in you. But if she flirts back, she wants you!

Start flirting with her and drive the chemistry up. It's time to ATTRACT her, not to chase her. Your goal is to get  HER to fall for you and eventually ask you the "Are we together?" question. Good Luck!

Dating is Easy

Dating is EASY
If you know how - but you must still put in somework. I can show you all the little secrets you can use to meet, attract and date beautiful women, but you must PUT THEM TO USE.

You must be willing to change what you do habitually if you want to become successful with women. After all, to get things you've never had before, you must first do things you've never done before. Makes simple sense, doesn't it? Remember: if you just keep on what you've been doing all these years, you will just keep on getting what you've got - NOTHING! 

Dating is a Skill
Contrary to popular beliefs, seducing beautiful women is a skill you can learn. Most "players" out there get laid not because they are rich and handsome, but because they are skilled in what they do in their past time - picking up women. They are the people who have been rejected over and over before finally picking up the skills they need to be successful with women.

The good news for you, my friend, is that these skills can be learned by anyone. This means anyone, regardless of his looks, wealth, and status, can become a master at picking up women once they have learned the right skills.

Every skill needs to be learned. You had to learn how to walk, how to talk, how to read, how to use a computer and so on. These are all skills you had to learn because you needed them. And meeting woman is just another skill you should learn - the sooner the better.

Confidence comes from Your Knowledge
Most men who are shy around women are only shy because they don't know what they are doing. Everybody has a few strong areas and a few weak ones. We're all confident in the areas we're best at and less confident in the areas we're not so good at.

If you're good at computer programming and I asked you to write a simple program for me, you'd probably take the job since you know you can code well. Same if you're in the army and I asked you to take a M16 apart and put it back together again. But what if I asked you to walk up to a beautiful woman and introduce yourself to her? You'd probably freak out because you'd feel small and insecure around such a beautiful Goddess.

But what if you knew what you were doing? What if you knew exactly when to approach her, exactly what to say, and exactly how to seduce her on the spot? What if you knew all the little hot buttons you could push to make her hot and sweaty for you? Attracting women would then be extremely easy for you - because you'd know precisely what you have to do to make a woman fall  in love with you.

So do yourself a favor: Start learning and practicing the fine art of  dating. Good Luck!